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Just curious....what exactly does this game consist of...my girlfriend is going through a long messy divorce with an ex husband that is a moron!! Her oldest son (7) has respect issues and I know it's because of what he is going through....please advise

You say that you don't care??? Yet you are on this website.....I think you are screaming for help.....25 years old....dude, you haven't even seen life yet!!!

My heart goes out to all of those feeling depressed and contemplating suicide....I don't know how each individual is feeling but I can offer you some encouraging advice........I was once deeply depressed to the point where it was affecting my employment, my family and friends. I don't know the reasons for everyones depression, but mine was over a girl!! I was depressed for several months and I as well was contemplating ways to end it all....One day I was walking the streets of Manhatten...I was by myself and it was really cold....as I was walking, I noticed all of the homeless people walking the streets with out jackets, shoes, and not a dime in their pocket....I approached one gentleman and decided to have a little conversation with him....I swear to you that he was the happiest man on the face of the earth....I asked myself, if a person with nothing (no family, friends, money, or home) can be happy....why can't I?? I went home that night and evaluated my life.....here I am, very successful, loving family and friends, car and house.....I looked in the mirror and I felt very selfish.... comparing my life (which wasn't bad at all) to this homeless man.....I couldn't believe that he was so much happier than me!!! That's when I came to the realization that Damn, my life isn't that bad....Now today I thank God each and every morning that I have air to breath and a place to go every day........I'm reading some of these posts and it is amazing how many of you are younger than 20 years old....you haven't started your lives....yet you want to end it!! Do whatever it takes to heal yourselves....life is already too short!! Times will change and so will your feelings.....go out and enjoy life!! I live by the phrase "The past is history, The future is a mystery, and the present is GREAT" I wish you all a happy and healthy road to recovery!!

I was married for 7 years and have been divorced for 4 years......I tried to keep in contact with my ex-wife up until the last 3 months.....I didn't realize it at the time but I just got off a 4 year relationship with someone I thought would be my soulmate......the problem with my ex girlfriend was the ex-wife.....She couldn't accept that the person I was married to but divorced for 4 years was still a part of my life.....I never realized that my ex-wife was still a big part of my life and it ruined my relationship with my girlfriend.....I have since broken off all ties with my ex-wife because it is time to move on and keep the past in the past.......I have a new phrase to live by...."The past is history, The future is a mystery, and the present is great".......concentrate on your new girlfriend and make it work.....only you can do it!!!

You know what to do....you just need to do it. Listening to all these suggestions will make you crazy....learn spanish?!? read a book?!? e-maill her?!? C'mon Suker, stop saying you don't know what to do!!! Yeah it hurts to come to the realization that she will not be in your life anymore but it is reality.....and, you want her to forgive you??? For what!!!! For breaking your heart and ruining all your dreams?? To hell with her, she is no good for you....and you know I can say that....just like my girl wasn't good for me!! Yeah it hurts, but I don't see HER on this website.....we should be waiting for the apology...and if we don't get it, well then they weren't meant to be with us!!! CAN'T WAIT FOR 2006!!!!

That's my boy!!!! Congrats Pete!!! I'm proud of your breakthrough!!! Maybe we'll run into each other soon.

Hey sukerbut....we all have done that, take it easy and don't kill yourself over it!!! Now, what will you do when she calls you back??? You know she will. Be strong my brother!! DON'T ANSWER HER CALL!! Remember what you said...."she was a cancer in your life" Don't forget that!

Mail the freaking jacket back...she is not worth it!!! I had a burial when my ex dumped me, I gathered all of her personal belongings all the pictures and everything that reminded me of her and burried it in the park....I learned the hard way (because I also hit rock bottom) that if the person you are with doesn't want you and doesn't appreciate all that you do for them then let them go because somebody else better is out there waiting for us and I am so excited to meet them whenever that happens......tell yourself that it starts today and try to forget all the negative aspects that brought you to the point of where you are today. I love my ex but after what she did to me.......I don't even want her back.....I still have my days where I get upset, but you need to tell yourself that you were too good for her....and MOVE FORWARD. The more you have contact with her the more backward steps you will take!!

Yo sukerbut, you called her a cancer in your life.....when someone has cancer they remove it and they thank God for for giving them a second chance in life....consider yourself lucky and move on...SHE IS NO GOOD FOR YOU!!!

