ApathyKid666

I would have to go with tan girls, nice legs, preferably blonde hair wearing tanktops, short-shorts, sandals, the usual wear for a girl in the summer I guess. That's one thing I'd like considering my private school background (it blows!). On the other hand I'd really like a girl that could pull off wearing baggy pants (or shorts)... and actually make it look good and again with the tanktops or tight-fitting shirts. None of the hip-hop dealio though, the punk-rock stuff And girls with lip, tongue, eyebrow, bellybutton piercings, that king of stuff... I'll bet you find it odd that the same person said both of those different ideas haha

Hah yeah, now that its mentioned it hasn't happened in a while... but there's this one girl I've always liked from school. Whenever this happens she always ends up being that girl in my dreams even though I don't usually talk to her and I don't see her much. Cruel indeed!

Ah this wonderful topic! Bottom line- ignore the people bagging on you and you're friends. I'm can relate pretty well to you other than you're height I guess... I hang out with a crude bunch of people about middle class as highschool groups go. I'm only 5'8" (small in the reality of many guys), but I'm in the vicinity of 175 pounds, though you couldn't tell, I look maybe 140ish? I have a few big friends too one about 5'6 and 190 pounds, another guy 6'4 and 230 pounds (all muscle sadly As far as I'm concerned I could be getting more popular if I just didn't hang out with them... I'm superier in the fact that I'm more physically fit than anyone and I'm just generally more intelligent than everyone besides maybe one girl. My point is the "popular" people aren't as popular as you think. Most of them are nothing but gossipers and backstabbers, and the reality of their friendships is ofton times blackmail and those related things. I chose my friends because that's what they are - friends. Did you ever put this in your head yet? - What makes the popular kids so popular? All the druggies and middle class people usually don't like them (from around where I am anyways). I guess they aren't so popular after all huh? You shouldn't worry about what they're gonna think. And if they do make fun of you at any time... just notice how they travel in groups so they don't look like idiots when they try to do it by themselves

Hi, So lately, I've been getting remarks about several people thinking I'm hot (sometimes 'sooo hot'), and that I'm cute. Its usually some of my friends that tell me that their friends that i was usually recently introduced are the ones saying this. There are also college girl in my sisters dorm from college that see pictures of me on her door that make comments. And usually its girls of a more or less significant age gap. I turned 17 two months ago and the girls mostly being attracted (if not always) seem to be 8th graders and freshman, or older girls like I said from college. This is so new to me! I've always been the not so attractive red-head kid. Granted my hair has changed to a light brown and my style has kicked up a bit the last few years. I just don't see why all the sudden I'm able to attract girls of these age gaps, but never anyone really my age. I've had one girlfriend my age and that was during freshman year. That ended horribly and we've been at eachother's throats ever since (only one more year and I never have to see her again I think the recent years of always being rejected and never really liked have taken their toll and given me a low self esteem about how I look. I met one girl online (yes a freshman this year, still a little young) and she finally put a picture I sent her and I was amazed at the score I received. I believe it's at 9.9 at the moment. Then again, I'm somewhat of a pessimist and I don't much trust HotorNot or those other rating systems; one reason being one picture of you make look good to someone, but another could send an entirely different message. My problem is my low self esteem and my need for a girlfriend as I feel thats the missing block in my life right now. This freshman girl I met online however; we've taken a high liking to eachother to the point we talk about what could happen when she can date (she can't until she turns 16). And we've estimated even when she can and even though we like eachother chances are slim. We go to separate private school, but live in the same town, and have seen eachother once outside of the internet since we both play for the same soccer club... it happened by chance we did see eachother though, and only from afar, its not like we talked or anything. The fact we met online and her parents being very, very protective and sheltering is mainly the problem. I mean this girl is great... she's 2 years younger than myself, but she is smart, intelligent, and wise beyond her years, as well as mine. Her heart is in the right place and it seems like we're copies of eachother on the inside. I guess my problem is what could I do about this girl? I've never met her parents, I don't think I ever will unless a miracle happens (which I pray for). And even if I do I don't think they'll like me too much for the way I dress and all of that fun stuff. My other problem is what can I do about this self esteem thing and applying that in looking for a girlfriend? I'm not used to thise whole becoming attractive in a sense, and girls my age still don't seem to be taking the bait, which is making me nervous. My brother was almost the exact same way... never that great and toward the end of highschool years BAM. Girls, mostly younger were all over him. He always had a thing that he had to date older or same aged girls though and has had a successful girlfriend for over 2 years. I'm not so picky and can tolerate a younger girl so long as they are mature enough to understand whats going on... what do I do?

