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  1. fallslikerain
    well if your doing a handjob make sure you use lube, otherwise its just a painfull tugging. are you doing this under the sheets? under his pants? perhaps he doesn't want to make a mess of himself or anything.
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    Im pretty much exactly the same as you, I prefer talking to people and asking questions. Just try to be a good listener, if you have something worth saying, say it, don't be ashamed of how you feel and in what you believe it. Conversation is more about the passing topics back and forth than the content. IMO
  3. fallslikerain
    at least from a medical perspective. penis size has nothing to do with external size or height. A thin guy would normally have a longer one than a heavy set man. This is because of blood flow and circulation and how it affects how much of the penis is external, and how much is internal.
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    yeah, get her something small, maybe a single flower. you don't want to seem too needy
  5. fallslikerain
    I think what you may have is just a confidence/experiece issue. A confident guy would say "These girls will want to date me" or "This is what i'll do" just because he's that darn good. You just have to be yourself (yes, I said it), and that means doing what works for you. Just because your friends are doing something that works for them, doesn't make it guarentee. You are not in competition with them. Dating isn't press button a, press button b, press button c, and presto chango. I guess its more like a volumn knob if you like analagies. Its about connection, and for whatever reason you just haven't found it yet. You have to find out with what works for you. Do you have a specific type of girl in mind? Try to go to places where you think she might be. Just relax, there are a lot of worse things than not going to a date. Just take things slow, relationships (at least good ones) are developed from scratch, not found outright. If you have any specific questions or questions otherwise give me a hollar, best of luck
  6. fallslikerain
    theres really not much you can do to make him stop writing what he wants, unless its threatening and then you could look into pressing charges. Stop putting yourself into situations that upset you, stop reading his journal
  7. fallslikerain
    usually you want to stick to "talking" dates for the first couple ones, that way you both get to know each other better. The only problem with movies is that you don't get to talk during them. Not to say movies would be a bad date.
  8. fallslikerain
    I think everyone can benifit from working out and exercise, but I think you should do it for the health and confidence benifits. Not to try to achieve some movie/tv look.
  9. fallslikerain
    have you tried being yourself? it supposedly works wonders best of luck
  10. fallslikerain
    I agree completely with the last poster, let it go, everyone has their past. Let sleeping dogs lie.
  11. fallslikerain
    I like it, cool poem
  12. fallslikerain
    ocean, i'm glad to hear you feel things are going well, and you're standing up for youself and your boundaries. keep me informed on how things are going
  13. fallslikerain
    There really is no right way to call someone, you just have to go with the flow and see how things go. I do agree that you should keep it short, and talk to her, not her answering machine.
  14. fallslikerain
    it depends, i would lean towards saying it was a self injury. Regardless of how your feeling and whats going on, self injury is never the answer, some of us found that out the hard way
  15. fallslikerain
    I tend to like 2 a week tops, but 1 is just fine. Everyone is so concerned with thinking about relationships in numbers(such as weeks, dates) but it really depends on connection, and what you both want.
  16. fallslikerain
    well regardless, hopefully you thanked him
  17. fallslikerain
    I agree completely, noone that won't give you respect is worth any time
  18. fallslikerain
    its all good, i like it
  19. fallslikerain
    hooray, and congrats don't worry about messing stuff up like that lol, the more you think about it the worse it ends up going most times
  20. fallslikerain
    thats a good idea, whenever you get upset it helps to take yourself out of the situation for a little while to regroup when possible. Find a day that would work for you then call her and just say " I want to meet tuesday at 7pm so we can talk in person" be specific and direct.
  21. fallslikerain
    this may seem like a really simple answer, but if you want to be more confident when you talk, the really only way to do it is to be more confident.
  22. fallslikerain
    well, since i'm assuming that you and her were really as close as you say, and in a casual relationship, in my mind you have two options since she's driving you nuts. A) Tell her how upset you are, believe it or not there are people and couples out there that will logically talk things out with each other. B) Tell her that you don't like the way she treats you, and if she won't change you'll walk. Be confident and direct, no misscommunication. C) Do nothing and nothing will change
  23. fallslikerain
    Did she say why she canceled? thats the most important question here I've been reading your past posts and I don't really think she's good relationship material, she's too flaky. Relationships should be mutual partnerships in which both parties help eachother be happy. She's making you jump thru a lot of hoops. Just remember that you should never try to keep someone who isn't trying to keep you. If she's not making you happy(and she isn't) its better to get out. Breaking up with someone hurts a lot less than being broken up with(even though I feel like she already has broken up with you) You have to make it clear to yourself that there is a line, and if someone crosses it, you'll walk, and not look back
  24. fallslikerain
    I would advise in not giving him a picture of you, even if you were still dating. A picture of the two of you would be much better if you had your mind set on a picture.
  25. fallslikerain
    without a doubt D. say "So, are you seeing anyone" or better yet just ask her out, she'll tell you then if she does or not Ask her yourself. If you ask a friend, it will no doubt come back to her that you asked behind her back, and no one likes a sneak
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