Hey sukerbut, You know my story...being dumped by a girl after a 4 year relationship....she dumped me like a gallon of spoiled milk!! This was exactly 1 month and 4 days ago...on my birthday to be exact (what a friggin sweetheart). She's called and left messages for me....she called me 7 times last Thursday, leaving me a message saying that "I am and always will be the love of her life". So I gave in and called her back the next day...like a freaking idiot...I asked her to go to dinner and talk (maybe this is when she wanted me back)....Nope, she says she can't..then why leave me these messages. Everytime I take 1 step forward I found myself taking 2 steps back. So I said screw this...I went out Friday nite and had an unbelievable time!!! I met many new people and even hooked up with a WOMAN instead of my darling 22 year GIRL (same age sukerbut as your girl). To make a long story short...I'm going to dinner with this WOMAN Friday night. Today my ex decided to e-mail me. She kept asking who I'm hanging out with and why I'm staying out so late (I actually text messaged her Friday @ 2:30a.m.). I told her that's none of her business....it was my mistake to text her. I also told her that I always thought that she was a smart person but that I finally realized she was an idiot because I would NEVER DUMP "the love of my life". Don't get me wrong....I still love this girl...but you know what, it's their loss and that I know is true.......damn true!!! Don't cave in Bro...we've come too far...and we hurt too much....you don't want that again, I know I don't

James, my ex is doing the same thing to me...she calls me and leaves me messages stating she loves me, she wants to know how I am doing, and I know it drives her crazy when I don't pick up....she tells me this...it's been barely a month since she DUMPED ME and I am now starting to feel stronger.....I've been going out and meeting new people....I went on a date yeaterday and my ex called me 7 times and left 3 messages...Once my date ended, I checked my voice mail, she kept saying how sorry she was for hurting me and she even told me that I was the love of her life!!! I wanted so badley to pick up the phone and call her, but I didn't...about 1:30 a.m. she called me again....this time I picked up, I told her that if I was the love of her life, then how come she left me?? I asked her if she would ever want to be with me again? She said yes....so I told her that the next time she calls me it better be because she wants to be with me....otherwise DON'T CALL. She was crying when I hung up and said goodbye..I did tell her that I loved her and of course she told me she loved me......Now the ball is in her court, she now knows that I am strong and that I will survive...I think that bothers her?? STAY STRONG

She is not saying that she loves me but not in love....she is saying that she loves me and is in love with me!!! She constantly text messages me "I LOVE YOU" and "I MISS YOU" WHY IS SHE PLAYING THESE MIND GAMES

Hey sukerbut.......you hit the nail on the head with your drug analogy!!! Boy I wish I had a friend like you to talk to on a consistant basis!!!! I need someone like you to talk to whenever I'm down......we have alot in common...young girls breaking our hearts....why are we bothering kids when we are all adults!!! Our girls (ex) have not even lived....that's my thinking...they will realize what they had and by then it will be too late because we will have been stronger and we will have already moved on!!! Then in a couple of years we all will look back and laugh at what we have been crying about!!! let me put it to you this way...you were 8-9 years older than your girl...that means when you were in College she was in freaking Grammer school!!!! I am in that same boat! It still hurts to get played!!! Love is a powerful emotion!!!

Can somebody please explain to me what the hell does it mean when a girl, after 4 years in a relationship, breaks up with you but looks you straight in the face and says "I Love You, I am In Love with You but I can't be with you" and "My Mind is telling me not to be with you but my heart says I should".....either way she dumped me!!!!

I was in a relationship with a girl much much younger than I.....I realized my faults and I started to take the blame for our failed relationship....trust me, it's not your fault...I treated my girl like a princess...but than I started to realize "what does this girl have to offer me"....well she dumped me and now I feel like crap....but when you think about it....is all the pain worth it?? Weather it was your fault or hers, if 2 people were meant for each other, you compromise and discuss all the problems in a relationship....my girl would sit there quietly and not say a word...I would always ask her "what's bothering you baby" or "talk to me sweetheart"....she just ran away......look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself "is all the grief worth it"....yeah it hurts, it gonna hurt for a while...but if you were meant to be, you would still be with her.....my mother always said never chase a woman "when a woman says no, than it really is no"