Actually you can easily inlay two 15 inch subwoofers in the back of almost any car. My friend builds his own cars and custom made his 15 inchers, windows would rattle when he pulled that thing up. As for bigger vehicles like trucks and mini-vans, they can easily fit 10 or 12 inch subwoofers under the front seats and eight 8 inch subwoofers in the trunk area... all they need is a bit of money

ya... im sorry i was very unclear as i reread it... the matter is now my friend (christina) is not mad at me anymore. i tried giving her a call earlier today and she was still quite pissed and handed off the phone to the girl that likes me (andrea) who eventually hung up because of the friction there. christina called me back later and we got together for a bit and worked it out more or less. so tomorrow im taking christina out for her birthday and stuff trying to make up for it all. andrea however took a weird turn and doesnt think we're gonna hang out or anything anymore because of the age gap and other obstacles... it all works out in the end i guess. thanks for posting and telling me i need to be more clear.. im sure other people read and said what the heck is this kid trying to say without giving it a second thought

This involves two girls and me really, only one problem in the end... There's this girl who likes me, and her friend that I know from school. (They're both younger than me) But anyways, they called me up last night for generally no reason I guess, but the friend told me to ask her out, like right that second over the phone after a while of conversation and stuff, i didnt. So they got online later, she told me to ask her then (she's been bugging me to for a while) so finally I gave in and asked... That led to the girl who likes me balling all night and she got very stressed out, for what reasons I don't know - in the end her answer was no after a few hours of thinking about it. So I can live with that you know? It's her choice after all. Then I said something so stupid to the friend, who has been basically my best friend these last two weeks. Earlier in the night she said someone had rejected her and she always gets rejected, and even earlier in the week she was rejected by my friend that she adored. But none-the-less the words came out of my mouth "you know there's one thing we have in common? we both get rejected alot" and if you know her she hates being rejected... she was pissed to the point she couldnt talk to me and to the point she still cant because shes so mad at me. I figured maybe if we slept on it it would get better... not so. She still wont talk and on top of it the girl that liked me that I got things squared away with told me today to stop talking about the friend when i talk to her because its all i talk about and i never talk about her and stuff... i had planned on taking the friend out today to a movie or something for her birthday but shes so mad she said dont even bother cause shed be busy and stuff (she's really just mad at me obviously), one of her friends said leave her a rose on her doorstep saying sorry in a note and she'd talk then.... what the hell? i have no problems giving her a rose and saying sorry, but im the kind of person that likes to do things in person. my plan was to get her to let me take her out tonight and give her a rose then and ya... i dont know how im going to talk to her since her friend told me not to talk about her and she wont talk to me either... how am i supposed to go about fixing this? i used to like this friend until she introduced me to this other girl and now it seems like everythings falling apart, and i feel like such a bad person right now... what do i do?

I would say to bring it to her attention again, but build up your defense first. Figure out why you don't like it- are you worried it will portray her badly? do you think it offends your relationship with her in any way? Strong points like that along with a serious, but loving/caring attitude should sway her train of thought and see how serious you really are. Also be prepaired to get into an in-depth discussion about it... girls talk alot

I think it sounds perfectly normal. I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend acted dirty in that way. We all know us guys joke about the whole girl on girl thing, but in my head (and yours too it would seem) that's just not cool. It really just sounds like you're trying to protect her from getting into perhaps some bad habits or other things like that. It also sounds like you don't want other people to see her dirty side, which I can full understand too; I wouldn't want anyone else to see what should be kept private between two people that are together.

Thanks for the reply I'll have to set some time apart to write a few more in here.

I wrote this after I finished a math test earlier than I thought I would. We had a slam poem (poetry performed to a rythm, hip-hoppish) due the next day for my Poetry and Drama class and this is what I came up with. (By the way, I got an A+ Reminiscense Distilled rainwater Collecting in cracked craters On halved metal plates Shading over blood. No longer boiling. Hidden in rudimentary tin, Shielded from recognition. Sketches, contracts, lies In piles under discolored rags, Wet and withered. From the apathetic answer, To a slowly dying prayer. In the reflections Of countless shattered windows There were droplets of garnet, Descendents of mournful memories; Unreachable yet concrete Refracting directly in front of me Under its crimson rays. Page after page of hypocrisy Overturned by building exasperation Decomposed letter by letter Line by line, story by story. 'Til nothing remained but Charcoaled aspirations set adrift By liberating currents, Never to return.

