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  1. Santa
    It could be a no because she's only 14, and has a few years left before she wants to start dating.
  2. Santa
    Your only 15... The vast majority of people don't have gf/bf at 15.
  3. Santa
    I was always told it was rude to stare... so in my book its 1 of 3 things: 1. Interested 2. Hates you 3. Is a rude person
  4. Santa
    A mostly. Explain to me why your going out with the other guy, if you like this guy? This has happened before a couple of times to me, and I just thought **** them, and moved on. Then i'll try and make them jealous maybe by getting with another girl. In my opinion, I totally blaim the girl for accepting to go out with the other guy, if she likes someone else. I really don't see the logic in it. If I was the girl and got asked out, I'd be like "I'll get back to you tomorrow or something with my answer", then go and ask the guy that I like out, and if I get rejected go with the guy that asked me out. Why is this not the logical thing to do?
  5. Santa
    I agree, number 2. However, most guys on here are probably 'nice' so they pick 2. However, there are guys out their that would pick 1, but I don't think those kind of guys mostly come to sites like this (why would they with all these easy girls?).
  6. Santa
    I agree with you temperamental_taurus.
  7. Santa
    LOL I hope you are joking ItalianStalian! Don't touch her leg etc, you'll end up spoiling any chance you have, and you'll look like a perve, and a weirdo. Word will probably spread, and everyone will laugh at you. However, theres about a 1 in a billion chance it will work. The most you can safely do is get close to her, and lean in to whisper things into her ear during the movie. If she leans into you etc, you may want to take a risk and put your arm around her. Good luck.
  8. Santa
    Probably because W T F is usually seen as being translated into What The (swear word). Thinking about a swear word offends some people.
  9. Santa
    If you havn't asked yet, good luck! If you have, I hope it was good 8) From my personal expeirence, I don't think I have ever really accepted a girl when she has asked me out. Why? Because traditionally, the man is suppossed to chase the girl, so when the tables are turned, the male brain (well atleast in my case) gets confused, and doesn't know what to do, so panics. However, the good thing is, girls that I had no interest in, but asked me out, within a week I started to see them in that way, so rather than my opinion of them going down, it actually went up a lot. However, if I liked a girl, and there was some chemistry going on (like eye contact etc), then I would love for them to ask me out, and I would say Yes... I think any guy would. TBH, it's probably a win-win-lose situation. Either you get the guy, or you don't, but if you don't he may start to like you. Good luck!
  10. Santa
    Seems positive.
  11. Santa

