aloneforever
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I built a gym in my room, it takes up more than two thirds of my room but its worth it. It took me a while to start losing weight but I lost about thirty pounds and now I'm pretty slim and all I did was lift weights, but I guess the results might be different for different people maybe you should get exercise at home or jog at night if you're bothered by other people.
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It might be the case, the last person I asked out was fat and ugly though so it might not but I'm in college now. You should just try to let it go if you're sure that nothing is going to happen, besides if he's shy then how do you know what he's really like?
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I've decided I'm going to do it whether or not she rejects me, I'm starting to get pretty hardnosed anyway I should be used to it by now so theres no problem.
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What do you do when you ask someone out and get rejected? Especially when you put a spectacular amount of effort into impressing and making that person feel special and happy? I've got an event similar to that up and coming and I'm getting a lot of cold feedback, despite that I'm still going to go through with it. Getting back to the main question, how do you deal with rejection?
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A general post about women and commitment...
aloneforever replied to bzborow1's topic in Breaking Up Advice
What if its just that more poeple who encounter that kind of problem decide to post it? Probably not, just my two cents. -
Yeah, hate to sound harsh I know how you feel wait for college then things like popular and unpopular won't exist.
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I wouldn't be giving that kind of advice unless I knew about it first hand, Angie I know how you feel, I know you've heard it all before because I have too. Killing yourself won't solve anything. If anything it will make things worse, think about the poeple that care about you and get help.
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I think online dating isn't exactly the ideal way to meet anyone, there is a lack of physical expression and all the other person can see is what you type for example you would have no idea if the person is really what you think they are, and even if they are then what are you going to do about it? About all online relationships eventually boil down to "long range" relationships which don't work out anyway. In my oppinion, online relationships can be serious but for the most part they facilitate people who are unable to get into a relationship otherwise.
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Just be really good looking, or really rich. Failing either of those you should try briefly mentioning something that you're good at, don't steer the conversation becuase then it'll seem kind of showy and she'll notice it just mention some of your skills or hobbies and if thats what she's into then she'll be impressed, or interested otherwise if she isn't interested in what you're into then you probably wheren't a good match anyway.
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Not a good sign, you've repented maybe she'll forgive you, hope for the best.
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Its something you can only learn with practise, let him know you don't know how if you do it won't be a challenge.
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I hate to break this to you, but even if you and cameron get back together what makes you think it won't happen again? I think you should let him go and find someone who: 1. Won't cheat on you, or allow rumors like that to be started. 2. Won't Talk behind your back. 3. Break up with you and use you like an object. Have respect for yourself over everything else its the most important thing right now, being obsessed is actually something you can control its a matter of willpower you can get over him if you try hard enough.
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How can i stop whats happenin 2 me???
aloneforever replied to Shywolf12's topic in Emotions and Feelings
Ask her out, if she says yes then you won't really have a need to get over it. I know its probably going to be extremely hard but you have to do it. Confront her after work and tell her how you feel or failing that write a note and leave it where she'll find it if she's got a car then put it under her wiper or something. If she says no then I'm sure it will be hard for you but you'll live even though chances are you won't really feel like living after having an experience like that but give it time and I'm sure you'll fall in love the same way, just with someone else. -
pretty soon you'll be attracted to someone else and as quickly as those feelings set in they will leave.
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how do you tell her? its easy enough just open your mouth and let the words come out, if thats too hard you can augment your shyness with chemicals or just get someone else to tell her.