I was 15 in my freshman year of highschool actually. So it was about 2 years ago... little less.

my girlfriend of 3 months dumped me with this original poem *cough* roses are red, violets are blue trash gets dumped, and so do you i'll never forget her reaction when i walked away laughing at her... i figured out later she dumped me to try for a guy who already had a girlfriend, and glad to find out he ceased any form of communication with her, then she spread rumors, which no one believed. to this day we dont get along too well, things are awkward, and generally no one likes her at my school... life is great isnt it?

I recently (month or so ago) asked a girl from school, who is also a grade lower than me out for a movie, or something else that would peak our interest. Not only did I ask her out, but I did it over the phone (idiot, I know), but at least it wasn't over the internet as so many people do these days. The main reason for doing this I guess is the simple fact, she is a very hard person to get to talk outside of 'hi' 'hello' or some other formal address unless im specifically speaking to her question by question, or over the phone I feel she sensed an awkwardness and did finally ask a few questions, beyond the point though. I never got to know her too much last year, though I did talk to her quite a bit. Anyways, I asked this girl out, and she typically said yes, not so blatantly though, she morely said sure, as if she wasnt sure what i was asking, or she wasnt sure she wanted to it sounded to me. So as always, I waited a few days to get in touch with her again and find a time that would work, as I got ahold of her my speech kind of went down the drain, but when I did get it out, she had reported that she would feel uncomfortable going with me for the fact she doesn't date much. As much as I wanted to say 'if you don't start now, you never will' I didn't, since I didn't want to pressure her into something she didn't want to go through with. She said as well, "maybe later on in the school year or something". So we hung up, and went about business. I went on vacation, then a few weeks of soccer practice followed, so I never saw her until a week ago, when school started. I've managed to talk to her once since then and it was only a quick 'hi' as I was late for soccer practice. My question is, did I screw this up? When she said "maybe later" did she mean that as a gentle let down - that she just didn't want to and hoped I wouldn't bring it up again? And how should I go about talking to her now? I never see her since I'm not in her classes, don't see her at soccer practice, and I'm afraid to approach her when she's with her friends. What to do?

I guess I can't say much more than Rage... just ponder on it while he's gone. To me it sounds like he's just trying to get at something... it's not every day a 23 year old is dating a teenager still in highschool if you get my drift. Something just doesn't seem right about it.

how old are you two might i ask?

Hi there, I lift weights quite frequently, as well as running and other types of fitness. Here's a few exercises you could try, some with and some without weights. WITHOUT WEIGHTS 1. Bent Knee Situps - These are just the traditional situps: legs bent, feet flat on the ground, and a full motion up to your knees. This both strengthens the back as well as works on the abdominals. 2. Leg Elevations - Find a clock somewhere. Lay down on the ground and sit on top of your hands with your hands facing palm down. Raise your feet an inch or two off the ground and hold them in place for say, 30 seconds. Do this for a while and increase the time as you see fit. Again this works both the back and abdominal muscles. This is a website with simple stretching techniques mainly to fight off back pain, but stretching is always a must before starting with weights. link removed WITH WEIGHTS I assume you like using weights, correct me if I'm wrong. Here's a very great website that demonstrates back exercises with weight. Click on one of the listed exercises for a short video clip demonstration of each. link removed I hope this helps. If you're looking for any more advice or exercise tips just send me a private message and I'll be happy to help.