    Avoiding

    Santa replied to easyguy's topic in Dating Advice

    I think perhaps because you avoid her, she avoids you. Or you've accidently rejected her advances and now shes embaressed.
  12. Santa
    Well she def wants to get to know you and is interested in you. Not sure if this is because shes attracted or not, but sound slike she is. Go for it. Also you touched on something that kind of makes me think. The way she said she liked your name. I think this is because she has your name in her head, and can't get it out easily LOL. This could be crush like behaviour, but i'm not a girl so I don't know. I will add however, that the only time I have had a girl say she loved my (real) name, she was interested. Good luck. Edit: I just read another post that said about a girl saying she liked this guys name 'Tim', and aparantly she likes him, so it seems very positive.
  13. Santa
    'Nice' is another stupid word. Cute can also mean like a puppy.
  14. Santa
    Thank you for your replies, and I think you are you guys are correct. I will take what you to say to heart, and hopefully this will help me. I have already decided i'm going to talk to some people I know, and explain to them that I understand they have a different POV to me, and i'm just going to except that, but they must also except the fact I am different, and to let me be the way I am. As for the bit at the bottom of Andy223's post, well it's kind of the other way around. Because of the way I am, I have been more or less friends with lots of people in my grade/year at some point, so i'm a lot more sociable than everyone else (ie lots of people will talk to me on an average day, but most other people ignore each other). The trouble comes with the fact that I wont settle-down and only talk to like 5 people, like they do, and so they see me as some one who floats from group to group thinking they are better than everyone else, I suppose. Truth is, if I settle with one group though, after a while, because of the way I am, it's hard for me to not get bored with them, and it's hard for them to keep patience with me. I can't settle-down and become 'one of the group'. However, I do have a few friends who understand me and stick by me, but I think they are just more tolerant than others. I think in the future, I will explain to them why I can't 'blend in', and if they don't like it I will just leave them, and try to concentrate on my real friends, the friends who understand me. Thank you. Case closed.
  15. Santa
    *I think this is the right forum, if not, please move it* I don't know why, but I have this desire in me to want to learn about everything, and to see everything and do everything. I feel that my life is short and I just want to use it fully. However, most people I know are very differen't. They are happy to just have a normal life, and I find them quite ignorant, in the respect that they see everything as black and white, and don't really care about much other than the 'here and now'. People generally don't understand me, and think i'm full of myself and stuff, because as I said earlier, I just want to know and do everything. It's hard for me to explain, but I feel like i've got an extra spark, and I feel frustrated because I feel that i'm odd, and others think i'm slightly weird. I've learnt in the past that people don't want to be 'educated' about there being a much bigger world than their simple lives, and when I try, people think I'm arrogant etc. But when I ignore them and do what I want to do, and let them live their lives, they get annoyed that I wont 'fit in'. I don't know how anyone can help, it just frustrates me that I seem to be a person that cares about everything, in a world where generally people care about nothing.
  16. Santa
    This isn't my field of knowledge (never done anything like this), but did you know this person well online? Perhaps he thought it would be funny to just meet a stranger, and then have a few chats with them online, and then pretend they are going to meet you. Evil I know, but some people get weird kicks like this. If you knew each other well'ish, perhaps he turnt up but didn't recognise you, or perhaps he had doubts about himself and chickened out. or perhaps he was ran over in the road or something. I suggest asking him yourself, in a subtle way. Perhaps at first don't start by yelling at him etc, just say it gently, like "so then... what happened the other night? I'm sorry for you I'm sure something good will come along shortly.
  17. Santa
    VultureFury, this may sound odd, but how can you have 2 GF's if you didn't ever date? Surely you have to get to know them first I was about 13 when I had my first proper date, but I have changed so much since then and now. I personally feel, like others, when your young it isn't the same.
  18. Santa
    Mate, stop digging yourself into a deeper hole! Population of world is going up. Population of Europe is going down. Europe is more feminist than say Iran (or the old Afghanistan) maybe. It's just common sense that the population is going down because people arnt having children, because they want to work instead. And about being a scientist, well you could be a scientist in space flight, which has nothing to do with this. If you are a scientist in the european population decreasing, then I will see this as a valid point, and strongly suggest you go and tell the other scientists etc they are wrong. It's not about what I suggest we do, as it's not for me to make that decission. However, I have outlined very briefly about some kind of robotic nanny, or just normal nannies being common. You seem to be trying to suggest i'm against women's rights, but i'm not. End of this mini discussion.
  19. Santa
    Metallicaguy, you was so close to earning music respect from me, then you went and spoiled it by saying Usher. Pfff Real music - The beatles, Rolling stones etc. None of this "I'm gonna pop a cap in yo' @$$ 'cuz your my (female dog)" nonsense. However, it's your choice.
  20. Santa
    link removed Enjoy.
  21. Santa
    You are right, yet wrong. The worlds population is increasing, but decreasing in Europe. You just need to do a simple search on google, like "europes population decreasing" to find loads of evidence. Also, you wasn't alive 100 years ago, so how can you compare? And as I said, it's too early to compare. No offence, but I trust scientists and the government more than your personal opinion. Also I never said Sweden etc were trying to get women not to work, I said they were trying to encourage them to have children.
  22. Santa
    I didn't forget to mention any of that, I just didn't see the need. 1 million people: 500,000 men, 500,000 women. If on average they have 1 child, that means 500,000 people will be the next generation. 500,000 people: 250,000 men, 250,000 women. If on average they have 1 child, that means 125,000 children will be the next generation. Repeat again and again. Simple. I could be wrong, but im guessing you visited cities Like London and Paris etc.The reason they are over crowded is because mostly of immigrants (I am from an immigrant family myself). If you go out of the cities, and into the country side, you will see it's not like that. Also, what I have talked about hasn't really become noticiable yet, because the older generations are still alive. The process will take a very long time, maybe hundreds of years. However, I doubt you will even notice then, because immigrant families like my own will interbreed. The native population however will still decrease, either due to not being replaced, or by interbreeding. I strongly suggest you look at the Sweden as an example, and Scotland. Sweden introduced many efforts to try to get people to have children, but failed. About the large families - yes it was mainly due to many of the children dieing, but on average like 3 children would survive maybe, which will expand the population. Most old people I know have a like 2 or 3 brothers/sisters.
  23. Santa
    I understand droptozero about the phone thing. I find the more you think about it, the more nervous you get. The trick is to just do it, and then you have no choice but to speak etc. In the past I used to be hostile when nervous (like if a girl I liked asked what I was doing that weekend, I might get defencive and tell her it's none of her business). I'm not really shy anymore though - I've learnt to just start, and then you can't really stop - for example if your gonna ask someone out, I'll just shout out there name, then I have no choice but to carry on the conversation.
  24. Santa
    Expanding slightly off-topic from what Shidoshi said about evolution, feminism is actually bad for evolution. When you forget about all this "I don't wanna stay at home, I want to go out and work every day" stuff, it's logical for a parent to have to stay at home and raise children. It is fact, that due to both men and women in the western world working, the native population of Europe is falling. In the old days the man worked, and the woman stayed at home and raised several children, thus keeping the population expanding. Now however, both people want to work (note - I would be happy to be a house husband), and so they are putting off having children. As a result, if couples do have children, they are in their 30's and usually have on average 1 child (in Europe), maybe 2. Thus the population decreases, and native europeans die out. The logical solution is that one person has to stay at home, and raise children (also society will greatly benefit from having children who have discipline etc). I know this is very hard, especially for 1 parent families, but well, thats life. Perhaps in the future, it will be common for a house husband or housewife. If it isn't, then I suppose children may have to be cared for by robots or something. I'm not against feminism, but feminism has left drastic problems.
  25. Santa
    TBH, just so long as it doesn't look stupid, I don't really care much. It's probably the least important thing for me.
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