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Zerohero

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  1. Hang in their bro, we've all been through it, and possibly still going...
  2. What I was basically saying is that your 40... I think. When two people that age are dating things are different than say a 21 year old like myself. Even though I concider myself pretty mature, I still don't have as mucn experience like someone that age. I would also like to point out that all 30 and 40 year olds are not that mature either.
  3. I think you missed the point.... That comment was not to offend you.
  4. Well it's different when your like late 30s and 40's than when your in your 20s. Just like when us 20 year olds look at 16 year old relationships as kinda childish.
  5. Exactly, the most you could ever do as a friend/ex is have short conversations about ............. well nothing because seeing her/him will constantly bring up all the old memories.
  6. I'm warning you, I was like you in a different situation for a breif period. Trust me, you need to stop hurting yourself.
  7. Not even, it just wont work. In the end, the other person will want to be with their new love or what ever.
  8. Exactly , those feelings well come, and you guys will have thoughts of being together again...... but wait we can't. After a few nights of forbidden love one of you will say to the other no lets stay friends, and the other won't want that. I've seen it happen to much.
  9. Indeed, I tell many people this, and it helps them get the head strait. It also helped me out.
  10. It's very cruel, and I advice anyone who just broke up to not do it. Mutual friends on the other hand, it doesn't work much either. I mean what will you two talk about?
  11. You can't be friends with someone you just loved. It's like your mom saying I just want to be friends, I"m not your mother anymore.... it doesn't work.
  12. Yea just get into hobbies man, and the rest will flow. I like to play computer games, work out, dance, write, read, and computers. There has to be plenty of poeple who I can connect with who enjoy the same thing. If one person you meet doesn't take kindly to you who cares, there are 1000's of kids at universities, and colleges to talk to who are just as lonely as you. Forget your ex, I went through the same depressing state, forget your ex, and have limited contact with anyone she knows. Oh yea, going to the movies is awsome! lol, take a girl or a good friend you have something in common with, and hang out at the movies, and have something to eat afterwards, its awsome. Oh remember this, you don't go to school to "party" you go to learn, so first comes first dude. The rest is the extra's, and treat them as that "extras".
  13. I think I'm really close to finding it. The search started my jr year in HS, and it's gone well since. No longer do I try to fit in with the in crowed. I just be myself, and life has gotton better because of it. Although I still suffer from my own thoughts from time to time. At least I'm know I'm being true myself as much as possible.
  14. Indeed, but one thing you must remember, is sometimes there really is not anything to talk about. Yes the first time you talk to someone the conversation will be great, after that it just depends on the two of you. The thing I don't like is fakeness. I can't stand people who act fake around me. Especially people you know, and yet sometimes they still have the tendency to act fake.
  15. Friends thing never works, sorry
  16. .................. If you can just be friends after you "loved" someone, then you never really loved them...
  17. Yea this happens to everyone. These thoughts come and go, just don't act on them. Try not to dwell on them to much. They can hinder progress.
  18. I heard of this, all though I never heard of it lasting very long. Common 4 months?
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