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  1. Zerohero
    THis is very true. My ex told her friend this, which got back to me. At first I was like wow she's over that quick!? Then I thought for a sec, and said to myself, she's just trying to hurry up, and get over me. Which I was write. Now she's jacking up relationships with other people because she couldn't focus on her problem. So yes this is very true!
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    Good point FC, I think I've come to my full mind over these months.
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    Thanks for the replies, I have been talking to other girl, but nothing serious. It's just after that day, it kinda got me thinking what is "she" thinking. But I wouldn't dare break the NC that I"ve done for 9 months, just to be stupid , and call her. But then I wonder if she's sitting there sometimes wanting me to call her. But its like you said, if she wanted to call, then she would have called.Or she wants me too..... Anyway, thanks for all the advice.
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    The above is a simi recape.... We saw each other on campus the other day. It happened out of the blue. We did our general hello's. She said it was nice seeing me, but I didn't read into to much since well you can't just take words like that to serious. Then again who knows. Anyway, my questions are, Can I truly say it's over? What could she be thinking at her point of view? Is it normal to even at this point still want love from your ex? Sometimes I wonder if the reason she doesn't contact or talk to me is because I don't do the same to her. I'm no woman so I wouldn't understand from her point of view. I've made excellent progress being by myself so I guess I can say I've made it.
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    Glad to see you moving on to better things man. I wish the best.
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    Honestly my friend you shouldn't even go see her. She broke up with you so she should be the one trying to contact you. Her bf got way to upset I can understand his point of view " In a jacked up way" but he see's her as his gf now so you have to respect that. I know it hurts man but you must let this fish back into the ocean for good.
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    Mostly everyone in here has lost someone they really cared about. Best way to get over it I found it to get out and be with friends even when you don't want to. Don't call her and talk to her. She broke up with you so she has to be the one trying to make contact. No B day no Christmass NOTHING. Trust me it's not easy. Even though its' been a long while I still think about my EX. Sometimes it pisses me off because I wish I could just forget. I'll leave you with this... "Why do we fall?, So we can learn to pick ourselves up"
  8. Zerohero
    You are: * slightly expressed introvert * moderately expressed intuitive personality * moderately expressed feeling personality * moderately expressed judging personality INFJ Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging Strength of the preferences % 22 50 50 33
  9. Zerohero
    Hit it on the nail!
  10. Zerohero
    Hey man just some advice. It's not good to go off telling your ex your feeling like that. They will more and likely go un answered because in her mind she as of right now does not want to have much to do with you. There are happy endings, it's just they come about different for everyone. Let go of your feelings and find yourself. If you cannot love yourself then you can never love again and this is the truth.
  11. Zerohero
    I just needed to make sure my choice in staying home was accepted amongst other people idea's. I just had a revolutionary talk with my aunt the other day and I no longer feel as bad anymore about the whole thing I actually feel more focused again.
  12. Zerohero
    It's not as bad as the "It's not you, it's me" kinda thing.
  13. Zerohero
    You know, that really makes sense. It just took someone to bring it up to my face. I have no idea why I feel obligated sometimes to go to her family events etc. I do however have a good relationship with her brother. We workout together etc. Maybe thats why I sometimes feel the need to go. Thanks again and I'll be looking forward to talking to you in the future.
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    Alright, Thanks for the quick response to my thread! Going to her B day would just bring up old feelings and probably bother me so it is best I should not go. Now that I think about it, I should not have went to her little brothers parties either.
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    That is true. Thanks for validating my thoughts. If she contacts me though, what are your opinions on that?
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    The dilima is her B day is coming up in another month right before mine. Now I've been invited and went to her little brothers B day parties etc. But I've stayed away and keep with the NC for quit a while now. I think it's been 4 months or so. Her mom made this comment while I was at the last B day party and said "Is the only time I'm going to see you on someones B day?" I just smiled cause I was thinking probably so. Anyway, we havent talked other than one time. I called and spoke with her and we had the cheap "chit chat" conversation which spawn into really nothing more than a 5 min chat. So as of right now I'm set on not going. I feel as though I'd be making the right desision unless she invites me HERSELF( I was invited by her mother and brother to the other parties). So what do you guys think?
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    Wow, After reading through all these pages and your drama in your life I actually felt really bad for you man honestly. Im still dealing with my break up a little bit every now and then. I have the flash backs like you described. But I've been getting better. ALOT better actually, there are other girls out there that are interested in me. I have my eye on one particually and hopefully she will be coming down to the college I go to soon. 6 months after the break up the worst thing that bothers me is the old memories. But I have noticed days where I wake up and don't think about the Ex at all and it shocks me. I enjoy the thought of forgeting. You will reach this point as well soon. The only thing I have to worry about is seeing the ex at the college and her b day is coming up. But I think I will not go even if I'm invited to go. I might have a few months ago but I really feel like there is no point to going. But yea man keep your head up and I really pray someone comes along to bless you they way you where intended to be blessed.
  18. Zerohero
    So true about the lets be friends thing. When you here that it's time to just leave it there. If she wants you , she will be calling you.
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    well I've already been on it for about two weeks so I'll join the club...
  20. Zerohero
    I pretended like the whole friendship thing could actually work.... Probably the bigest mistake. Besides that, nothing to dramatic. I need to post an update to all my "new" events
  21. Zerohero
    Even if you are "In love" don't say so. Wait till after a good 4 - 8 months I say.... trust me 8)
  22. Zerohero
    People mistake LOVE for LUST sometimes. Anyway, If you "Love" someone you will do anything to see the goodness of their well being. Meaning if they get sick you care and are their etc. For someoen to tell me they are not in "In love" with me anymore means that they no longer care for me anymore on a serious level.
  23. Zerohero
    If a girl would have told me she could leave me anytime if her parents found a "better replacement" I would have never went out with her....
  24. Zerohero
    Well what if the dumper want's to still be friends with the possibility of getting back together in the future?
  25. Zerohero
    Yea some days gets really hard for me. I just try and focus on things I enjoy and imagine life without that person in the future. My ex a few weeks ago starting trying to contact me asking why I was not calling. She wanted to be friends etc. Of couse me being "a good guy" like I always am, I said yes but in my mind I KNOW that I'm not going to run after her anymore. You should do the same. Trust me it's very hard. You can instant message me if you want to...
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