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Probably is being that it has a lot of chemicals in it.

All that gentleman **** that your being told to do by others man, here's a question would you normally hold open doors, and carry books for women? That's right no. It's worthless and you'll probably feel like a dork for doing it lol. Use an alternative, let her know you care through something else. Like hinting it when flirting or something, you don't need to hold open doors, etc and be a kiss ***. I mean your only holding the doors open and carrying her books once so yeah it's pointless anyhow. I didn't say anything about David DeAngelo. Thx for the compliment. You are right on most levels as well (cheesy I know reading that, lol but yeah it's true man).

I haven't even had sex and I would most likely prefer the real thing instead of a right hand . Since he prefers porn instead of you, I think he has a porn addiction. Do you think your physically attractive? In better words I mean, do you think he thinks your physically attractive?

No problem . Thanks for the compliment.

Maybe he's so perfect that it doesn't do it for you. That's why I date people who aren't perfect (lol, I can't find anyone who's perfect anyway) because that way it doesn't get boring and remains a challenge.

Yeah...lol. Why are you asking? I think I happen to be pretty mature for my age, probably as mature as a 17 or 18 maybe 19 year old. I'm leaning towards the 17-18 area though .

Maybe you don't think he's as physically attractive as you wish him to be (which you can't change that of course)...if he gets more aroused he obviously enjoying the hell out of it and doesn't want to screw up.

Maybe he's not in it for the sex.

Rofl. Well if you thought about animals, or whatever, having sex, etc. that day it usually ends up in your dreams lol. Dreams I believe tend to rely on emotions for it's "power" aka weirdness and stuff. Like work is stressing you or something and you need to relax hence that "flat mate" making jokes to your boss or something. And yeah I think you get the point.

Well, this happens to be due to genetics not due to working out like a health nut. I happen to be like that, except a guy lol. I gain lbs though I use protein shakes and that works for me. Maybe a diet pill will work? I've never seen anyone use it but maybe it works maybe it doesn't, if it's a steriod (I don't know if it is ) then DON'T use it.

Sick dude. Yeah, she.is.into.you. lol. 2. Not all that great, but still she is interested. 3. ..... I think she was just waiting for you to do something like tell her she was hot, or is interesting or ask her out something of that sort lol. Like someone else said she wants you badly lol.

1. You'll know, if you 2 get really bored (which shouldn't happen but if it does) and decide to watch TV or a movie or something, I don't know how to explain it, but it works like you look at her lips for 2 seconds, then back up and yeah the rest works by itself and your instinct lol. It can happen in a lot of situations similar to the TV one. I don't know dude, when you feel like its the right moment by gut feeling it usually tends to be . 2. You could, like to suck on her lip, I'd recommend that for later lol. 3. Don't give her a St.Bernard, no slobber, no "ice cube effect" (dry toungue, if you question where that term is from, you know when your toungue is wet and you take a dry ice cube out of the freezer and put it on your toungue, or when you go snowboarding and put your toungue on the chairlift and it sticks there, lol). 4. What ever you like, just make sure it can last a while. Eat an Altoid or something, peppermint sucks unless you like strong stuff. Get a Wintergreen or something. 5. I don't recall kissing a "cold mouth" but yeah I guess it might be better I don't know lol. 6. Not even going to reply lol. If your braces and her braces do a chain reaction and get stuck -- most likely XD. 7. You don't need to french the first time, forget about it man, keep the majority of your hornyness to yourself the first time, you let a bit of it out on your first kiss. Lol. 8. If you choose to french, don't do the boring "washing machine" effect. And see 3. 9. If you **** it up its bad, since its your first time she may cut you some slack. I mean the first time you and your gf kiss it is pretty important, and "tells her everything she needs to know about the relationship" lol, I don't know ask a girl about what it means, and not your gf....of course lol.

I don't want to argue with you here, but to me it just sounds like this test that women do; it's the supplication test, if you fall for it your screwed. It's like what the girls with a lot of attitude do, at lunch there like "Can you buy my a Coke? Pleassee" with a face that you can't resist (for most guys they can't lol) and then you do it and your an idiot for doing it and then there like "Awww Thank you!" and smiling and **** what it really means is "Thanks for being my personal ATM! ", I know I've fell into the supplication trap a few times [slaps self]. If your interested in the girl, take small steps, then progress to small talk for a week or so (a week to a month) then ask her out. I don't see what's so hard about doing that compared to being kiss ***. If some girls like that whatever [shrugs] must be a little percentage. Sure, it's not bad to be a charming guy but carrying books and offering to do things like that to me just sounds kiss ***. And I'm not arguing or anything BillyJean. It just doesn't sound right to me lol.

