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  1. wlfpack81
    Umm let's get it straight. I didn't say it would be an act of treason b/c in my personal opinion love sees no bounds. But I said some whites (more so white males as you mentioned) will see it as an act of treason if a white girl dates a black man specifically (dating Hispanics, Asians won't be nice but not as bad as dating a black man). Don't add me into your closed minded way of thinking. I'm not in your corner nor would I ever be since I don't hate myself for being black. And different!? Last time I checked we all have the same internal organs; men/women of all races have the same reproductive organs. And as I know where you'd probably go next I'll just cut you off. Majority of the problems you may see accross the world are poverty related (due to a lack of education) and poor people accross all spectrums may be more susceptible to getting involved in bad behavior. Not b/c they're born bad but rather their environment sucks and despair and hopelessness makes it easier to get involved in underhanded dealings. Yea it's no secret certain groups in certain countries may have more poor than others but there's reason for that but I'm not going there b/c I don't want this to turn into a true flame war about past actions done by the U.S. mainly to certain people that got the poverty cycle rolling.
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    Being honest you're going to catch a lot of crap for dating a black guy. Just being honest here. Especially if you live in America in the South, Midwest, Central, Rockies regions. And to be honest while the crap from blacks will be bad the stuff you get from your side will probably be a bit worse since a white girl dating a black man is seen as the biggest act of treason a white person can do. Good luck b/c you'll need it and to be honest I don't think it'll last. Society just isn't ready yet. Maybe another 100-200yrs or so. We'll see.
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    Just do what you have to deal and tell him off, even if it hurts or he'll never get a clue.
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    Just tell him you're not interested in him period and end it. Don't freaking BS him and leave him hanging. He's going to hurt anyways after you reject him so mine as well tell him the truth and get it over w/soon.
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    Being honest he'll probably come distant towards you from now on. I mean it's obviously he's looking for a female friend to become more and since you don't feel the same way about him as he does about you then he may not see a point in putting more much effort into the friendship now. He may be thinking why waste time w/you if he can possibly try to find another girl who may be interested in him. Also add in the fact he's about to go into the military then he definitely may see it's not worth while to get himself all worked up over you know. Just my opinion.
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    Nope...soul mates don't exist.
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    FAKE, FAKE, FAKE PEOPLE. They pray on losers like us who are so low and depressed that we go to dating services w/the last hope of meeting someone. Forget stupid online datings sites, they stink and they have a lot of fake profiles to try and real in the possible gullable guys who are fed up w/being lonely. Better to try and ask a coworker or other friend at work to set you up w/someone.
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    Attraction is simple. Either your beautiful and thereforeeee will have luck in the game or your ugly and will have a rough go at it.
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    Don't settle for being 2nd place. Forget this girl and move on.
  10. wlfpack81
    Um guys... That's not Kyo in that avatar. He's mentioned that before in another post. But for theory if that was him girls would still be on his jock anyways despite what some of you area saying. I've seen plenty of abro & fitch looking model dudes w/hot women. Some of you need to stop BSing on here.
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    If she says no then chances are she may never be interested in the future, so just move onto another girl.
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    Kyoshiro Ogari I agree w/everything you said in that post. But why waste our time!? People are going to keep feeding us this Hollywood BS to make us not feel good but at least we know the truth of the matter. Life is just life and it can be crappy for certain people concerning certain aspects be it born ugly or born short, or born to tall etc.
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    He's going to hurt anyways but at least be honest w/the man. Sheesh. Don't feed him BS, especially since he's already been burned a few times this year.
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    Miss M: Well, outward appearance may be a teeny-part but it's the first part or the spark plug that gets the car started. My spark plug is in bad shape girl!!! LOL
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    Realize this shy. In most random cases where you're walking through the mall, jogging etc. if the person isn't attractive to you then you're very much less likely to go over and start up a conversation with them. So your point is moot I think b/c it wouldn't get past a quick general glance. Yes there are situations where b/c of work, class you get to know someone and become attracted to them but in most cases of the storybook I was sitting on a bench and this girl/guy sat beside me and we talked etc. it's attraction that caused that person to come over to the bench and mutual attraction b/t both that kep the conversation going. I mean I you have your views and I have mine. I mean I would like to be attracted to my g/f (if I ever get one) and have her attracted to me as well. Just being honest.
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    Unlike everyone else I'll admit looks while not everything do matter. If you're not attracted to someone then your less likely to take the chance to get to know them anyways. So if you're not attracted to this guy then don't bother b/c you'd be forcing yourself to do something you wouldn't normally.
