CarrieB123

Its normal, my guy doesn't "shave" but he keeps it trimmed, I think more guys should do it!!!

Do you still have contact with the ex? Have you tried dating other men?

Did you explain NC to her? Cause she is not doing NC if she is emailing and text messaging you. Three weeks is good, I am sure it feels like an eternity. Maybe ask her what her intentions are in getting together.

Dont we all want the honeymoon back... Ahh.. butterflies...

I too had the same idea you are having, didnt end up doing it, but I dont think its a waste of time or money. And your reasoning in doing it doesnt matter, cause she is going to take it however she takes it. Simple suggestion, dont do it as a valentines gift, thats kind of a threat to her currant relationship. And if what you want is her back 20 bucks is worth it, and even if she dosent come running back into your arms, you gave it a shot!!! Its a very powerful movie. Good Luck, let us know how things turn out.

Well, I can only say from my recent experience, I cant speak for all situations. My recent ex and I are trying to work on things slowly, and he admitted to me that he pushed himself into something with this new girl he had started dating after our break, to get his mind off of me. But on the other hand, my high school sweet heart, is still dating the girl he dumped me for, I think they've been together 6 years, AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! So you never know. And as for "love" in two weeks, highly doubt it!

I agree with what DN said, and to add to that, people on the rebound a lot of times look to other people to fill in for what they had in their recently ended relationships, and often times rush into the "I Love You's"

Thanks and I hear ya, I just dont want to get hurt again. That may sound selfish, but it was really an intense break-up, and I feel like I am really putting my self out there to be hurt again.

Help, he and I are trying to do things really slow getting back together. We tried NC, didn't really work. We both have some baggage during our split. I slept with an ex, and he dated someone for like a month. My ex (that I slept with, during the break) is leaving me alone. But the girl he was dating called while he and I were together yesterday, while we were at brunch. He let me hear the voicemail she left, confirming to me that he hadn't talked to her in a while, she was like "it's been a long time since we talked, I started thinking about you, bla bla bla." So I told him "you need to tell her that I am back in the picture, and that talking to her is not an option" which he claims he doesn't want to talk to her. He said she would get the point if he just didn't return her call, I accepted that, even though I would really like reassurance. Then last night he came over and we were going to bed and his cell rang and he showed me it was her, because he is working hard on the honesty thing with me, again I told him to answer and tell her not to call anymore. Another voice mail again confirming that he is telling me the truth (that he is not calling her back), she said "I am a little concerned, because you are really good about returning my calls" He and I got in a fight, and I was like why are you letting someone else effect our working on things. What do I do??? Persist that he calls her in front of me so I hear for myself that he's done with her??? Or Trust him, although I have had tons of trust issues with him?

I know he is crazy about my daughter, I think that is partly why we stayed together for so long, but when we broke up I didnt think for a second that we would get back together so I asked around and got the opinion from most people to end my daughter and his relationship as well. So all of this talking to him I've been doing is behind her back, in a way. They both ask about eachother all the time, but I want to be sure about us before I go through with anything. But the thing is I dont even know what i really want, it almost changes from day to day. And about a lot of guys liking women with children, I wouldnt say that is too true, espically guys in their 20s, it took me by surprize that when I was 20 I met my ex 22 at the time and he didnt run like the wind when I told him I had a baby. It takes a really special guy to take on that responsibility.

I, as do a lot of people in here, have long dramatic relationship story, and to go all the way into it would just make me crazy all over again. So here are the facts... -Together 2 1/2 years -Lived together 1 1/2 of them -He became "daddy" to my 4 year old daughter (previous relationship) -I was a complete enabler -He was most times a liar -He never actually cheated, but had the intention too -He moved out Dec 1 04, I told him to leave, and then just before he did I asked him to say. -Our actual "BREAK UP" happened beginning of Nov. -His mom (who doesn't like me (because of my child)) gave him a girl's number, he started talking to her on the phone behind my back, pretty much as soon as we broke up, and has until just recently Now on to us talking next Wednesday... We talked a lot bad and good in the last couple of months, him never really telling me the same thing, "yes I love you" "no we wont ever get back together" bla bla bla. Last Friday I went to his house (under the influence of a lot of beers) slept there (no sex, same bed). Next day get up and with out planning to we spent the entire day together. He tells me he is no longer talking to the girl his mom set him up with. I try just to enjoy the day without talking too much about our drama. We had sex during the day Saturday, then dinner, rented movies, and I slept there again Saturday night, spent sun morning together, then he left, and of course left his hat, that he just had to come get, he came by that night to get it, I told him "we cant talk anymore its too confusing" and he said ok and left. Then at 7:15am the next day he called and again at 12 and came by that Monday night. I called him Tuesday and said "what are we doing" we both decided that we needed to talk in person and he came over Tuesday we decide that we would go a week and think things through and figure out weather we should get back together. I dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!