Babygirlbrit

Well, regardless of if she isn't talking to you, it's probably nothing against you. Even as friends, we get jealous when some other person is taking up time with our favorite person. But the only thing you can do, is let her know your worried about her, and BE THERE. You may not expect it, but if you guys are best friends, then sooner or later, she will come to you and explain everything. so, be a friend and stick it out. may drive you nuts, but she'll need you someday, so don't back out. just text message her that your worried about her, and want to know whats goin on. set a date, that you two can go out to dinner, or just hang out, so you guys can talk, and you can make sure everything is ok with her. good luck dear.

Oh the joys of being a woman....ick. So, a lot of things can be going on that make it late....i once didn't have mine for three months when i first came to college.... Stress, a new environment, being extra althletic all can play a roll in it. if your positive there is no way you can be pregnant, then it will come. It's a little nerve wracking, but, it will come....as it always does with all the frills and joys that it brings every month.

Hey love, size doesn't matter all that much. so, don't worry, and you got some growing to do....i wouldn't be at all concerned if i were you.

Well honey, You have three options, none of which are great. Adopt, abort, or keep. With abortion, you don't have to say anything to your dad, but it will always haunt you. With adoption, you kinda have to tell your dad, as with keeping the babe, you will have to tell your father. It will be the one of the hardest decisions you make. If you feel you can, keep the babe. if you feel you can't support it, and your father wont support it, then get an abortion. You just have to think of what will make you ok. Bringing a life into this world is hard, but so is getting rid of it. Be honnest with yourslef, and your capabilities. As for thoes three guys. You can press charges on them if you want, and a paternaty test will show who is the father, and there are pictures of it, thereforeeee there is proof that it's one of them. And they should all take responsibility for what they did that night. I also might recomend seeing your school counsiler for help on what to do, she or he may be able to help you tell your father. You never know how he will truly react. But you can face your father, a counsiler may give you the confidence you need, and perhaps will let you tell your dad in the office, where it's a nutral space, with a mediator. good luck sweetie. let me know how it goes. And remember, trust your instincts.

Whatever you do, don't do what i did, and sleep with an old flame....it doesn't work.... But, have faith in him. Just think, if he is leaving you now, but there is a future still possible for you two, Even if he sees someone else over seas, he will have to leave her too when he comes home. He may just not want to have to worry about making sure he calls you so you don't get mad, or anything else that would be manditory for a long distance relationship. He feels that it would be more comftorble for you too, incase anything does happen. He is going to a whole nother world, he may not be sure what to expect, and instead of possibly hurting you later, he wants a break, so that even if he does something you wouldn't agree with, his conscious is clear. good luck dear.

Well. as a girl, i admit that we are interesting creatures. There is a rule book, and it's subject to change whenever we feel it needs to be changed, and men are hardly made aware of the change. Our logic isn't always rational, even though we believe it to be. We can be fickle, and moody, and when a girl is with her friends....eeeh. So, being turned down by girl after girl says something about the girls for one. If a girl all high and mighty on her horse decides that because you look a certian way you are stricken from her dating book, well thats shallow. However, i do believe that there has to be some level of sexual attraction if your first meeting someone... millions of women out there....just have to try and try again. it hurts, but, you know, even girls get turned down. Happy hunting.

First, i have to applaud you for being mature enough to think that there will be more complications with a second child. at 14, your still so young. and since abortion is out of the way, give her up for adoption. Just think of the baby's well being, Many people can't have children, and you'd be a blessing to them. Find a decent agency, make sure you shop around though, because as a birth mother you don't want your rights to be muddled. But the joy of it is, YOU get to pick the Adoptive parents, so you don't have to worry that they wont be right, they wont be you, but you can check their financial stability, the jobs they have, and their backrounds. All potential adoptive parents go through backround checks. In some instances the adoptive parents will pay for your medical expenses while you carry the babe. I think Opera's website, as well as TLC's website may have more information with adoption. LOOK into it, and you can always back out if you needed too. As for telling your parents, yes, they will be disappointed with you, but if you come to them with a plan, they may take it easier, and relize that your not some foolish girl, but your mature enough to make life choices. Good luck honey.

