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CarrieB123

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  1. My parents said it to me all the time too, and later in life I found out that my grandma didnt say it to my dad, which made him want to say it to me and my brother even more. Just a thought. And try this maybe, because I love to hear I love you, but I also like to see "I love you" meaning without the words, with actions. And I am sorry about asking you about your parents loving you I was just making a joke, I think sometimes I am the only one who really thinks that I am all that funny. Thats what me and my dad say too at the end of conversations, he says just incase something ever happened to either of us, the last words to eachother would be "I Love You"
  2. I couldnt agree more with DN And sometimes girls tend to over think things... But didn't your parents say it to you? Just kiddin, I was being the "over-thinking women" LOL!
  3. I don't think the porn you are looking at is weird, with the porn that my b/f and I watched together the only scenes I liked were the women on women, and I know that I am not gay, its just that the women's body is much more attractive naked, and porno men are kind of gross.
  4. Well maybe you should ask yourself "would I rather masturbate or have sex with my partner?" that may answer your question. And I dont think it is all that unhealthy to do it alot or to look at porn. Guys do it ALL the time, and nobody thinks they are weird for it. Plus I firmly believe its healthy, your 25 which is nearing your sexual peak, so "vibe on, I SAY" and I love your quote, WHOO hoo kelly clarkson!
  5. You need to be a bit more careful, if you are "ripping" that is not good. If you are really young I suggest that you hold off a bit more, sex too early sometimes leads to sexual problems later on. And if the guy is much older your body may not be ready for sex with him yet.
  6. I give you credit for coming out with your feelings, its hard to be "shallow and nitpicky" but from time to time we all are. I really truly wouldn't worry too much about what your kids may look like or their health, cause there is nothing you can do about that. I think you need to really think about your feelings though because the feelings you are having may not go away, they might get worse, and you dont want to end up hurting him.. Good luck!
  7. I agree with you and commend you for saying that. 15 is probably one of the hardest ages to be, so keep up the positive thinking!!!
  8. You can suggest a break, but be prepared to hear her end of it. She may break it off completely, or see other ppl during your "break" so it may "bit you in the butt" but let her know exaclty what you mean, dont be vague. Explain that you think it will better your relationship.
  9. Another thought is that the information you received is false, maybe your ex's new g/f is still desired by her ex. and he may be using you to break them up so he can have her back, just a thought. opps I think DN just said that, oh well, it might be the truth.
  10. We are in the same place sister...Its like sometimes I feel like, "ok, I got what I wanted...wait did I really want this again? huh? did I" That is, espically when I am reminded of why we split before, I havent done anything rash, but I am not sure if these feelings are normal or a sign of what I really want or need.
  11. Why did she wait until yesterday, I think alot of times ppl "come out with lies/secrets" out of guilt rather than good intentions for the other person. She said she did it to get back at you, why would she want to "get back at you" what did you do? Whoever came up with that "friends" episode should be shot, "on a break" b/s so it's like "fair game cheating" then, not so far!!!
  12. Just sent him a sexy-text. Hope that works!
  13. Yes, blusing tends too be a good sign, but did she laugh in a mean way while she was blushing?
  14. I know us women are suppose to "peek" sexually in our 30's but I am 23 an always willing, espically ever since we got back together. So yes we do it on weekends, and its pretty great. Also, he is usually in the mood more so during the day, and I am not so much, but I do it anyways, its like he wont even throw me a bone. And the only time I have to take care of business myself he is there or my daughter is awake so I cant even do that. As far as being there when he gets home from work is impossible, he gets off work at 3 and I dont until 5.
  15. Like alot of the people who have read this post, I dont know how to answer it, so maybe you could give some details, age and so forth.
  16. I knew I was going to hear something like this, but the thing is we are in a redo-relationship, and our old one became practicly sex-less, and I dont want that to happen again.
  17. He is always "too, tired or not in the mood" but this only happens Mon-Thur. Weekend nights and days are fine. His job forces him to walk between 8-10 miles a day, so I can understand that he is tired, and he gets off work at three then comes home and gets himself off at 3:30. So I think thats why by the time I am home from the gym, and have my daughter in bed, he is ready for sleep. Help any suggestions.
  18. I think that men and women can be friends without a problem, whether they are both married both single or one of each, but the problem here is that he is "scheduling" time with her and forgetting to do things he told his daughter he would do. I would be angry with him, if he was pulling all of this b/s with a male friend. If he is not "acting like himself" I wouldn't completely dismiss the idea of something going on between them sexually, but most likely nothing is happening if he is so open with you about the time he spends with her. Good luck!
  19. I'm sorry the night didn't go exactly "your way" but she is obviously not the girl for you, and it sounds like you are taking it pretty well. The right girls out there!!! I wish you luck!!
  20. Go for it if she makes the move, and you want to. I am thinkin' that she realized what she gave up, and is missing it, that being you. This may be a huge night for you, kind of a make it or break type of night, so PLAY IT COOL.
  21. I would do my best to keep it as just a kiss on the check, thats sweet and it will give her something to think about.
  22. Dont plan the kiss just yet, see where things go, but I think if you are feeling the "kiss on the check" later tonight is right do it. Be fun, and dont bring up past stuff, good luck!
  23. Any hints on how to get him to do it, if he is too shy. I want to watch and have asked him to do it, but he wont.
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