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  • Birthday 01/12/1976

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  1. acuraman
    I think it is very selfish to take one's life because of the people it will affect.
  2. acuraman
    Give her the space she asked for because being needy and clingy will get you no where. Usually when someone wants space, they need the time to reflect on the relationship. Dont call or text her. Let her contact you when she is ready.
  3. acuraman
    If shes becoming distant and cold towards you, its for a reason. People that care about you don't get this way towards people they like. It seems that she wants you to be the person who ends the relationship so she doesnt have to deal with a guilty conscience.
  4. acuraman
    Attraction is important. If there is no attraction, then I would suggest you let him know so that he doesn't bug you. I think he's trying way too hard to impress you when he should just be himself.
  5. acuraman
    It all depends on the person. Some people have easier times adapting to being single than others. Just because they seem content on the outside doesn't always mean that they are. It sounds like you need more time to readjust to being single again. You were so used to having someone in your life and now they are gone and you don't know what to do. I too felt this way when my ex broke up with me and it did take some time to get used to being single. Now I actually enjoy having "my time" and not having to answer to any one.
  6. acuraman
    Thats just as bad as saying "your not a priority in my life". You deserve someone better than her. If I were you, I would tell her to "take a hike".
  7. acuraman
    Just mail it to her. That way you don't have to deal with seeing or hearing her.
  8. acuraman
    Just keep your conversation short and simple. Don't talk about your prior relationship with her and stay on the opposite side of the room from her. Oh, I would definitely bring a date too.
  9. acuraman
    If your not committed to either one, then go ahead and go on as many dates as you want. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone.
  10. acuraman
    You have nothing to be embarrased about. If a guy has a problem with you being a virgin at your age, then he most likely is not the person for you. I hope you find someone that will be patient and understanding.
  11. acuraman
    He's probably hanging on to your stuff to get back at you for breaking up with him, or he could be using it as an advantage for you to keep in contact with him. He knows if he returns your stuff, you'll stop calling him.
  12. acuraman
    Your still growing! Like the others have said, don't worry about your height. Your the same height as I am and Im glad that Im this height because I can fit in any car perfectly, my feet doesn't hang off the bed, and there are many more advantages to being the height you are.
  13. acuraman
    Take the suggestion of others on this forum and don't call her. Initiate N/C with her. If she wants to call and work things out then it would be up to you to pick up the phone or just let it ring. When you texted her, she said she was "getting drunk" which meant she was out having a good time trying to move on. Its going to be hard, but its something you need to do so you can move forward in life.
  14. acuraman
    Breaking up with someone is never an easy decision, and it shows by what you have written. Perhaps during the breakup, your ex really did mean what he said by "being friends". I'm sure it hurts him just as much as to not contact you or reply to your messages because he was in the process of healing and maybe he still is at the current time. You have given him more than enough chances to reply and respond to your messages. I would cease contact with him and let him contact you if he should ever decide to speak to you again. Good luck.
  15. acuraman
    After my ex broke up with me, I have been spending more time at the gym and hanging out with friends that I didn't see when I was with her. Its weird how when your single again, theres so much time to do the things you want to do and not be in a rush.
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