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I get jealous when my bf talks about this friend, whos a girl, that hes known for years. He talks as if shes his best friend and I feel jealous of her.

he's 14 in 3 days.

Okay. About 3 weeks ago my boyfriend of 5 months dumped me. He said he was sorry and that it had nothing to do with me at all. He said it was his won problems and he loved me but needed a break. It hurt, really bad. He acted a little mean, but I guess I was mean back. The day after he left me, he told my best friend who was feeling kinda down that she was hot. I immediately though the wort and that he had left me for her. Well, she phone me and said she would never do that behind my back, but also that she felt better. I was talking to him that same night and kinda got mad. He in return got mad as well and asked how I could ever think that. Since then we just sorta talked over the internet, andonce on the phone. His family and I are really close. His mom and I tlak on a regular basis, as well as me and his sister. They keep asking me when I'm coming to visit and I keep posponing it because I fell it will be too awkward. But then tongiht, me and my ex were tlaking and he asked how I was doing. I said I was doing fine, and that I missed him. He said he was doing good and that he missed me too. he said he was sorry for making me think he left me for my friend. Then he asked when I was gonna come and see him. I said why?Do you miss me that much? He said yes, then said he was stressed and he wanted a break. I said I know, then he replied with I need a few more weeks and I'll be back to normal. He sent me a smiley and a wink. I'm proboably going to go see him this weekend, but...before I get to ahead of myself, is he messing wiht me? Or does he mean it? I truthefully think he means everyword. He has drastic moodswings, and I understand. I'm only asking because what if I don't see it. But, I do believe he is sorry, and that when we see eachother everything will be better. I miss him like crazy, but I've been trying to forget about him, and it's not working. So...what should I do here? I want honest, and expeirienced advice. Please and thanxs.

I personaly don't care what someone looks like. I go for whats on the inside... Read my avatar. That's my true opinion.

Okay, maybe, he's a fraid of comitment. You said you trust him not to do things wiht other girls, if thats so then why do you worry? Now, abouthim not caring for you, he could just be afraid that if he gets to attached you'll hurt him. I really think you need to tlka to him abotu this though. Kepp on trucking!

I completely agree with Batya33 good advice!

Allright great advice guys! Thanx. I think I'll just have to move on.

You are a really caring and loving girlfriend. He's gotta be lucky

To me, you don't need him. Even if he is your baby's father. No woman deserves that kind of a relationship.

True, but I just can't let go.

I guess I agree with that. After a break up, when we get over it we decide to move on. It makes us stronger, but sometimes brings is down. Right now i'm at the end of relationship(not ended by me) and it kills me, but it lets me know what I need to do next time, and how to be stronger.

I don't know what to say here, but if you two really love eachother what other people think should NOT matter at all. Love is between two people, no body else.

Bacialy: I'm 14, bit with this guy for 4 months and a little bit, then he dumped me. We tlkaed about it, and I basically understoodthat he was confuzed and wanted to move on. This happened on Saturday, and I cried all ngiht, and all day Sunday, I mean I love him. Then Monday I went to school, sulked around and came home. We were talking on the computer and he said he was sorry, and that he was thinking about trying things again. Bu he had to go right after and said he would tlka to me later. Then today, he told my friend that she was hot, she is after her ex, and she doesn't like my ex in that way. Okay so I asked him if he broke up with me for her and he got mad and said no. Then he called me a (female dog) for telling everyone that. So what I don't get is what's going on? I am absolutely crazy about him and can't let go. He was gunna concider me again? But he also likes my friend? I mean I don't get it. His mom and I are pretty close too. We tlaked for about 3 hours the night he dumped me. Then she said he's been having enourmous mood swings and that she doesn't know what bothering him. Can anyone help me? Or perhaps relate here? I don't know what to do. It hurts so much being a teenage girl. I just wanna grow up! I don't want my heart broken like this, or have my friends be liked cause they're prettier. Why is being a teenager so hard? I hate it!:sad:

I'm sorry, but I don't understand how can someone can sell themselves, and do somthign like that. It bbothers me. I'd rather see them in the streets than do that to themselves. They're all better than that.

I'm on the alesse 21 pills. it's got 21 then you don't take them for a week, period, then you start a new pack.