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  1. Deviant_Kate
    Like you said, it's a generalization. Doesn't cover everyone, and maybe not even most. It's a person to person thing.
  2. Deviant_Kate
    Wow. You deserve much better. I'm glad you've graduated so you're *hopefully* in a position to support yourself and your kids. He sounds like an irresponsible and selfish piece of crap. You shouldn't have to put up with all the stuff you've put up with. It's better to be single and happy than married and miserable. Best of luck.
  3. Deviant_Kate
    1. The taste depends heavily on the woman's diet and whatnot. Sweet isn't the word I'd use. Generally my girlfriend's vaginal secretions are either tasteless or just a little salty. Nothing to complain about, but it's not chocolate. I hear that vegetarians taste pretty good, but I couldn't say from personal experience. I date carnivores. 2. Some women don't have multiple orgasms. Sometimes a girl needs a refractory period too. Sometimes the clitoris can become way too sensitive after one orgasm, and more stimulation can be really uncomfortable. 3. You're telling me you've NEVER had a tired or sore neck, jaw, or tongue from prolonged cunnilingus? 4. Oral doesn't stimulate the G-spot unless you have a Gene Simmons tongue. You'd have to add a hand or toy to the mix to get to the G-spot. Granted, it's still easier to get to the female g-spot than the male g-spot, for a couple of reasons, but I'd say it's probably a relief to most women that they don't have to stick their finger in somebody's anus. The one thing I can think of that cunnilingus has over fellatio is that nothing is poking you in the back of the throat. I have an unusually strong gag reflex, so it's pretty lucky that I like the ladies.
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    Yep - get some spermicidal ones and some without. If you're having sex more than once a day, it's probably in her best interest not to use more than one or two spermicidal condoms within a 24 hour period, because too much can really irritate her vagina and cervix. I'm not suggesting that either of you have any STDs, but an irritated vagina and/or cervix make both of you (her especially) more prone to contracting a sexually transmitted infection. Plus it's just damn uncomfortable.
  5. Deviant_Kate
    That's all it takes for me. I used to be embarrassed, and I still feel kind of bad about the mess, but my girlfriend takes it as a compliment every time it happens (which is probably about 75% of the time).
  6. Deviant_Kate
    As you become aroused, your cervix lifts to leave ample room for penetration - if you aren't "prepared" beforehand, he CAN hit your cervix. I don't think it's any big deal - it just hurts a bit until your cervix lifts. I have the same problem sometimes.
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    The great thing about telling your friend that you're gay is that if she IS bisexual, she'll be more likely to disclose that information to you. Then you'll know, and she'll know, and something might be able to really develop between the two of you romantically. Don't let your friends make you afraid to be yourself. There's nothing wrong with being gay, and if your friends don't feel the same way...it's going to be pretty difficult for you to remain friends AND be true to yourself. Keep in mind that as great as your friends seem at 20, most of them aren't going to be in your life long term (as I've found out over the last few years), and it's much more important to be true to yourself than to behave as they want you to behave. I was in the same boat you're in when I was in my late teens, and I'm just now getting back in touch with my friends from high school that didn't know I'm gay (I didn't know back then either), and it IS scary to disclose that information, but I haven't had a single person turn their back on me for being gay. Who knows - your friends might surprise you. Absolute BEST of luck, Cutey20
  8. Deviant_Kate
    Oh, I don't know...maybe because not every man is dumb enough to think it makes them gay if they ever catch a glimpse of another penis. Why WOULD it disturb men to see another man's "thing" as you put it?
  9. Deviant_Kate
    It's not like she cheated on you. You're going to have to deal with the fact that as you grow up, a lot (if not all) of the women you date will have, at some point in the past, had sex with somebody else. My best advice it to simply not think about it. She's not "soiled" or "damaged"...as long as she's faithful and disease-free, there shouldn't be a problem.
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    The entire Adore album by Smashing Pumpkins is pretty good....
  11. Deviant_Kate
    I've heard that a lot of gay men use what are called "poppers" when having anal sex - they're supposed to relax your muscles (including anal sphincters), but they're dangerous. Just use a lot of lubricant. And condoms. Always condoms.
  12. Deviant_Kate
    I'm curious about how many of these picky men go through all the trouble they want women to go through to have the perfect pubic hair...
  13. Deviant_Kate
    The post leads me to believe it's a male poster.
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    Pornography is safer - you're not alone with a stranger - you're on a set surrounded by people, having sex with someone you know isn't going to knock you up or beat you up or give you a disease. Other than that...I don't see much difference besides the level of privacy.
  16. Deviant_Kate
    All the sex (which your body isn't used to) could have thrown off your homones a little bit. Give it a little more time. I hope everything works out okay.
  17. Deviant_Kate
    Lambskin doesn't protect you as much as latex or polyurethane. My human sexuality professor highly recommended NOT using them. I ALSO learned that Viagra in young men can actually make it so you'll never be able to naturally achieve an erection again. I don't know how common it is for that to happen, but you still shouldn't take Viagra unless it's been prescribed to you by a doctor for a legitimate erectile dysfunction - it is NOT supposed to be a recreational drug. If you end up taking it anyway, just make sure that you really do seek medical attention if you have an erection lasting more than four hours - your blood vessels can burst (that's what causes the inability to achieve erection that I mentioned earlier). Very serious business. Good luck!
  18. Deviant_Kate
    I don't think I know even one adult woman that hasn't given a blow job. Except me. But I'm an odd bird.
  19. Deviant_Kate
    You CAN break your penis - I don't remember the exact term for it or exactly WHAT gets broken, but if it were to happen, the owner of the penis would know IMMEDIATELY because it IS really painful and needs immediate medical attention or you could lose your ability to ever get another erection. But it's pretty rare, and QUITE painful, so you'd be able to tell the difference between a harmless pop and an actual injury.
  20. Deviant_Kate
    When it comes to YOUR body, you need to stand up for yourself and make it clear that your penis belongs to you and you don't have to do anything with it that you don't want to do. She needs to understand that pressuring you into doing something sexual that you don't want to do is no better than a guy pressuring a girl to do something she doesn't want to do. The thing about relationships is that if they're working, then talking to her should solve the problem - you guys can come to a compromise or she can simply understand that you don't want to do it at all. If she doesn't want to consider your feelings, then you need to consider whether or not you want to be in a relationship where you're treated like your feelings don't matter.
  21. Deviant_Kate
    In my experience, once we were no longer locked away in my bedroom, things got really awkward. We haven't spoken to or seen each other since about a month after we slept together, more than three years ago, and before that we'd been friends since we were about 6 years old.
  22. Deviant_Kate
    What does that have to do with anything? Her dreams don't make her any less Christian - they're DREAMS, and mean nothing, and they certainly don't reflect who she is when she's awake. I frequently have dreams where I become a character in a television show - that doesn't make me one. Last night I dreamt there was a 30 foot snake slithering around my garden - that doesn't mean I need to check for snakes when I go outside. It's just random firing of neurons and the brains desperate attempt to put them together into something that makes sense. Nobody should ever feel guilty for the things they dream.
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  25. Deviant_Kate
    It means it feels good. Or she needs chapstick.
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