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Well, just ask her if she likes you. Granted she might not tell you the truth etc, but theres a small chance she does. Maybe say stuff that implies you like her? Or even tell her you like her.

Im very popular at school, and it seems all the people in my year knows me (well at least the boys). I think, i became popular because i am not easily offended, you know, and i can have fun with anyone, and if they laugh at you, because you fell over or something, just laugh with them... i guess. Try to make contact with people, and open yourself up.

Cheer up! And talk to them baout how you feel, cause you will feel better... probably. Good luck!

basically a similier story happaned to me, but she flirted with me and stuff, eventhaugh we are both shy around each other in public. However, as i oculd never reply to her flirting, and like say yes to going to the prom with her, she got the impression i didn't like her i guess, so she was going to go with one of her male friends. I managed to get the email of this girl off one of her male friends, who i told i liked her, then, after some small chit chat, i asked her to the prom, but she said she was going with one of her male friends, (she didn't know i fancied her, so thaught i was asking her because i knew she wnated to go with me - thats what she told me), so i said OK, lets just be friends then, and now we are really good friends, and she started flirting with me again, and hinting that i should ask her to the prom now she knows i really like her, but im just to shy to ask her again! And im trying to get her to ask me, or put me in a situation where i wont look like an idiot if i have miss read her signs. But yeah, become good friends, then if you have stuff in common, i think she will become atracted to you mentaly, if your compatible. Good luck! Just chat about anything really - Msn messenger and stuff like that is good for chatting, as in school me and her are too shy to say much to each other (other than her fliritng), because of other people aorund us and we both hang aorund with different people etc, but online, its just you and her, and you can tlak about anything and say anything with great ease.

Ask her about it. If shes anything like the girl i fancy, she will make up a load of stuff and say she didn't do it, cause she is shy. Hopefully thaugh, she isn't shy, and will tell you she cared. Ask her why she cared in a friendly tone, and basically develop it. Thats what i would do i guess...

Don't muck it up like i have done - i don't have a clue if she likes me or not! Its like everythings there, but then i pressured her into saying if she liked me or not, and she kept saying several contradicting things, and beating aorund the bush (all done over msn messenger, but she flirted etc in school). And so i thaught fine, she must be screwed up in the head, and doesn't fancy me, then other stuff happans, and she hints stuff, and well its basically a long story, and im not sure where i stand. Ask her in person, don't act like your doing it for abet, and don't pressure her... then you should have a clear answer. Good luck.

Hay, its the other way around for me! Im really popular and stuff, and lots of girls fancy me, but i don't show any interest in them, and ignore people alot (sounds big headed, and it probably is, but its true), which i know is a bad habit, but i find its a way of showing them in not interested. However, there is this one girl i like, and i guess people might say shes a dork and stuff, but i really like her, and im sure she likes me, but in public i just can't even talk to her, or look at her for very long, because in public i feel i have this image to display, and it makes me really annoyed at myself, because im trapped within my own image and stuff However, i got her name for msn and that, and within a few days of having breif convosations with her, i asked her to the prom, and she was like "Im so sorry, im already going with my ex and im like WTF! Anyway, i thaught that maybe she thaught i was a jerk or something because of the way i act in public, and i thaught fair enough, and just stayed breif friends with her online. Then a week or so later, she found out i really did like her, and she was like being really nice to me, and flirting with me in school etc, like she used to do, and i ignored her again, like i used to do, althaugh i was a tad confused oh why she was flirting again with me (and why she was doing it in the first place), and then she said to me how she thaught i was using her or something before, and she thaught i was a jerk and stuff (cause thats what Jerks do), and so i explained to her that i really do like her and stuff, and we became really good friends (and i think she hinted for me to ask her to the prom again), and over the christmas holidays, i found out loads about her (like that she was shy and would never ask a boy out - which is maybe a hint she wanted me to ask her again, but i didn't), and i asked her as a friend if she wanted to go to town with me and my friends, but she said she was busy, then the a week or so later i asked her if she wanted to come to the cinema with me and my friends, and she said she was ill, and i thaught OK; shes either shy, she doesn't like me, or shes genuinly ill. Then like a day or so later, she was in a terrible mood, crying and saying how she wnated to ocmmit suicide, so i conforted her, and tried to make her feel better, and she said i was such a great mate for caring for her, as shes never told anybody her problems before (not even her parents), and she said the reason she didn't go to town and the cinema with me is because she has over protective parents and stuff, so i thaught "OK, this is looking very good now, im gonna ask her out on tuesday - when we go back to school)". Alas, tuesday came, and i acted like a jerk again, and ignored her and didn't start any convos with her etc, then today (wednesday) i still havn't done anything, and i keep hating myself for acting the way i do, but i can't help it! So now you might know what its like on the other side; when people ignore you, it doesn't mean they don't like you, they might infact really like you! Best of luck

Like elgilicious, i am a good looking person (im 16), and i get alot of attention from girls. However, as elgilicious knows, im a very picky person, and im always turning down girls, because unless i think shes the one, i dont see the point (althaugh i did say yes to some girls, but nothing came of it). So basically, i don't really like in when some girls ask me out - sure its a nice feeling, but you know, i don't wanna see them hurt But yeah, if you dont ask him out, you wont know (i sure wish this girl i liked wasn't shy and confusing!). Go for it, and even if he thinks your ugly or whatever, he will be happy, not offended, cause thats how i feel... until i feel guilty for saying no.

If i was you i would think about this situation - you don't smoke (well thats what i thaught you were saying), and starting to smoke to impress her is not the way to go... maybe im not in a situation to give advice, but smoking in my book is bad. Imagine kissing a girl that smokes - its like kissing an ash tray. I would seriously think about this - is it worth making your health really bad to impress her? If she loves you, she would love you even if you don't smoke. Good luck thaugh, and i hope you both give up smoking *I sound like a adult don't i? LOL*