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Well, I'll just be honest I guess. I'm fat. Overweight, Obese, Big, Whatever the hell you wanna call it. Anyhow, I'm also REALLY shy. I actually remember that when I was younger I didn't used to be this shy. Then for some reason I got older and now im REALLY REALLY shy. I guess I realized that I wasn't one of the skinny girls. Depressing sometimes, but I've learned to live with it. I was born this way and I really doubt I'll ever be skinny, no matter how much exercising or dieting i try to do. So the fact that I was shy as a child, and now im even shyer (is that a word?) now I have almost no guy friends. I feel like such an idiot when I talk to them, even if I'm not attracted to them. I'm not a loner or anything, I have a lot of friends but most of them are girls. Anyways, I just want to know if all guys only want those "skinny" or "athletic" girls? And I know a lot of people say "it's your personality that counts!" but seriously, I don't have the greatest personality, either. A lot of people think I'm kind of "stand-offish" or "cold" towards them when in reality I'm trying not die of shyness when a stranger talks to me. So it's looking hopeless to me. I'm beginning to think I'm just going to die an old maid with tons of cats... Sorry if I was boring anyone. Anybody got comments, feel free to tell me them.

ummm. this is a little embarressing but, I'm a girl and I'm 17 and I always seem to be thinking about sex. Is this normal? I keep thinking that because I'm a girl I shouldnt be thinking about it THIS much. I'm starting to feel guilty about it. Am I weird? Or what? Oh ya, plus sometimes i think about weird things too. like...fantasies of control or whatever. I mean not rape, but like...the guy is dominant you know? Is that weird too?

Well...this is really embarressing but I was wondering, and it really worries me. If a girl masturbates (fingers herself, not just rubbing, etc.) and shes a virgin is it possible to break the hymn? Because I'm scared to do that in case that happens...so, it would help me if somebody could give me advice.

Hi. I've been reading some of the things on the Cyber Relationships forum and I wanted to ask something. I met this guy online almost 4 years ago. (He's a year younger than me) We were friends for about a year and a half because the whole online relationship thing didn't appeal to me really plus I didn't tell him very much about my personal life (like my real name, where i lived, etc.) because i know there's a lot of weirdos out there. I have to say he's a lot more trusting than me because he told me his real name and everything from the beginning. Well about a year after we'd been talking (at least 4 or 5 times a week) he got a webcam and he let me watch it. I told him my real name when i saw him on webcam and eventually i told him where i lived and everything. I'd never told anybody online any of this (and i still haven't) because i guess i'm a little paranoid. After I told him all that we started saying we loved each other, and we still do (it's been 2 and a half years since we started a "cyber relationship" and 4 years since i met him). The problem is he's on the other side of the country from me. We talk all the time online and we call each other a few times a month. I just want to know if anybody thinks I'm being stupid for feeling this way about him. If he had just automatically decided to say "i love you" the first day i met him i wouldnt still be talking to him because i dont think people who know each other in person should do that. you can't love somebody the first time you meet them (that's my opinion anyways). If anybody wants to tell me their opinion I would be grateful. P.S. isn't that a cute smiley? i think it is...lol \