This is a parallel to a topic posted about turn offs about a month ago. Typically, just post your opinions on what you think are turn ons for your ideal boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse/etc. Here are mine in no particular order: Turn ons - girls: 1. Piercings - I guess alot of guys don't like piercings, but I just happen to. My ex girlfriend had 10 piercings total: 3 right ear, 2 left ear, 2 left eye brow, 1 right side of nose, 1 right side of bottom lip, and a belly piercing. Maybe I'm weird, but I just found these added on to her appearance from how great she already looked. 2. Ditz acting - Girls do this alot to attract attention to themselves. Obviously this works because it catches my attention every time. This also sort of plays into having a sense of humor, which I also like. This probably isn't something guys like alot either; I find it quite cute though. Oh yes, a guy used the word cute... you better get used to it. 3. Boundaries - I strongly respect a girl who knows what her boundaries are and how far she's willing to stretch those boundaries and go outside of her comfort zone. I don't always know when to stop pushing something, so I depend on the girl to let me know. I find this helps a lack of communication from starting, as well as future break ups. 4. Sense of style - Rags = NO! It's not that hard to mix and match a good pair of clothes, even if it is just plain looking. I absolutely hate old, tattered, and ripped up clothing (not the kind with a few holes, but the really extreme 5 year old jeans that would rip with the slightest breeze). 5. Athleticism - Let's face it, I can't stand being with a lazy girl. That's one of the most unnatractive traits a girl can have (maybe this goes for guys too? If so I should probably get my act together here). My girl has to be involved in something... soccer, volleyball, track, cheerleading, anything! Anything to keep themselves in shape. Plus, this gives me something to do for them by chearing on the sidelines and showing my feelings for them as well. 6. Relationship over friends - Friends are more important, no doubt. Girls have to be able to tell what time is right to side with their friends or their boyfriends, regardless of the cost. You side with your friends and lose your boyfriend? So what. He wasn't worth your time anyways. You side with your boyfriend and lose your friends? So what. They really aren't your friends after all are they? 7. Trying - I had a lovely experience with one of my ex-girlfriends (not the one with the millions of piercings - she's still my best friend) where she decided we were getting "too close" and ditched me for some guy who didn't even like her and already had a girlfriend. Seriously, what the heck was she expecting to happen? NOTE: To this day she is still single and fails literally every attempt and effort with a guy due to the fact that she did this to me and the word spread around. Also NOTE: I didn't spread it, I'm not that kind of guy, rumors just spread. 8. Shyness - I believe this is the best quality a girl can have! Shy girls are much more appreciative of a guy who takes the time to get to know and love them. They also seem to be much more involved with their boyfriend and typically last longer than most other relationships. 9. Self-esteem - Stop telling me you're fat/overweight/ugly/etc. I've heard this a million times. The truth is, I wouldn't be dating you if I didn't like you exactly the way you are. I agree saying this once or twice to be flattered is awesome. Don't push it, I don't want to hear this every day, hour, minute, or second. This generally just pisses me off in repitition and pulls me away from my feelings towards you. 10. Reserved smarts - No one likes a girl who shows off her smarts by using them to put other people down or something related to that sort. You know you're smart, I know you're smart, let's just let that be our little secret. Again, these were done in no particular order. However, for you people who like to pry: numbers 1, 2, 3, 6, and 8 are my most coveted traits. Sorry if I got a little out of control with a few of these. Tell me what you think of my opinions, as well as post your own! I intend this to help those out there looking to improve their character. Now let me hear your opinions!

Turn offs: 1. Girls acting as if they have superiority over everyone else 2. Girls purposely trying to show how intelligent they are - all the time 3. Girls afraid to squash a bug because it looks 'icky' 4. Girls lacking in clothing style (sweatpants, ripped/torn clothing - dont get me wrong some girls can make this look good but the majority really can't) 5. Girls who shop excessively (i mean like every day sort of thing) 6. Girls overweight trying to fit into tight, skimpy clothes 7. Girls with negative attitudes towards people they've never met 8. Girls with the same routine (i like going places, but change it up once in a while!) 9. Girls using guys to get to their friends (i don't mind helping girls out with my friends, but if they use one of my friends to get to me that's just showing how desperate they are) 10. Girls who listen to rap and enjoy the ideas of whores, pimps, and excessive wealth (i wonder if they realize that they're white?) I have to disagree with you on one mahlina... "shopping is mostly for women" is a pretty sexist remark. Guys get bored following girls around while they look at clothes. One reason is they don't always know what they're looking for, so the look for hours and hours. Guys? We figure out what we want go in and buy it in a manner of 5 or 10 minutes, clean and simple shopping at its best. If you can't stand going shopping with a guy try being a guy and shopping with a girl... it's a whole different perspective.

I don't know if this helps, but as a guy I particularly enjoy recieving a phone call when I'm least expecting it, especially from a girl! Hope that encourages you to call. I'm sure the feeling will fade in time - it has for me calling girls...

