Day_Walker

FWB always have a time limit, typically the situation is that one person has feelings for the other and is trying to use FWB as a spring board for a relationship. Also sex just changes the nature of a relationship, other feelings and urges can kick in.

I would say that women do not hold all of the cards. I think that women regulate the men that have access to them but dont hold all the cards. Their are only two positions, the aggressor and the receiver. The person who holds the cards is the aggressor because they put in the effort to make something happen. The receiver is simply along for the ride with whatever the aggressor suggests.

Im sure that you can find examples where such individuals will have a low sex drive but biologically speaking. Men in relationships should biologically have a lower sex drive as women release a chemical to lower their partners sex drive, according to studies at least.

well he did contact you to hang out, so clearly he can contact you to ask you something, yet he has not yet asked on you on a "date". That was my point.

Well my issue is this, he has as you out previously and he has not asked you out since. I think that you have to take him at his word as his actions havent given any indication that he wants to have a relationship with you.

I think that your situation is fairly simple and straight forward, you will not be able to create the desire for you (and a relationship with you) that you have for her. For whatever reason she doesnt want a full on relationship and you want to at least move in that direction. You two have incompatible wants. Either enjoy what you have with her currently or move on because this girl doesnt want the same thing as you.

It is hard to say if she does, but a lot of my female friends would.

I think that he just wants it when he wants it. I can see guys liking it but just from your past with this guy he doesnt place a high priority on when you want to have sex. He seems more than happy to call you when he wants something.

I would be extremely cautious this girl has just admitted that she is conflicted. In my mind if she is conflicted then that is a bad sign for you. I dont know if the B&B is a good idea. I would reevaluate that decision just based purely on her actions. If you want a relationship with this girl then it would seem that she isnt in that might set yet. I wouldnt waste my time with a girl who didnt want a relationship when that is what you want.

I tend to look at push up bras as being misleading, but usually it is known when a girl is wearing a push up bra, so I cannot say that I am caught off guard. Personally I am not put off by her supposed lack of confidence if a girl happens to wear push up bras. I do not look at the issue has there automatically being a lack of confidence issue, I think that the reasons for her wearing a push up bra will vary from girl to girl.

I think that you have to look at the situation as objectively as you can and if you cannot handle her past then leave the relationship. It appears that you are not able to handle what she has done in her past.

I think that you can want whatever you want out of a girlfriend but a valid justification for wanting her to do something isnt that you would do it for her. That is because she is not you. If you find yourself losing attraction for her then you have to realize the kind of girl that you want and make sure the next girl is what you want.

I think that situation is irrelevant a guy could come out of the woodwork at any moment. If a girl isnt interested in you enough to keep seeing him then why should he bother wasting his time on her? Acting as if a guy will come and take a girl away from you is no way to go about dating. That is not a confident position to take instead that is acting out of fear. You are never going to succeed with every girl and that is just a fact that you have to accept.

Dating is about learning and I cannot tell you what will work for every girl but you have to learn what works for you and your own dating style.

I think that the OP has to realize that being a gentlemen doesnt mean that he has to be a stereotypical nice guy. A gentleman is simply a man who thinks one thing and says another. I think that the key to women is fairly simple, dont give too much too soon. Time is your friend and not your enemy.