Ladee-Jennifer

dont u ever feel like the people u talk to and hang out with dont really know you know you?you tend to feel left out and not a part of the circle..well thats what im feeling write about now.....i want to have friends i feel like i know n that they know me....i dont want to have to act like a different person when im around them....n im sick and tired of feelin like the poop on the bottom of a shoe.....if anyone lese feels this way please reply......how do u deal with it? and how do u learn to love urslef?

i hope your pain does heal.........you gave her your heart and instead of keeping it she gave it back.......but most importantly stay strong and keep no contact.its makes it easier...i really do hop you feel better.best wishes ----------------------------------------------- Dont give me your heart and take it away because love is forever and not for a day......-personal quote

if 2 people are in a ralationship does it really matter who breaks up with who first.....my friend broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago.... and she only did it because she found out he was going too,despite the fact that she still likes him......what is your feedback on this.......does it matter?what do you think? --------------------------------------------------------------------------- falling in love nowadays is like finding a $50 on the street you have to be lucky.........

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hey drumson............i understand what your going through with friends and with ralationships its hard i should know im there too. especially when you constantly feel down on yourself. i admire you for wanting to change but before you do,set your goals.What do you want to change about yourself. aNd confront your friends(seems like all they're there for is to create problems),about the way they're treating you. like i sed i know what your going through n i know how it is to just sit down write poems and express your feelings to a pen and paper. but sometimes thats not enough.s0 i hope my advice helps you...feel free to send me a message whenever you want. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "If friends are supposed to help you through lifE then why are mine making my LifE hell"

i know you wanted a resonse from a guy but i understand from a personal level. its hard. Im also shy myself n fat, i cant really talk to a guy without giving off a stand-offish or cold attitude towards them too. all guys seem to want a perfect skinny athletic girl but lets face it, some girls who are skinny and "supposedly" beautiful can act as real biatches. and wen they meet those kind of girls they'll probably b turned off....u give off a stand offish attitude at first, because ur shy but deep down ur probably a really great person just waiting for a prince to realize that.(also if u didnt have such a great personality y do u have so many friends.) and trust me ur not going to die as a old maid with tons of cats. i thought i would never find a guy because of my appearance but i did n he became my first love. s0 dont give up, he's out there some where lookin for u. g0oD luCK. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- y0u can erase someone from your mind but getting the out of your heart is another story.

do u ever get the feeling ur lonely even though u have friends and family.sometimes i feel that way. i try to have real conversations with my friends but i get the feeling they dont care. also out of no where i start crying n i dun noe y. not only do i feel lonely but these guys at my skool always pick on me. they call me names n make fun of the way i look. do u have any solutions. i'd apreciate ur help. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- You talk like u know me but you dont

What do u do wen u get the feeling dat u n ur best friend are slowly becoming strangers? lately me n my best friend sorta stop talkin. i used to walk her home even though it was out of my way. we used to talk all the time despite the fact me n her are in different classes. see me n her used to be in the same class so this year when me n her werent we both started finding new people to talk to. the people i started talking to, we bcame good friends, and vice versa with the new people she started talking to. turns out the new people we were talking to were really closed with each other. so it was a big group and the best part was me n my best friend still remained good friends. then...............there was a fight in the group. but it didnt involve me and my best frienD but somehow we got caught in the middle...........and we stopped talkin we "picked" sides. when the fight was resolved we agreed to make peace. but nothing was the same. we stopped talkin again...........i started walkin home with my friends n she started walkin home with her friends......this year were graduating n i dunt want to end it this way, losing a good friend. any ideas how to fix this problem? -------------------------------------------------------------life is full of hills. so b ready to jump over it

I think shes a hypocrite, she talks much sh** about people she doesnt even know and how much she hates and what she hates about them then two seconds later shes acting just like the people she hated and despised. I seriously think ur a great guy. she left you after u practically gave her ur whole world. WoW! what a reject. she was so lucky to have you n she didnt even c it. Plus u still care about what happens to her even though u guys broke up. C'mOn now, u sound like a perfect guy righ there. And it is normal to have mood swings when ur out with friends. i was exactly like that when my ex left me. since u go out more then u used too its not torturing urself ur trying to heal ur broken heart.the fact that this grl u like whos close with ur ex seems like she could be intrested or shes trying to b der in ur time of need. before tellin her ur attracted to her wait a while, let her get to know u.As for healing and meeting new people, live life like any other day before u know it ur dream girl will b right in front of u.I hope ur ex realizes what shes doing to herself or what she did. If she doesnt wake up soon and smell the coffee before she knows it shes going to be ina sticky situation she doesnt want to be in. gOOd lUck! (ur eX-gOod luCk) ---------------------------------------------------- take one step forward and everything else will fall into place.

i was searching the internet for advice columns n i found this website. dis website helps me help my self n help others in need.

my little heart is broken but what can i do? all i find myself thinking about is how much i love you memories we've shared, tears i've cried this pain wont go away no matter how much i try ---------------------------------------------- (i wrote this for you) to the guy i lost. i regret ever losing you. u stole my heart n took my breath away. if u only knew how much i cared. it wouldnt matter anyways if i told u how i felt because u already forgot me and found someone new. ---------------------------------------------- time heALs all WOunDs.......timE hAs paSsed n yEt im stiLL hurtIng

GrEat poeM loved it.i can so relate to it. i noe u wrote it to express what ur goin through but u helped me with a problem i was having thanx.