Well, if the advice of the other three don't work out too well. Maybe you should get tested for anemia, or diabeties. If you don't want to get tested, maybe you can bring along some Juice, OJ, or anything that makes little kids all wired up. OR try drinking lots of Gatoraide, it has electrolites in it that may help out too. so if you can't change your whole diet, make sure you drink right. Yes water has it's benifits, but it doesn't have all that good stuff like sugar and electrolites.

Depends on what your definition of cheating is dear. Everyone views cheating a little differently. i suppose, yes it was cheating, (though i'll be hardpressed to find many guys who don't fantasize about their g/f's and another girl.) And is this incident terribly upsetting to you?? It appears innocent enough, but if it happens more, then i would raise my hackles.

So, my boyfriend and i broke up, he wants to travel, and i have to finish school (you can't really get a PhD by going to one new country a month.) I have a few years left before i am DONE all my school, and he says that in a few years he will be ready to calm down and stay in one state. So we broke up. Then...not one hour later, i slept with an old flame, I DID not intend to! I went there because i emotionaly couldn't go home, and i need to see someone who was happy to see me, and just to hold me and let me know everything was ok. Well, My boyfriend and i decided that we would probably hook back up later in life. And i wrote him an e-mail saying how i wouldn't see anyone else, or love anyone else...then he found out about the flame.... He said he wanted nothing to do with me. But i wouldn't let him do that. He is giving me another chance. I wrote him an e-mail saying everything i felt, and everything i did, all cards were out. He replyed with "thank you for the e-mail, it helps. Talk to you later." and thats it. well, what do i do from here? I wont be home from college for a few weeks...i need a plan of action, because this man means so much to me...

take it nice and slow. if you take Lil_mamarains13's advice and ask her for a walk, be a gentleman, and be honnest. Since she knows you like her, tell her yourself privately without all your friends hanging about. There isn't much you can lose that way, she already knows, so the embarrassment is gone from her finding out. good luck dear.

Perhaps she is just trying to get you to say something on how you feel. Perhaps she is feeling insecure, and wants to know where you guys stand. It can be a scarey thing to start dating someone new, and if she does like you, then she may want to know how much you like her, so she doesn't overstep any boundries, or scare you off by being too intimate. Her saying this may be her way of trying to get you to open up a bit. Let her know you appriciate her. and where you stand. Girls tend to eat that up.

Five years, yes, that is a long time. But i was told once, if you love something, let it go. Two weeks isn't enough to cure five years of this girl...You need to give yourself time to heal, and stop trying to force yourself to be all better. One day you will wake up, and it wont be so sad, and it wont hurt as much. But you can't force that day to come. Try a new activity, something that she has nothing to do with, maybe rock climbing, or something that can be yours alone...this way while you learn something new, she shouldn't be on your mind, and that should be an ok escape, so you get used to her not being there. I hope you can get through this love.

Doll, your not crazy, you want closure. maybe the question you ask over and over again isn't worded the way she can respond to it. Maybe if you took the time to figure out what you NEED to know, write it all down, and organize it, you can create a way to ask her what you want, without seeming too redundent. Then, if you still ca n't get the answer to your question....maybe your question is rhetorical, and you don't notice it. i hope this helps a little love.

I am currently in the same boat. Here is what i'm gonna do. Pretty much, it is all in his ball park. There really isn't much you can do to MAKE him see it in your light. I take blame for what i did, it was wrong in his eyes. I sent him an e-mail. saying just this "I love you, but i wont grovel for you, i have too much respect for myself to do this. I know what i did was wrong, and i can only ask you to forgive me. But because i love you, i'll let you decide what to do, and if you want to go, then there is nothing i can do to stop you." Lay all your cards down. And if he is man enough, he will see the light. But if he isn't compitant enough to see the real value you are, he isn't worth it. I hate to be told 'there are other fish in the sea' because i love my fish, but there are. if he thinks he is too good for you, or if he can't see that you are for real, he isn't worth your time of day. If he doesn't respond, then screw it. (oh if you don't love him, replace love with like. But never lose your dignity, and never put yourself in an uncomftorble situation, no man is worth that.)