TrappedMind
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Hey destructo. I am doing alright today I hope you are doin ok as well. I have thought about getting help but I'm trying to help myself first so I'll see how it goes in the next couple of weeks. I talked to my mom about everything in my life and she was very supportive and she will always be there for me. I'm going to keep my head up and be strong. It feels good to know that people care and even if I have never met you before DestructoBoy, I consider you as a friend and friends mean a lot to me. Thank you for your kind words.
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Thank you for taking the time to help me DestructoBoy, it means a lot to me. I'm going to try and sleep now... goodnight.
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My gf broke up with me a couple of months ago and that crushed me emotionally and mentally. I have tried to get over her but I just can't seem to put my mind at ease. I called my ex and cried telling her that I might have to see a doctor or something because I'm worried about myself and I feel terrible. Just by the tone of her voice when she picked up the phone was an indication to me that she seems happy and well off. I told her that I needed her help but she had to go to cadets. She said she quit cadets but that isn't true, there is a ball tonightand all the cadetsare invited. I also called my brother last week... it's been many years since I have seen or talked to him and he hasnt been returning my phone calls. My dad left when I was very young and I just feel terrible, i can't function properly, it's all catching up to me now. God please help me.
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Kadillac offers good advice. I like your style my man .
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Well it also depends on the girl I think. Some girls like a lot of saliva when you kiss... not like dripping out of the mouth saliva, just enough to know that it's a wet kiss. My ex said I was a good kisser but the next girl can say I'm crap.
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I was on accutane for a few months and it was pretty terrible. My lips, nose, face, hands would all get so dry to the point where my lips and nose bled. Just make sure you dont let it get to that point. I also had another bad side effect from the accutane... my face would blush sometimes and it would like like I was sick or something. They say that your acne gets worse in the first few weeks of the treatment but don't worry your acne should get better and it will make you happier in due time. It's not gonna be easy but just try and keep your smile.
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My ex girlfriend has told me that she wants me to move on and that I need to get over her. Well as we all know that is easier said than done. She said that it's possible that one day she could meet a guy that's right for her and I could meet a girl that's right for me.... true that is possible. We have been hanging out a lot lately and have had a great time together and this is what makes my situation even more difficult. I mean, it doesn't make sense that we can hang out and have a great time and then one day she finds a guy to go out with and that would mean that our time together would probably be greatly decreased. I do want to spend time with her because I enjoy our time together very much but whenever I'm with her I get all the feelings back and there is still hope inside me that we can get back together one day. She said "maybe we should see other people". Well if she said this why does she want to do something with me tomorrow? She always wants to do something with me and I feel the same way. Our relationship is pretty much the same, maybe even better... minus the sex of course. I don't think it makes sense that I'm hanging out with her a lot... it's as if i'm living an illusion. We have a great time together and we flirt sometimes but yet she doesn't want to be my girlfriend. What do you guys have to say about all this? I'm lost once again.
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LOL, well there you go!
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Well there are a couple of rules to follow. 1. Don't bite it. 2. Don't scratch it with your teeth, *ouch* Just watch porno movies to find out good ways of how to do it!
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No Contact being used but is complicated.
TrappedMind replied to Apoc220's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
Well I don't know if applying the no contact rule was a good idea in your situation. A month and a half isn't really a significant amount of time being with a girl. You were in the "honeymoon" stage and it didn't turn out too good. If you want to be friends with her than just act like a friend, that's all. If you want to get back together with her you gotta change your tactics. Just my 2cents. -
Makeout and do all that stuff. If you want to go below the belt then turn her on as much as possible before you try to. What's the worst that can happen if you go below the belt? She will probably just push you away with her hands or tell you no. Do it in a very nice and slow fashion so she doesn't think that you are being aggressive or anything like that. Be very gentle when doing so because deep down if she is turned on she really wants you to go down there but she is just scared or nervous if she doesn't. Keep her nice and relaxed, you must also be relaxed, don't be nervous, let it flow but don't get carried away. Also I hope you kiss her neck and her ears and her jawline. Variety is good. One last thing... I know this may sound dumb but don't think too much, or don't think at all! Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself. If you go too far and she pushes away then just accept it and do what she is comfortable doing. It's only a matter of time before she gets comfortable and sees that you care about her mind and her body. Good luck and have fun!
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It's time for me to change
TrappedMind replied to TrappedMind's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Thank you all for being here, helping me, giving me advice and motivation. I am truly happy that I inspired you Sueblue. For too long i was a mess but now I am getting my life back together, hopefully I will be accepted into night school and enjoy what life has to offer. Please, PLEASE never forget about YOURSELF like I did. Heretic - That will be very interesting if she crawls back to me but I have other things to worry about, and i'm happy to say that! -
It also depends on how sexual the guy is. I am a very sexual person so it doesn't take a lot to turn me on but if he doesn't like being teased then that's just too bad for him. You have to make him want you and you can do that until he's practically begging for it. There are many things you can do but it also depends what he likes and what turns him on. 1- Wear a thong and make it show with low cut jeans. Make him see the thong you are wearing by bending over in front of him to get the remote control on the floor for example... don't make it so obvious though. Thongs are a wonderful thing... very hard to resist. 2- Show some cleavage, men like breasts. 3- Say that it's getting hot in the room and you need to take ff your shit, underneath that you could have something really sexy on, that should catch his attention. Well that's it for now, there are many more things that I can tell you but it's probably not appropriate on these forums. If this stuff doesn't turn him on than there is a big problem.
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My ex gf broke up with me about a month and a half ago. We were together for almost 2 years. For many months leading to the breakup she developed a very unpleasant attitude. She would always talk to me as if i'm nothing special. I always asked her to respect me when she spoke to me but that would only make her more angry. It would come to the point where i would have to try really hard to try not to make her upset. However, despite my efforts it was her attitude and aggressive tone that started arguments. It's not one sided though, we had many many arguments about nothing important and it was both our faults but I changed in the past few months and i never started an argument or wanted to fight. She is now back from England and she still has that attitude that I simply cannot take anymore. I told her that if she wants me as a friend she has to respect me. I said I know that I'm not one of her important priorities but if she wants me as a friend or anything like that, she would have to change her attitude. She said that no one can threaten her like that and that no one can tell her to change. At that point I had enough. She made me angry again for like the 467th time and I said "Fine, you lost me as a friend, YOU don't deserve me as a friend" I really don't want her and her shitty attitude. I think the big issue here is maturity, we are both young (I'm 17, she's 18) and I really believe that she needs time to mature because I am calm and friendly when I speak to her and she is angry. I have chased this girl for a long time but I will chase no more. I don't want her back and frankly, she doesn't deserve me... even as a friend. I just wanted to post this to tell all of you that for once I thought about myself and my well-being. I ALWAYS put her ahead of me and that was the wrong thing to do.
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Thank you all for helping me out. I appreciate the time you people take to give me advice. I don't have much more to add right now but I will think about it and sleep on it. i know there are a lot of girls out there but something in me is holding me back. It's the fact that I love her. I think she needs to figure things out on her own, what she wants and all that on her trip to England. Maybe time away from this city and time away from me is what she needs, who knows, but during the time that she is gone I will be what I want to be. I will do what I want to do, whether that is a good thing or a bad thing, I don't know. I don't know if this is the "correct" way of thinking, damn I don't know what to think or believe anymore