Beec is right dont tell him.....yET. get to know him talk to him.also let him get to know what a wonderful person u are b cuz after u noe each other better its easier for him and you to start a ralationship. you'll both noe each other. PlUs Its easier for you to commmunicate b cuz you'll know what to talk about. GoOd LuCK. -------------------------------------------------------- "I thought i had him all figured out but, i learned there was more to him"

I understand what ur going through. it happened to me too. i think u should tell her how u feel. Like rainswept said life is short and its better doing things then wondering what if. GOing to that next step is difficult but sometimes in the end you will find that it'll be worth it. gOod LUck. ------------------------------------------------------------- its easier to turn a friendship into love than turn love into friendship

I completely understand what your going through. LAtely i've been feeling lonely myself. Sometimes i try telling my friends buh i get the same feeling that they reely dont care. SO what i do(may sound corney)is i write down what im feeling and what im going through. If im angry, sad, or just plain bored. Its not reely what you call a diary its more like a friend. A friend who listens to wha you have to say. a friend you can tell anything without having them blab it out to complete strangers. g0od LucK!

IM haPpy for YOu! ---------Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.

gooD luCK!

I think you do have a chance with her. I also think you should tell her how you feel. THe longer you wait the harder it gets. but first if she flirts with you flirt bak. try showing her you like her without telling her so she sorta gets the picture. --------------------------------------------------------------------It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel."

It was a good idea to give him space. I noe ur hurting right now. When my ex/bes friend broke up with me it tore my heart in two. GIve it some time. d0es he knoe why you were acting grumpy? if not then try explaining to him what had happened. if he's a good guy he'll understand. also time heals all wounds. soon it'll be better. g0oD luCK-He's very lucky to have someone who cares about him as much aS u do. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- "If you love something let it go, If it comes back to you it's yours, If it doesn`t, it never was."

i understand where ur coming from. Im having the same exact problem. my ex broke up with me a year ago. Im so angry at him sometimes. aNd other times i find myself upset. . a year later here i am today.the worst thing about it is he's in my class.and he tells me everything. hes about to hook up with one of my close friends. and during the day i find my self getting angry or feeling as if im about to shed a tear. i feel lonely sometimes and i feel as if i wont be able to ever have someone to love.so dun worry it is normal.and as for closure i dun have a answer for that. me myself has not even found closure.all i noe is time heals all wounds.G0oD luCK .

^Love is not just holding hands,kissing,and saying you do.You have to feel it. you think about him/her all the time. its when you would put their life before yours. Love makes you do unthinkable things just to make one person smile. Love is one of life's blessings. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------You always find love where you least expect it................

i understand where ur coming from.when me and my ex broke up a few days later he wanted to get bak together.but. i was still hurting at the time and i wanted to take a break just like u.needing some time was a good idea.because u get to think about ur ralationship and is it really worth it. i think its brave of u to tell him u love him and u want to be with him. I dont he has given up on you. he's probably just having some doubts like u did. if he really loves you he'll come bak to u.i also think u should keep talking to him. so he knows ur there waiting for him. g0oD lUcK! -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------"If you love something let it go, If it comes back to you it's yours, If it doesn`t, it never was."

My ex and me were best friends until we started going out.everything was good at first.But,when we broke up we stopped talking to each other for awhile.A year later me and him are in the same class. i decided to put everything behind me and move on. i introduced him to one of my closest friends. Both of them started talking but it didnt bother me. Then a few weeks later she tells me that she likes him and that she wanted me to hook them up. I hesitated at first but, i decided to anyway. when i was talking ta him i found out dat he liked her too. And he sed ANd i quote"I like her alot...i think we might populate the earth together".when he said that i dont know what happened. I started ignoring him and my friend. and lately i've been treating them really bad. i dont like acting this way but i cant help it. i dont know y.if u have a suggestion please respond. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- +learn like u will live f0rever, live like u would die t0m0r0+

b4 me n my ex we were goin out we were bes friends. so he calls me sometimes to jus talk. the other night he called n told me dat he asked out my bes friend gloria n she sed yes. i was shocked b cuz knowing gloria she hates n always talk shit bout my him. so i called my other bes friend to c if he was telling the truth. she denied it at first n den she admitited after 20 minutes of talking. right after she hanged up i wus really upset b cuz i still care n love my ex. n gloria knew that. should i b madd wit her? or should i jus let it go since me n him did brake up ?

Recently my boyfriend/bes guy friend broke up wit me. he told me that he loved me so much n dat he would neva would brake up wit me b cuz he needed me in his life.i still talk to him n c him evryday. cuz we have all da same friends n were all really close. n it hurts fo me ta c him n b around him. i still love him so much. i dont noe wa im suppose ta do. n plus on top of dat he likes my two bes friends now hes been calling me a b****. which i completely dont understand. so if u have advice it would really help right about now. cuz im madd at da world n i end up takin my anger out on other people.