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    Sorry Bopin but when a girl says We'll see that does mean no as JuStAgIrL31806 stated. Just forget about this little girl and move on to something else as it appears this girl doesn't even want to hang out on a friendship level. Screw her. And JuStAgIrL31806, I really wish girls wouldn't use comments like that. Just plain out say no, not interested to my face than something vauge or BS like we'll see, maybe as all that's going to do is piss off the guy b/c if he's smart he'll realized he was served a plate of BS. Second if the guy doesn't realize at first then he's strung along and once he DOES find out he'll be even more pissed.
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    Me thinks Shy was being sarcastic based on the fact 99% of his posts are always positive. Probably made that post to parody my response posted earlier. But hey like I said shy I'm here to at least present the other side of every issue. The side no one wants to look at since life is supposed to be like a Hollywood, fairy tale, love, happy go joy ending. And one thing Msnak if most guys aren't interested in relations then why do most girls seem to go for these guys? Just a thought that I won't go further w/as I've already hijacked this thread enough.
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    LOL Ummm last time I checked women don't usually have to deal w/baldness. And biterness!? Haha ya darn right I'm bitter. I admit I have a black cold heart. I've had crap self esteem since elementary school (that's what happens when you get picked on for being nerdy, ugly and having large ears that stick out to boot nearly every day). Add in going through that crap from K-12th grade + no attention from girls then it shouldn't be a surprise that I'm like this. I know those experiences are a big part of the reason why I'm shy. I learn from history and my personal history from a standpoint w/women shows no precedents concerning success. So based on that trend I see no reason for any success in the future. And before someone goes there I know that stuff was way back in elementary, middle, high school and I should get over it (family has told this to me many times). But I look at it this way. You're 2yrs old and you cut your arm off (bare w/me here). Now let's fast forward 20yrs later. You don't feel the pain anymore but the scar is still there and noticeable and has an effect on your daily doings. Get it? Also the fact that since HS I still haven't had any success w/women and barely get any looks just goes to make me believe those people were right and that I'm a loser.
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    Here, here Kyo!!! Glad to see another who sees the world for what it is. Just the facts of life and people like us have to just bite the bullet and accept our shortcomings. I guess one advantage of being single is more $$$ for me to spend on myself.
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    You forget one thing volution. The men you just mentioned have high social status b/c 1) they're actors 2) they have money. Social status and/or money will make just about any guy look good to a femalel Heck if I were rich I'd have girls swimming around me all the time.
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    Hey antigrav at least you don't have huge ugly ears that stick out like me!!! LOL As one poster earlier alluded to that's not attractive. The bald look is in now and if worse comes to worse you can shave it off. Baldness gives men that distinguished look that woman so love. A sign of maturity and growth. Big ears in my case just makes me look like a 6ft 2in Dumbo the Elephant stick figure. Trust me my friend you're not as bad off as me. You had a 5yr relationship!!! That's amazing for this day and age so you have a precedent when it comes to relationships unlike myself and some others who post on this board. I don't see a reason for you to be down. You have done it once and I believe you'll be able to do it again. Good luck.
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    single4good... I feel ya pain man. Do what you have to do (as long as it's legal of course)!!! If that means giving into the hate then so be it. If you hold it back then eventually it's all going to come out at once in a violent fashion possibly. So better to let off bits of steam from time to time. Good luck.
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    Hmm guess I must've ruffled a few feathers with my last post. Figured someone would come here and continue the debate. Or maybe hopefully everyone realizes I was telling the truth!!! Again for any female up here who's non-black and is thinking about dating someone like me (a black man) be prepared for extra amounts of flack from society.
  25. wlfpack81
    Let me chime in here. Personally I believe there's nothing wrong with inter-racial (or rather inter-cultural since there's only 1 race, the human race but for this discussion I'll use race for ease since it's normally seen that way) relationships. However, let's be honest. There's going to be a lot of backlash from people should you get in these relationships, especially over here in America. And ESPECIALLY if you're a black man dating a white women. When most think of dating outside the race that's the first image that's comes to mind. Also black men being with Asians and Indians (not Native Americans) also get a lot of flack. Hell, black man dating anyone non-black is going to catch it and so will his g/f. So as long as you're not dating a black man then while the backlash will be there it shouldn't be too bad. But if you're thinking about dating a black man be prepared to hear it. Of course you'll get it from his side of the family but I suspect you're going to get it worse from non-blacks so be prepared.
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