There's 7 or 8 short, 4-8 line poems in here. These are listen from least favorite to most favorite, in my opinion anyways. A New Home - By ApathyKid666 They left him alone in the parking lot, he was just a boy He didn't want to be alone So he looked for a way back home He'll never forget; one day... The house had been vacant for years A note on the door: "It's over" The Final Destination - By ApathyKid666 He left the city as the spring rains began to fall He walked for miles and miles He'll never forget; on day... Another starry-eyed satellite fell to the ground While the aero-planes thundered over head And he closed his eyes And he knew he was home The Non-Existing Light - By ApathyKid666 The rain would follow him where ever he went And each day he would search for the sun But the days grew shorter He would climb to the top of the mountain While tornadoes would form over the island And he would walk amidst the lightning Hoping to find a way back home An Unforgetable Place - By ApathyKid666 He must have been there a thousand times before And each time it was the same; volume ten, song seven He would walk like a ghost through the atomic streets The cold autumn trees, and wet leaves below People would pass him by and not understand At night he would go far above the city And pray that God would send his angels The End Of Existence - By ApathyKid666 He slept for four and twenty thousand years When he opened his eyes, everything had changed Those he loved had long since departed And the aero-planes had gone from the skies As the sun went down, he stood on the tall tower And whispered to the twilight "Good-Bye" The Banishment To Darkness - By ApathyKid666 At the dawn of each day all the angels would sing to their maker, save one On the morning of the sixth day, he stole a beam of light from the sun But he could not contain it So as the light escaped his grasp, to the darkness he fled And he took with him one-third of all the host of heaven The Battle Of The Starts - By ApathyKid666 As the battle raged accross the stars Legions of the most powerful fallen angels assailed the gates of heaven They were met in force by the high guardians of that realm Where, overwhelmed by the light, they were brought to the edge of creation A separate Peace - By ApathyKid666 They told him the stratosphere was empty But often he would be found trailing the edge of space At night he would search the sky for an answer And one day he sailed until the worked fell away He cried for a while, until the feeling passed Then traveled on, to the edge of the infinite And wrote his name on the starts Hope you liked these! Let me know what you all think.

