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I am more then sure it was an excuse, simply because of the wording. I have read her body language the best I can at it seems like it is saying what I want to hear, YES. I have actually talked to him about what happens if I ask and she says yes, we are close friends, and have been for a while, this will not hurt our friendship. And the biggest reason I am not completely oppsed to telling her is she knows how my friend feels and stays friends with him to this day and told him they could still be friends, which from what I see is true, So I really have nothing to lose there.

Thanks, I was thinking about it a lot and have been waiting until she gets home from Drivers Ed to talk to her about everything. Hope everything goes well.....

I am 15(male) in High School and have had a g/f before but this is a new situation for me. Ok, so I am a freshman in high school and have tons of friends(Male and female) and one of them caught my attention in more then the way of being a friend. I have liked her since then and never told her though. We have become friends but I want it to be more then that. However, I thought I had time to slowly moce my way in, WRONG! A friend of mine is in Drivers ED with her and has liked her for a couple weeks without anyone in the situation knowing that the other one liked them. My friend out of no where asks her out 2 days ago, she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and "maybe later". He then told me this. I told him about me liking her but she doesn't know it yet. My question is if I want to give up everything for a chance at something more....I really feel something special with her and feel like she is fliting with me more and more everyday. I now have found out that another friend of mine likes her too! However, he switches who he likes by the time the week ends anyway. This has been a wake up call for me and tells me I don't have much time to make a move but I still have the problem of risking a lot on a possible relationship. HELP ME! Right now my friend that asked her out(That she said "later" to) is with her at Drivers ED and it is angering me that he gets more time to be around her...HELP!

Go to the shooting range! Fire off a couple rounds and feel better about everything. I tried it the other day....worked great! You forget about everything and just have fun when you are shooting off rounds at the range! That and then you think about shooting all day and how you can improve next time! TRY IT.....and most of all HAVE FUN!!!!! \

Ok, so I like this girl and pretty much know she likes me, the only problem is she is a close friend, very close, we can talk about ANYTHING together and joke about anything too. I know I would like to ask her out only there is one problem....we are totally different, and by that I mean I am 5'8" 220lbs. and she is dwarf........ Now I know what you are thinking...So what? Who care what people think, only problem is I do care, and currently am very popular in my school(Freshman in HS) and don't want to risk losing friends over this because I like the place I am at except for this little delema.....PLEASE HELP! I know this sounds self-centered but the main reason is that I am only PRETTY SURE she likes me...you see she has told me she only likes other dwarfs in that way, but later on said she had never gotten "far" with a guy and really wanted to know how....while asking this I felt a kind of vibe that I cannot describe...again.....PLEASE HELP ME!

I actually find that having good friends of the opposite sex helps a lot, plus who knows where those friendships will lead, basically just like the last poster said, keep yourself busy, and enjoy the time that you have alone, being with someone can get hecktic(SP?) at times, so just enjoy the time you have without a serious relationship.

Ok, calm down. Have you talked to a psychologist about this? You can't keep running away from your problems, there are other things to do other then run away from them, you have to deal with them head on. I know this sounds hard to do and believe me, it will be, I am not saying it is impossible but it won't be the easiest in the world to do. Maybe think about getting into a religion, I myself am a Christian and have a Bible verse for you to think about: Psalm 23:4 "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me;your rod and your staff, they comfort me." And another one, John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son". And about going to the doctor, it depends what kinda thing you are talking about, if it is an examination or physical then yes, they will look at you all over. They probably will see the scars and cuts on your rists and all over you. May I ask another question, Why do you cut yourself? To me it really makes no sense, I mean because you are in pain because of your problems and then you decied to cause MORE pain to yourself by cutting yourself? I mean not to offend by my comments, I am just trying to help.

You don't really get a plan before you do it, it just happens and then you just "go with the flow".

Yes but then there are all the other problems I listed.

I am in 9th grade right now and I am a guy. And I will tell you that I am willing to give any girl a chance and maybe he is the same way, I know for a fact that all my friends are the same way too and we would give any girl a chance. What I am saying is, Why not go right to him yourself, it will show him that you are brave enough to handle your own problems head on and I know that I would rather hear that someone likes me from the person that likes me rather then from someone else.

Ok, this will be pretty long so bare with me. So, I have a beautiful friend who is a girl, and up until now that is all we were and I could keep my love for her a secret, but I can't keep it up anymore, I have to tell her! Ok, so here I go, I have liked this girl(Let's call her, "Molly" since before we were friends(5th Grade) but then I became friends with her soon after that(Beginning of 6th grade) and then all through 6th-7th grade I really liked her, but never told anyone. Finally in 8th grade I told someone and then it got around and everyone knew, but she never said anything about it to me. Then a couple friends told me that she liked me but I didn't think it was true at the time(and still don't). Then another girl which I liked(Not loved like this girl, let's call this girl, "Allison") asked me out, and well, I couldn't say no to her. So me and "Allison" went out for a while and we both really liked each other and well....the relationship kinda got a little too "Serious" when me and "Allison" started to make out all the time. And then the final part came when me and "Allison" kinda had a little bit of oral sex. So, I thought that the realtionship was getting a little to weird and going a lot to fast. So I broke up with her. Well, of course my friends started to think that I used her but that is not the case and me and her know it, I never suggested any of the stuff we did but my friends took it the wrong way. So, over the summer all my friends stopped saying I used her and kinda got over it. So, we all went back to school last week(Except "Allison" and some other people aren't going to the school I am going to this year) and I saw "Molly" there and fell in love with her all over again and I want to tell her and everyone else but there are a couple problems: 1. My parents do not allow me to date anyone. 2. My brother is a senior in the same school I am now going to and would find out about it. 3. My friends and everyone else might think I am going after another girl to use(Which I never used the first one) 4. I am really afraid of what she might say. 5. I don't want to ruin our friendship over this. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

I am a guy but me and my ex talked about this a few times, from what she told me some good things would be: 1. If you are a virgin, try to start with smaller objects(Of course make sure the are clean and safe to be using, and you would probably want to go for the objects shaped like a penis, duh) and work your way up. 2. She stratled(SP?) the arm of a couch and rubbed her vagina on it. 3. Lay in a bathtub and make it so your vagina is under the facet(SP?) and turn the water on, she used warm water, but DON'T USE HOT, after all, you don't want to burn your vagina.

No, I have seen "good pornography" it is just the girls in my class are so hot that it goes up around them, especially one certain one, who I REALLY,REALLY like, but she doesn't know I do, yet.

Yep, 14

I just mean like I don't always need porn to get it up, a lot of the time it goes up whenever I see a really hot girl.