You have solved your own problem lol. You shouldn't find a gf that is perfect, I mean she's got to have a lot or at least some what (more than 2 or 3 things) different than you. But I'm not saying don't pick someone you hardly have anything in common with just yeah I think you get it . It's alright if your over-thinking things, under this subject I'm pretty sure everyone does. Yeah, I totally get what your talking about, well if you feel this way, think about it first of course and then when you make your decision break up with her or not. I'd choose break up because, a relationship is pretty much worthless without that "spark".

I don't think so, but if you want my input, I find myself more PHYSICALLY attracted to my own race more than any other. It doesn't mean other races aren't attractive, just not as.

Well here's a good blonde joke lol it can be anything having to do with being lazy like for example here I'm going to use homework. Girl: "Ughhh, I don't want to do my homework" Guy: "That's not an excuse just because your blonde" lol, it's great. That's actually a tease but whatever, still funny . And then you can play back and forth with it and have a fun conversation. I have some other jokes...there good I don't know if anyone would get offended so I'm not posting them, you can PM for them if you'd like (no there not racist or anything like that).

I think he's trying to get you to maybe have sex with him, so he can lose his "sexual awkwardness" .

I don't think it's normal though is it really weird. I don't know. It's just...obscene lol.

For me, Proactive was the biggest waste of money on my acne. It was just crap. Just as much crap as Nature's Cure. Prescription drugs are the way to go. I've been using this anti-biotic called Dynacin for 1 month and a half now and anti-biotics kick in about 2-3 months so I'm already getting good results so yeah its working great and I get A LOT less acne then I used to. It kills the acne where it starts pretty much. It probably works a lot better on people with mild acne, but I have deep-rooted so yeah just saying what I've used. I also use Retin-A micro. I know some people that used to have bad acne, they'd use anti-biotics and Retin-A and it got rid of there acne, so I highly recommend you see a dermotologist. It's so much more worth it than doing Proactive. Oh yeah I don't know if you have a different face mask, but I had that sulfur mask and that was probably the only thing that worked. I used that more than the actual Proactive lol, it dryed out my face, I still got acne but, it was better than having a greasy face.

I definitely agree with Markers and Napoleon. Markers last post, I thought was great.

rofl. Go shidoshi. That's because oxytocin is released in the brain when cuddling with your gf, the same love hormone is released in a woman when she is nursing a baby. Well I think Shidoshi is right in a way, there shouldn't be anything wrong with guys wanting to enjoy having sex with attractive women, that doesn't make guys scum or a disgrace. I mean it is our primitive urge to have sex with a woman that is healthy, in other words physically attractive.

7. Those are only girls I connected with though, there's lots of girls I was interested, but yeah 7 were only the ones that had a lot of things in common with me. Because, telling someone "I have feelings for you" or "I like you" is a bad way of doing it, why not just ask them out? "I like you" and other words for it is just a bad way to do it. It's always drived women away when I've done that, and I'm pretty sure its not only happened to me. Longest relationship I've had is 8 months, that's a pretty good length of time for being 15. There's other people that have had longer relationships than me at 15 but after 5 months, it just turned into a friend relationship for them...I mean you could tell, it seemed a lot like friends. The girls eventually broke up with the guys because they got boring I guess. Same nice guy ****. They were one of the "bad boys" when they started dating in the first 5 months, then the girl softened them up and turned them into a nice guy. Girls date bad boys for one reason being that they think they can change there ways (and one of those ways would not be teasing so don't start that **** .) How do you know your going to marry this girl? lol. If you had at least 5 decent amount of time relationships I'd respect your opinion. (Decent amount of time being 5-8 months).

I agree with this. The age I fell first in love at was 7.

Yeah Jordan_2, I'm definitely done arguing with him, he doesn't get it..my uncle is in his late 30's and he still uses teasing on his wife, not every day, every now and then, it's not like she hates it. Shysoul you just suck at it and get ****** reactions. Jordan, I'm done arguing with him...I mean he doesn't get it....and really he's only had one gf. It's not supposed to I'm not saying what you did right there is wrong (except for the fact it does sound kinda *** kissing) but yeah, it's not a bad thing to do that. It's just that it's supposed to be a once and a while thing.

So your saying anyone that's not a nice guy will never get a gf? Most the guys in my family are not nice guys like you ShySoul and they sure have good marriages, its surprising that only one guy in my family who is 72 is divorced....and I'm not sure whether he's a nice guy or not. You give me the impression that your always trying to get a woman's approval.