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  1. Day_Walker
    Well usually the idea is to stay busy after a break up that you get over the person but lets face there are still thoughts while you are trying to be busy. Thinking about the situation is what is going to help and you need to rationalize it to yourself however u can to remedy the problem. Which ever road gets you to acceptance(that it is over) faster is the road you should take. Dont avoid the issue instead realize what has happened, the mistakes you have made and learn from them so you are better prepared for next time. We will love quite a bit of people in this world but it will only work out when the timing is right. So in short just cuz you love a person (or are in love with them) doesnt mean you will end up with them.
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    Yes that would be cheating. There is something deeper that needs to be answered. After being with your bf for 6 years why do you want to stray away from the relationship? Is this a one time want or do you not want to be in your current relationship for some reason/s? This seems like a small decision but it can have drastic effects on your relationship. It would seem that there is something lacking in your current relationship which is most likely related to emotions and thats why this younger man intrigues you and you want to have sex with him. Find out what is lacking in your current relationship and see if you can remedy the problem.
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    This advice might be well beyond you since your only 15 but this is wut you do. You dont act like anything but her friend, and you still go on your date. The idea here is to give her mixed signals. Her situation is such that she has more to lose that you which means you have the position of power. Now dont give up that power by telling her how much you like her. Since she has a man and you are single you are not obligated to only go out with her. She needs to be aware that you arent just sitting around waiting on her, but that you have other interests and you are pursuing those interests. Think of her as nothing more than a friend but flirt with her so she gets those mixed signals. Do not compare her yourself to her bf because that just shows jealousy. Have fun with her and keep your options open since she already has a man and she could be leading you on. Live in the moment and dont expect the situation to be anything more than what you are currently experiencing.
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    The question you have to ask yourself is, if your bf is dissatisfied with your breast size does that mean that you are dissatisfied with them also?. If his opinion of your breasts has a direct effect on you it would seem that you have some doubt yourself or that you are confident enough about your breast size otherwise this would have been very simple for you. remember that breast size is relative it doesnt only have to do with the cup size but also the bust measurement for example a 32C (thats inches for those who think it might be metric) will look noticably different than a 40C. Just keep that concept in mind.
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    Referring to the genitals there are five place to touch a female. The labia majora (outer lips), labia minora (inner lips), around the clitoris, the clitoris and the graffenberg spot aka g spot. 4 of the 5 are on the outside so make sure you hit those spots there will be a certain sequence that your female will like and all you have to do is find it. When you are actually fingering her you want to find her g spot and find out how she likes that spot pleasured. Now if you can hit the g spot and some of the other 4 spots while you are fingering her then you are set. Have fun with it and experiment to find out what she likes because women have different tastes.
  6. Day_Walker
    There are plenty of things that could be the problem as you have seen from the previous posts. Is this a one time thing or is it common for him, that will determine the severity of the problem. This kind of stuff can happen from time to time, if it happens more often then you should address the problem. If you really wanted to help him out then im sure you can think of some creative ideas.
  7. Day_Walker
    There can be many different reasons why he did what he did. You have probably thought of a majority of them. People can change their minds all of a sudden, it happens frequently if you read the breaking up section. There are some relationships that arent going to last not matter what you do. Deal with your feelings and keep moving forward.
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    Your situation is more complex because you are friends with her brother and you call over there to talk to him. This can be a good lesson for you which will help you get over her faster. Do not feel that you are obligated to talk to her if you call for her brother, just ask if he is there and dont ask her anything else. You can meet other girls at the places you hang out. Its gonna take strength on your part, to not jump back into something with this girl. Dont be worried about jumping to another girl to get you over this one its not emotionally healthy because you dont get a chance to deal with your feelings you have for her, all you do is shove her in the back of your mind and it will come back. Think of all the reasons why it didnt work out and realize that it is very rare for a person to change who they are. Learn how to say no to this girl and you will be fine.
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    The faster you accept the situation the healthier it will be for you. Its obvious that you want her back, but remember its a two way street. She has made up her mind and you have to move on. All you can ever do is enjoy the moment that you spend with a person anything else is asking too much. Learn from this situation so you are more prepared for next time
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    Why is it important to know that your past relationship meant something to your ex? All you can ever know is what the relationship meant to you and when you realize that you will become a stronger person. Take some time and grow as a person so you are more prepared for the next relationship.
  11. Day_Walker
    Just from your post it seems like you obviously like/love her more than she likes/loves you. Be aware of what that means, think of the situation you are in right now you want to tell this female so bad that you love her. Now if she felt the same way about you do you think she would be doing the same thing. The simple solution is dont tell her, because your actions speak louder than your words, now i dont mean start doing some crazy ish. Just chill and enjoy then moment you are in because you dont know how long it will last.
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    Love is one of those things thats personal nobody else can tell you that you love another person. Love is an emotion that people create to solidify a bond with another person. Love is what you want it to be, thats why you will find many different opinions about what love is or how you know your in love.
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    Ferris Bueller said it best "timing is everything". There is also something else, there is a time limit you dont want to wait too long so it has to be one of those moments, kissing along with other activities are hit and miss, you get lucky with timing until you know what to look for. Take some mental notes and remember the signals. Another thing to remember is that ITS JUST A KISS. If she doesnt respond to your kiss then you know that it wont work with her.
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    Its and old saying but how true it is "actions speak louder than words". Whether you want to see it or not you are the rebound guy. She had good times with you and you with her. So why not leave it at that? The hardest thing to do is to live in the moment but its just one of those things that you have to do with females. I am not at all saying that this female isnt amazing, but lets face it just because you liked a person that doesnt mean you will get together with them. Its best to move on and if you are the friendly type still be friends with her but realize that it wont be anything more.
  15. Day_Walker
    Well first of all i feel that your post seems biased, all you have done is pointed out negative attributes to this guy and based on that everybody would probably give some advice about getting rid of the guy. There has to be something about this guy that has kept you together this long and this is why you seem conflicted. You are only going to do what you have accepted in your mind is a possible solution to your problem. You know the answer to your problem it is right in front of you and all you have to do is accept that sollution. A recommendation for next time . . . dont get into a situation that you arent prepared to handle.
  16. Day_Walker
    I believe that people who have been broken up with have a tendency to distort their image of the relationship they were in. A person can only truly know their own feelings and people tend to project their feelings on the other person. This distorted image of the relationship is what i believe leads to people acting emotionally and making rash decisions. It is possible for people in this situation to be honest with themselves and not distort the image of their previous relationship?
  17. Day_Walker
    Take a step back from your situation and look at it as if a friend was telling you the same information, would your point of view be different or the same? Doc is right the NC is time away from eachother were you both can grow/find out the person you are. Take a step back and look at the situation with a clear head, from the looks of things thats gonna take you some time because from your previous posts you seem to have come on way too strong. From the looks of things you need to analyze some stuff about your self and come to a conclusion before you act any further.
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