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conkatliz

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  1. Hello Dustinthewind, after reading about your situation I can not help but ask,"do you think there is a chance that your boyfriend could be bi-sexual? If his friend is a model he must be very attractive. Well if you think he is attractive I am sure so does your boyfriend. I might open up my eyes and start paying closer attention to how close they sit while playing video games?
  2. What you need to try is stop thinking so much about me me me me and start thinking more about her. Put yourself in her shoes. Try it! It is called fair
  3. My advice on your situation would have to be let it go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If yall have been apart for that long and there really is love between you two, then the only hope you have is in forgetting and forgiving!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  4. It is so hard for me to believe that anyone is born with a heart anymore. No one has consideration for anyone else's feelings or respect for anyone else. We wonder why our prisons are over crowded!!!!!!
  5. Usually if the break up is bitter the last thing you want to hope for is to see him/her again. But yes I had this and 11 years later out of the blue he calls me. By this time I was not bitter anymore but I still did not want to dig up that part of my life ever again. Let sleeping dogs lie.
  6. Put yourself in your husbands shoes. Would it be an affair if your husband was doing the exact same things but with a women you did not know? Think about it and you will have your answer. Conkatliz
  7. I have a very simple solution to your problem. This is what I would do, I would swap roles with my boyfriend. Think about it, picture your boyfriend at work for eight hours everyday with this really goodlooking blonde, with long legs and no wedding ring. Your boyfriend is very attracted to her and vise versus. Would you still think it was harmless for them to continue to flirt with each other everyday? If you will do this then you will receive your answer. Conkatliz
  8. My heart goes out to you, I hope you feel the need to go out and make some new friends, some that have not heard your story 1000 times. I am sorry that I am being so blunt, but when we decide to go off and dump the best thing that has ever happened to us it causes a lot of heart break. In the last seven years I have had to change friends plenty, because they have had to listen to me and some of them cut me out of there lives, because no one likes to see you hurts yourself when you know damn good and well what you are doing. Listen hang in there it does get better it just takes awhile.
  9. Ok! Today is January 1st, a good day to start over fresh. Hi my name is Connie and I would just like to say," She's single again!!!" Thank you everyone for all of your encouraging words. You don't even know how they have helped me.
  10. I have a fear of being alone. I just need to know that I will survive.
  11. I totally agree! Might I say I am very impressed with your courage. You are a very strong willed person! Thank you for your story it helped me. Conkatliz
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    jealousy

    Do not test someone unless you are ready for them to fail. When you are the only one that gets hurts in situations like this. Conkatliz
  13. Why? Does there always have to be games? Why can't anyone just be straight up anymore? If you don't love them get away from them. I'm sorry I am going through the same thing and I just do not understand it. Conkatliz
  14. Only you know what is in your heart, and how much pain your heart can handle.
  15. I am leaving because my partner lives down the road with one of his friends and they have led me to believe that they are having a bisexual relationship without really coming out and telling me this.
  16. I am going to spare you my long story and cut right to the chase. I am ready to leave him but how do I stay away? I don't have a problem leaving, my problem is staying away from him???????? help????????? Conkatliz
  17. It does not matter what you do in this situation just always remember you are not the reason your husband turned to a man. This little gender conflict your husband is having he has been having his whole life. He just decided to advertise it while he still has you as his wife. That is very selfish and cruel. You do not deserve this. Conkatliz
  18. Wow! I am so glad I registered for this site. I can not believe there is actually someone out there going through the same thing I am. I am going to have to agree with almost all these replies, we need to find our self respect. But how? Conkatliz
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