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here i hope this helps..it helped me when i was in the same kind of situation...good luck with everything link removed

i dont think it was the fact that he was mad that i had sex with other races it was the fact that i didn't tell him when he first originally asked. not because i didnt want to i did, but i was scared and at the moment, i didn't feel comfortable. you are all probably right. but i know i said some hurtful things. thank you for the advice.

i did in the car on the way home, he still is scared i think that i am like his ex. i dont know what to do. i hurts me so bad for what i said...i cant erase it...i can only apologize. i dont know what will happen next.....

I dont know what to do....i think i might have ruined the best relationship i have ever had. i have no one to talk to right now, and i need some adive. my boyfriend and i had an argument about me not telling the truth. he once asked me if i had relationships with men of another race, and at the time i told him no. well tonight i told him the truth. he was mad at me because i "lied" to him. i told him i was so sorry for lying and at the time he asked me i didnt feel comfortable telling him. now he says he needs time to think about things and i dont know what that means. i didnt want to hurt him, but i am so scared to trust people after my last relationship. when he dropped me off i said something that was extremely hurtful to him and i regret so bad now, i just wasnt thinking and i was hurting so bad myself that i said..."im not your ex girlfriend that sucks every guys ****". well needless to say that didnt help my situation. now he is overly hurt and i dont want it to ruin things with him even though i am sorry for saying that, he doesnt believe me now because i lied before. i dont know what to do...and i care about him so much, i honestly didnt mean to hurt him i just wasnt comfortable in telling him my sexual experiences at the time and when i said that hurtful thing about his ex girlfriend i didnt mean that either. i dont know what is going to happen to us now...but i just need some adivce...thanks

all i have to say is be happy with your boobs...lol..mine are huge and i am jealous of girls with smaller breast...just like Hope75 said...you can wear anything. tube tops, halter tops even some bathings suits look like crap on me because mine are just so big..sometime overflowing...lol. just be happy...you can always add to em!

i would still get it checked out, but it sounds like an ingrown hair to me. still good luck with whatever it is.

shysoul....couldn't of said it better myself. I feel no matter what the other people may say on here...that you are absolutely right!

Goin' Crazy-Natalie Mr. Lonley-Akon You'll Think Of Me-Keith Urban Behind These Hazel Eyes-Kelly Clarkson It Only Hurts When Im Breathin-SHania So Yesterday-Hillary Duff Stay Gone-Jimmy Wayne CRY-FAITH HILL Lol...ya think i've been hurt a few times... I have so many more but those are my favorites!

thats beautiful...keep it up

Very good...keep it up!!

Great Book...Just keep reading it. when you finish im tellin ya you'll feel a lot better. I read it when me and my ex were still together, just so i could actually break up with him, because like yours...mine treated me like crap too. I would always run back, lower myself and end up more hurt. My advice just keep reading the book, and talking to the people on here, they are really helpful with these kind of things, and surround yourself with the people that TRULY love you, and don't treat you bad! Good luck, im here if you need anything...i know what you're going thru

Oh yeah "Alfie"...Jude Law so hot...but the movie was just too sad for me. lol. That's a typical player. Don't worry Joe, as long as you flirt but do it in a respectful way then you're fine! just don't let it make your head to big, we don't want you turnin out to be one of the "bad boys" we've been discussin in the other post!

I think the main thing it comes down to is Respect...***Aretha couldn't sing it enough*** If a guy is honestly respectful towards a girl, then she will usually go for him, yet you have to be aware of the ones that wear the mask. Are nice, sweet respectful in the beginning, then after awhile their true colors start to show. That's why, from what I have learned is that you must start a friendship with the person first. See what they are truly about. I've seen "bad boys" with sweet sides too, so it just basically comes down to the guy, and the point they are at in their life. If they are young, many times they will just screw around, but then you find those few that actually want a real relationship. I've been there Annie24...I've done the same thing your friend did, and in the end it hurt, but it's a lesson learned. Guy like something they can chase, and the same goes for girls. If a guy is even willing to sleep with you on the first date, then you know usually they are only in it for one thing. I agree with you Yahoo when you say women judge you on what you do, but men do it too...usually if a guy sleeps with a girl on the first date...what are the chances he will call her again? I can understand where you are coming from shysoul, but at the same time i am a little cynical towards your comments, maybe it's because i've heard it all before, now i don't know you and i am not going to judge you because if you are honestly like you say you are...any girl would be lucky to have you in their life. I have been in a relationship with a "bad boy" well a relationship with my definition of a bad boy. I think there are different degrees, there are just the selfish, im gonna get mine type, and then there are the ones who are selfish, manipulative, abusive, rude, don't keep their word etc. you get my point, my ex fit into the serious bad boy. The thing with him was, i actually learned a lot. It really helped me learn to read people better, and watch for the manipulation. when before him, i was so oblivious to the fact they they were walkin all over me, by the time i realized what happened they were already out the door, preying on some other vulnerable girl. So either way, i know i will never date a "bad boy" again, but at this point in my life i am glad i went through what i did (minus the abuse) with the ex, because it helped me realize what i really want out of a relationship, and if they aren't going to give 100% then i just don't waste my time anymore...

I completely agree with farfromperfikt. My ex-boyfriend was the complete package of the "bad boy". Something attracted me to him, and i began to realize that it was a challenge for me. Of course the whole relationship didn't revolve around that, there were times that he could be nice, but usually that bad boy type is selfish, and thats only because he wanted something in return. As time went on however, it just got to be to much, you can't change people no matter what you do or how much you love them. He didn't see anything wrong with his behavior towards me, and the only person that was changing was me, he was changing me. So now, i am done with the bad boy type, i am sick of the chasing and the pushing and just having it be so one sided. I am sure there are nice guys out there, so please come forward...and don't be scared some girl will push you away because you aren't hard enough. There are a lot of girls out there that just want a nice respectful caring guy. Just my 2 cents...

Perfect...you are so good. I could really relate to that one. Almost made me cry....lol Keep up the good work