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Wow your story reminded me of a flashback

ugh leave this disgusting man. its obvious that he's having his cake and also enjoying it. You can find a man out there that appreciates you and loves you like none other. =)

She's wayyy overly protected. Tell me does she get jeolous of your mother when she hugs you? My boyfriend had an ex like that and boy was he glad that he saw the better part of life when he broke up with her.

i'd smack her upside her head. no just kidding, but wow does this lady has some major issues.

Oh dear, just leave him. Blaming you is pathetic. Move on and im sure you will find someone even better. Also, i know this is off topic but kellbell i love your avatar...always makes me hungy

ugh i hope she goes through with the divorce. but actually would you have told your wife if the person you cheated with didnt?

had you not walked in..i wonder what they would have done. he shouldn't have gotten drunk with her alone.

ehh..its not like its a pic of his wang on there =/ is there more in this story that we dont know?

One day go over to his work and when he calls you saying he's leaving early be like " oh good im at the front waiting for you" =)

I doubt you'll read this since you posted awhile ago but one day on her laptop remove her internet explorer and download advant. Its a type of internet browser. When you x out windows, you can restore them by clicking on the advant browser icon =) And if she is using aim, they always have those conversation savers. Maybe you'll see that she is really being faithful online, but then again i doubt it. you seem like a really nice and wonderful guy, i hope it works out =) Relationships are killers if there isn't any trust =/

I absolutely love Dereks response =)

I agree with you coollady, absolutely. Also star6 dont you hate it when your boyfriend makes promises that he can't keep? My personal opinion on this is that if the woman doesn't want their husband/boyfriend looking at porn and he will actually "agree" to stop unconditionally, then there shouldn't be a problem with that. But be warn of a let down because your boyfriend/husband WILL look at it eventually whether you find out or not even if occasionally check their internet explorer history. I used to never really care, but actually just laugh it off when I would accidentally find it. Until one day after my boyfriend & I had sex just before he left, which was around 10.30pm, to go home and sleep for school. Usually when he's returns home, we immediately chat online and whatnot. But this time he wasn't responding for about half an hour. So around 11.15pm when his away message went down, I asked him what he was doing. He replied saying he was taking a ``long shower``. Of coarse i believed him. Few days later I accidently stumbled on the pages (why can't they ever delete their history?) he looked at during his ``long shower``and found out he was jacking off the entire time basically. I mean we had just had sex 5 minutes before he went home to jack off. He did say he was tired, its not like we had sex and he wanted more. I guess i felt like ` what the f***?!` . He also made promises that he wouldn't and broke it about 9 times. (Yes thats how many times i found out during a 5 month period) . The ninth time I said to him ``So having an orgasm lasting 10 secs is worth more than the two years we've been together, nice seeing how you would throw it away so easily?``. I guess to him, he really " needed " porn. Yes i am still with him (sadly?) and I know there will be a time that he will do it again, it inevitable. Soemtimes i wonder what about the times that i didn't catch him.? He used to assure me that he wouldn't do it anymore by not erasing the history to clean his tracks. Turned out that when you go to history you can right click a link and delete that link only without deleting the entire history. And thats what he did. I just hate it how they lie when you confront them, then just until you show them the evidence they admit it. He used to B**** at me whenever i brought it up, then thats when i showed him the evidence. he sured had the surprised expression on his face. Maybe the only reason why people (mainly women) are accepting it, is because it`s such a common thing for men to do. Why should we accept that ? Then again, I am young and hopefully one day my perspective will change and I wont mind it so much as I do now. Its always good to be open minded right? I kinda understand TIREDMAN's point of view. =)