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  1. wlfpack81
    Looks like I'll be the 1st to respond w/opposite thinking. Well, actually I do agree you should go up and find out but in the past (and still now) I've been to dang shy to take a chance for fear of rejection. There were probably 5 good chances for me to get in a relation between fresh yr in college through spring of this year but I blew it. Now I know it's too late for anything b/c I'm still getting older and the part of the country I live in doesn't have the greatest diversity and chances for relatioships IMO. Been here a bit over a yr now and was surprised at the possible opportunity I had earlier this yr. But after blowing that I know my tmie is done, at least as long as I'm staying out here (could be anothe 2-3yrs to get experience w/my job).
  2. wlfpack81
    1899... Drop that girl now!!! She's not worth your time.
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    I have to agree with the statements that dlplight99999 and others have made here. I love it when people don't BS and just tell the truth of the matter. Older you get w/o love the harder it will be to find it. Also another about finding love late is that not all guys want to be old fathers either meaning that you'll find somebody one day (as in your 30's above) talk won't float every man's boat. I don't want my first child when I'm in my upper 30's or early 40's. I don't want my kid worrying about me kicking the bucket before he gets out of his 30's. Would like to have the chance to spend some time w/my grandkids (should I ever find someone, get married, and have kids in the 1st place which doesn't seem too likely at this moment).
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    Again IMO eye contact, smiling etc. is waaay overrated. People could just be doing it to be nice or may be daydreaming while looking at you etc.
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    In my opinion online dating sucks. If you're like me and can't get a date just buy an Xbox or something or other video game system and focus on that or whatever hobby makes you happy (sports, drawing, bowling etc.).
  6. wlfpack81
    In my honest opinion if a guy doesn't want to a date a girl and he's single / straight then most likely that girl isn't attractive in his eyes. Otherwise if a girl is attractive to a guy then he's most like becoming friends in the hopes of eventually dating, and becoming a couple.
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    Nice advice Skyfire from that other thread but....as that one girl said attractiveness does play a part. If you don't have the looks then despite doing all those things you suggested it's still gonna be 10x as hard to get the results you want as most people want to be somewhat attracted to the person they date.
  8. wlfpack81
    Don't worry August. You're not the only one it this situation. I'm 24 and have extreme shyness as well and have hard times talking with people. Though I have managed to make a good set of friends thanks to work. However, I still lack female friends and g/f's b/c of my shyness. But nice thing about your situation is you're still young and have yet to go to college. So unlike me there's still plenty of hope for you my friend. Don't give up yet b/c college will be one of the best times of your life and you'll get the chance to meet plenty of cool people there.
  9. wlfpack81
    Nice quote!!! I think they are those who look down on others who want to be to be attracted to their partner. I wish others would stop being so high and mighty and just admit that looks do matter when selecting a partner. They are not the only thing but it does hold some weight.
  10. wlfpack81
    She must not be attractive in your b/c otherwise you'd probably would have at least glanced as most men would. Funny seeing all these comments from these guys but come on, if a hot female friend of yours did that you'd shoot a look unless you already had a g/f or she had a b/f who was sitting with you all at the table or whatever.
  11. wlfpack81
    Well normally by the time you reach 14 you're pretty much going to be set in your ways whether you develop those views on your own or was brainwashed by some outside source. So I doubt she'll change her views much now.
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    What's the age of consent in your state? If it's below 16 then more than likely you ran into someone w/a power trip. Kind of like certain pharmacists refusing ti sell birth control b/c of their religious beliefs. Mind you those who work in brand stores like CVS, Rite-Aid not some private 'Mom & Pop' store where they can do as they want since they own it personally.
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    No dating outside of your race is NOT A SIN. Though to some in the south being BLACK is a SIN. Guess that means I'm destined for hell!? LOL
  14. wlfpack81
    Wow never heard the term gold digger? LOL no offense but have you been living on Mars? lol
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    As dudecar has stated tests have shown that people of equal attractive (or ugliness if you want to look at it that way) tend to hook up. If one partner is greatly better looking than another then it tends not to work out b/c the said partner knows they can do better and the other will feel insecure most of the time b/c they're probably shocked at the "catch" they have at the moment. However, I don't always agree with a 5 being attracted to a 5. Being honest here I'm probably about a 4 or 5 yet I can't help but being attracted to those 7-10's. I mean I'm a man and who wouldn't. There are girls who I know are probably more within my range but I can't help not really being attracted to some of them. Of course though since I know I can't get above a 6 at best I'll probably have to end up choosing b/t settling in the future or just staying single. Yes what I said was just harsh but hey unlike others at least I'm being honest. Just b/c I'm ugly doesn't mean I want to date others I find unattractive and it's not going to stop me from being attracted to girls out of my league though again I wouldn't make move on these girls b/c again they're out of my league.
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    Wow IMO you have it very wrong here. Even if a guy a girl considers ulgy likes her she'll still be happy b/c it's a HUGE EGO BOOST to women to know they can make men go gaga. They'll keep this guy w/in range just to make themselves feel better when they're going through a relationship drought or whatever. You'll find out the hard way soon enough if you keep this line of thought up.
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    Sorry about that 1899. Good that you did call since at least know you know. And most importantly ladies...see how this girl was right up front and honest!!! She didn't use that BS "I see you as a friend" line with 1899. She was upfront and honest and I respect girls who do that.
  18. wlfpack81
    Despite what most girls will say here most women when confronted w/this situation will be turned off by a guy in our age bracket (24-32) who've had little to no experience. I would just make up excuses that you've had a few dates in the past but never really had a relationship b/c of shyness or being worried about going further for whatever reason. Think of something LOL.
  19. wlfpack81
    Yea that friend line was BS. Move on!!!
  20. wlfpack81
    2. Bowling alley is a great idea. Not to romantic and better than a movie since you can talk and stuff. Also sometimes competition brings out the flirst in people though you don't want to be too competitive. You're not out with your guy friends so have to tone it down a bit.
  21. wlfpack81
    Lonelyinasmalltown I applaud you for what you're doing with your ex. Just keep it up and don't fall for any tricks. She'll probably pull out all the stops to get attention and being you were attracted to her (and may still be) I know you may be tempted at times to give in. Don't do it!!! LOL Stay strong and you can win this battle. Adios.
  22. wlfpack81
    Well, how about the law of average that states no matter what there'll be those guys/girls who will be single forever.
  23. wlfpack81
    I think Always was trying to make a sarcastic point about the "let's be friends or I like you better as a friend" line that most girls use when they aren't interested in a guy period (romantically or friendship wise). The one line that upsets guys to death.
  24. wlfpack81
    Maybe it's b/c, in cases like mine, people are just realists and don't mind admitting they aren't good looking? I mean I hate the fact that I'm not blessed w/good looks but at least I see if for what it is. Law of averages says for everyone attractive person there's going to be an opposite. I know most aren't going to like what I just said but hey there's always more than one side to the story.
  25. wlfpack81
    Don't tell her. Girls are turned off by guys our age w/no experience. Just try to do your best and come out being the "rookie of the year" so to speak.
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