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  1. You are 13 years old.... I know this might not be what you wanna hear but... YOU ARE TOO YOUNG for things like this. That's how I feel anyway.
  2. Thank you for your words. I'll do what you suggested. At;east there is hope.
  3. Yip, all you say is true. I haven't confesed or denied anything yet. SHe told me about it an I just keot quit. Gave her time to talk. Thanks for your advice!
  4. I will. I have to do anything/everything I can. I know I have to take all the blame 'cos she isn't to blame. I still have no idea how to approach her when i see her in the morning.
  5. I am sorry about the "fling" She did say that she'll give us 2 years. (first divorce the 2 years) Then if she can depend on me again, we'll get married again. I would hate to do that. But, if it's the only way, then I'll have to. I did help out with everything. i love my daughter and tried to spend as much time with her as possible. She found out 39 days ago but, I wasn't in the country (i am an interpeter for Taiwan's Minister's who cant speak English and as much as I wanted, couldn't go back to Taiwan, I couldn't - we cureently live in Taiwan) and only really had time to speak to her today after I got back. How do I get her to go to marriage counseling with me asap? I really love her. I was wrong. Again, if we cold only turn back time....
  6. Like I said, I dont want to make any excuses but, our relationship went "down" after we had our baby. Felt like second best and STPIDITY. I don't know why. Started as aone-night-stand then, we had a brief (1 month) affair. I realized what I was doing and ended it. If we could only turn back time.....
  7. I know. But I dont want to lose her. What should I do?
  8. Well, we had a baby 19 months ago. After that, we didn't spend anymore quality time together and we had less sex. (as expected) She only had time for our lovely daughter, not for us anymore altough she made an effort. I could see that. I don't want to use our baby as an excuse but, it may be part of the reason. The other part: Stupidity
  9. I know I know. I found out too that I made the biggest mistake of my life by cheating on my wife with a "fling". I look back now and I can't believe what I did. I feel SO bad. I know I lefta big scare. I broke the realationship off with the "fling" and she phoned my wife and told her EVERYTHING. I also know I deserve it. I have a wonderful wife. I love her more than ANYTHING in the world but she's shouting divorce now. I can't blame her. I don't want to lose her and don't know what to do now. How do I get her to trust me again. Where do I begin, what do I say. Please help me. I can't see my future with anybody else. She is my life. I will never do anything again to mess up our lives but, how do I prove it to her. What can I do???
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