I'm guessing everyone knows the drill and the old, old topic of a guy working up to asking a girl out, so I'll just get on with my story. About me first and who I am. I'm 16 years old (16 1/2 more to be more exact) and I'm around 5'7"-5'9" in height, 165 pounds in weight. I have a fairly well built and sculpted upper body, small six pack, very built arms, huge shoulders and neck muscles. My lower body, although not as sculpted as I'd like is just as well very built. I'm more of a small or medium frame sort of guy too, a 28" waist, though I wear 34" pants to sag. I have pretty dark brown hair when its all styled and spiked. Blueish/grey eyes, and I'm not going to lie, my face is covered with freckles (cheeks anyways) and I have moderate acne, but nothing too bad. I commonly wear pretty baggy pants, some form of shirts that show off a little muscle but carry a little length to cover over any open spots from sagging my pants. I'm really into the punk rock scene and play electric guitar. I also play varsity soccer for my highschool, run varsity track, obviously I weight lift alot, and obviously I plainly run so I'm in very good shape. I'm a captain for the sprinting group in track (I'm a sophomore too) with another senior girl. I also like the fine arts people would say. This includes drawing, sculpting, painting, inking, watercolor, pastels, and what have you. Anything to do with my hands. Recently I went over to a friend house and saw all his spare car parts, old car frame, new engine being built, his other two cars he's put together and customized with his brother. His newest car can hit 80mph in under a quarter of a mile, a stick shift. I've realized how badly I would love to get into this as well since my car is an old buick, a 1990 model, which has had everything broken on it at least twice, I think it would be nice to customize my own car and have a kick ass stereo system, build in a little entertainment screen and such as I've seen with my friend. But I'm getting side tracked. That's pretty much me, I go to school, pretty shy kid unless I'm around my friends, plan on going to college and major in art. And I like going out late at night with the few friends able and just hang out at a bowling alley or in the garage working on cars. That's just me, simple but fairly deep details. Another thing, I'm VERY shy around girls unless I already know them, but girls always find me as a good friend and I'm constantly told that I'm a very nice person and understanding, cool to hang out with (besides that I don't talk too often, I just like to listen). Here's the main dealio. There this girl at my school in my class that I've just recently, within the last few weeks, started to get the major feelings for. This might sound stupid to some people, but in religion today we went through the "12 steps" of a relationship and love. I'll just quickly run through these... 1. Eye to Body - One sees another and is pleased with what they see 2. Eye to Eye - Two people connect by sight and notice eachother I think this is as far as I need to go actually, step 9-12 are really things dealing with sexual issues after marriage. Anyways, I'm always willing to give girls a chance. I don't go much for appearances, but I can always find qualities I like about certain people. I find qualities in different girls left and right. Don't get me wrong though, I do have my standards. I mean, I don't mind a rather decent looking girl by my low standards, but people that are just god aweful ugly in my opinion? That just would work, this is where step 1 sort of plays in. One has to be happy with what they see physically about their partner, but must not let this lead into lust. This is my problem almost 99% of the time I think. I always look at girls with lust rather than just "oh she's really cute". Sure I like the qualities of each of these girls but the lust really does just take over the picture. In this case I think I may have overcome that. This girl I like now I am happy to say I don't look at with lust, not so much as other at least, perhaps on occasion I am guilty. But really with this girl it is the "oh, man, she's really cute!" (and she is!). I sent her a carnation for valentines day, I'm not sure if she knows I sent it but I know she got it. Her friend knows I like her and I asked her friend to make sure she got it. For this reason I also don't know if the girl I like knows I like her. Maybe her friend spilled something to her, maybe not. My pessimistic views often times lead me to think not. But, this girl happens to be in my group for track. We often talk throughout practice as there aren't many of us. Though I miss many opportunities when her friend is there and they follow eachother around. I suppose I'm like that with my best friend too, but she isn't always there either, so we do get time to talk, do excercises, and all that together. We talk quite a bit on those days, like today when neither of our friends was there. We followed eachother around doing excercises, runs, etc. And I notice we stick by eachother, maybe because I make the effort to, but at least I'm trying. I think this might be significant because our whole group is girls besides me, a freshman, and a senior guy, and there are nearly 20 sprints, so the odds of girls to guys are in the girls favor. She still will stick by me though and not run off to talk with other girls in our group and leave me hanging. This is the other thing. I had a girlfriend last year and I KNOW I rushed these 12 steps I was speaking of. I was down to step 11 (I believe this was oral sex or something of that manner) in the matter of 3 months. Simply because I looked at my girlfriend in lust, though I did love her as well. I want to start over again with this new girl so badly and do it the right way for once. I can't ever tell if she's interested or just being very nice though, that's sort of the kind of person she is. What do you think? Perhaps she might like me? Should I try to gather information from her friend? (Her locker is close to mine and shes my friend as well so its not exactly hard to, I just feel stupid asking other people to help with my love life and I wish I could do it on my own). Is there anything you would suggest of me to do with this girl to make it more noticeable that I like her? Or to see if she might like me? Another question raises to my mind. So to say I ever do ask her out, can anyone give me and good lines to think about? I am very good at writing as well, but I just feeling like an idiot and get really embarrased reading my own writings. Should I get over this and read her something of my own? Or twist and combine others to say what I want them to say and flush the problem of embarrasment out? I'm HORRIBLE at asking girls out... I was so shy last year, even though I solidly KNEW that my girlfriend liked me. I still had to write it down on a piece of paper and hand it to her as I sat next to her. Although it was quite a memorable event... I'll never forget the wide smile and silent gestures and noddings of her acceptance. Off subject again... Before you reply... please don't give me replies such as "the right one will come for you", "you sound like a great catch for the right girl", "just let nature takes it course and you'll get your special someone", no offense but I think that's a load of crap. I know this girl is the right one, I just need to get her. Thanks.

No problem. Best hopes for you finding your mother. Keep me updated!

I saw this topic posted on another forum and just thought I'd gather opinions. Why are girls so attracted to guitarrists? (It seems more around the punk rock and rock genres of music). What is so compelling about guitarrists? This is more for the teenage crowd of girls to comment on, but any other opinions are welcome... This question has just baffled me beyond comprehension. I also have to believe this to an extent. The girl I like and her friend, whom I give rides to track practices saw my guitar in the back seat and seemed quite thrilled and amazed by it. Maybe its because I'm a hard person to get to know and not much is known of me, but I can always dream of impressing that special someone through my talents. Spose I'll have to post about her once this post is wiped from the main page. -ApathyKid

I just wanted to add this: I don't know if this is entirely possible, but could you perhaps give a sample of DNA and see if someone may have it on file?