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Just be kind but firm also. It's a terrible thing but by not following your heart you are cheating both of you.
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Wow, thanks so much for the kind words, see? This site is great!
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Hi, although i don't post often I'm always on here since i ruined my relationship many months back. Anyway, wonder of all wonders she took me back! I can't describe how happy I have become with my romantic life, sure most other things are still pretty bad but i feel i'm on the mend, and I would be remiss if i didn't thank the members of this great site for the support during the past few months. Something bad may have happened if I hadn't constantly looked on here and i wouldn't have the chance to be with her now, so once more... THANK YOU ALL. My heartfelt sympahy to those experiencing heartache right now, never give up because who knows what's round the corner as i have recently found.
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It's very easy to get men back. I'd know i'm one and stupidly this has worked on me before. Fine a way to let him know your going out and being happy. Dress up and pretend your having a great time, someone will tell him and he will start wondering. Also it's a two part process, you have to do things like this to heal and it may get him to stop and think. Just act like your over it for him and yourself. Goodluck, i know it so so so so hard right now.
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It's her birthday soon, I still need her, what to do
MR replied to MR's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
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In a week it will be her birthday. If you haven't seen previous posts I basically screwed up my relationship by being foolish and selfish, it hurts too much too mention. Question is; she is 'kinda' with someone [her words not mine] so shall i send her a birthday card/present?? My head says leave it but I generally don't listen to that hence the mess I'm in now. How can i get my soul mate back? I'm not getting better and this time of year is the anniversary of so much not just her birthday. Thx in advance for your kind advice.
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Which did you use Tolly?
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Good post S.A.S, I agree but there are always two sides to a coin and i thought it might be a nice little conversation starter. Anyone else?
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I was browsing the net and came accross many sites offering love spells with money back options blah blah. The main question is have any of you had one cast for you? Is the power in the belief? Has one worked for you or do you think it's a money making scam? It will be interesting to see if someone has actually had it make a difference! Thx for all replies in advance.
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I kinda know your right but i can't help these feelings at the moment. Just wanna hold her.... Any other thoughts peeps...
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You may have seen from a previous post i'm in a tough place, anyhow I was at work today and my mobile received a txt from her. It basically said 'are you ok? I had a dream you did something terrible and i need to know your ok' Now the sensible side of my brain tells me to ignore it but a small part has regained hope even though I know she was more than likely with someone else that night.. What does she mean and is she just trying to not feel guilty for not getting back together with me? I was doing ok today until that txt and now I'm feeling terrible. What does she mean?
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Anyone?
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I was wondering the same thing! I'm almost desperate enough to try it... almost.
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Right there with you man. How old are you? Wish i had some golden words of wisdom but all i hear is things will get better. Thats all we can cling to right now. Be strong and try to find yourself.
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Ex keeps calling, changed my number!
MR replied to cobro's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
From a different perspective though, I've done the silly calling and begging and all that terrible stuff. Your ex is just so hurt and maybe you should take one last time to fully explain everything to them. Don't hold back any details, they have a right to know so they can heal to. I'm just coming from the otherside as this has happened to me, if you already done that just ignore me! -
I just feel like i put her through hell because i was weak and considered my ex for 6 months. Don't know what to do. I have a box of her things and presents etc. What do you guys think is the best course of action? Shall i throw it all away and try to forget? Right now it seems so wrong and so hard.
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Thx for the speedy reply. Having been through this i'm sure you know that right now that general advice means nothing. Sorry to sound harsh but this pain won't stop and there is nothing i can do! Sorry... mini mad moment. All comments are gratefully received. I'm trying man, god i'm trying.
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Long story very short. I was an idiot, more than once to the one i love. We've been through so much over just one year it's untrue. We saw each other a lot considered getting back together, I got very drunk, ruined the whole thing! Asked for a final answer she of course said not right now. She is thinking of someone else already. The details are not important. It's the pain, stress and anger i feel now. I can't heal, move on, eat, sleep anything. So far I've lost around a stone and half in weight and i was thin to begin with! Basically i'm just worried about myself I guess. Nothing matters and it's all unreal without her. She told me so much which feels like lies now and I want nothing more than to sleep and not wake up in all honesty. My remaining will for life will break soon and i feel i'm going to do something really stupid or at least try. I don't know what i need but her, advice of any sort would be more than i have now. Thx.
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It's so hard for me to move on right now, my life has been ripped away and in many ways it's my fault. I'm trying to tell myself I will but you know how these things can go. Once more a big thank you to the posters for their kind words.
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Very nice, i think a lot of us have been to that place at sometime or another. Keep up the good work!
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I know you're hurting but I have to agree with the poster above. Love takes work and things like this WILL happen. Maybe spend some time 'getting to know him' again. If it's real love, it'll be worth it. Promise!
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But would it be wise to give it to her?
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Thanks! Just a quick five minute one really. I think she won't really miss me though to be honest. Anyway thanks for the kind words.
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Just wrote this for that certain someone. It didn't really help but maybe someone can take something from it. Let me know what you think, thanks for reading. For You I have no options left, I have no life within me, My love for you isn't enough, Our life together you can't see. I hope you know how much I care, And what I'd do to have you back, Sometimes people are fools, I've certainly been guilty of that. The day you went my world faded away. The darkness is all i have now The torment knowing I was wrong, Each day is one more step into hell. If time would just go back, I'd change the world for you, But such power we can't have, So I'm left crying without you. I miss your smile I miss you what you made me see I miss your laugh, but most of all I miss what you made me. I can't write much more, The tears still cloud my eyes, But know one thing my perfect angel I'm sorry and without you I'll die. Forgiveness may be a step to far I pushed you to the edge and beyond But life I can't change, If only this man could cure his wrongs. So goodbye my perfect girl Keep you head up and god bless Without me your life will move on, And i want nothing for you but happiness.
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OMG, I've heard that so many times. My last gf was like a stick so the gf i had before that thinks it's all cuz of that. Let me be the first to assure you there are men that don't care about that at all. It may just be coincidence that she is thinner, it was for me. When two people care about each other weight isn't even an issue so don't start thinking that way. It's crazy and you are fighting a never ending battle. It thats his only reason then soon you will start to think he didn't deserve you anyway. Good luck, i know you can do it.