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  1. Well i've been going out with this girl for about a month. Things have been going absolutely perfect. Then all of a sudden the last couple days she started to act a little differently like something was wrong. Anytim i asked her what was wrong she would say nothing, but it was noticeable that something was. Then while we were cuddling and watching tv she seemed very distant. She kept turning away from me and hiding her face. Then the phone rang and she looked at the caller id and said she didnt want to talk to the person and didnt answer. The phone rang about 20 times before the person gave up. Then she seemed very depressed and called her friend but left the room to talk, which she has never done before. Then she came back and told me that she needed to go to her friends house to help her through things. Apparently she says that she wants our relationship to be perfect and have all past things cleared up and thought through. So i left and so talked to me later and said that she needs some time to think things through. The next day she emailed me and told me that she didnt know how things would turn out with her problem. Shw wont tell me what this problem is and its tearing me up. I assume it has something to do with her ex-boyfriend because apparently when he found out she had a new boyfriend he flipped out on her at school, then later called her house a bunch of times saying that he hated her ans hope she died etc. So i have a feeling that he's the person that called that night that she didnt want to talk. What should i do? She told me she has no feelings for him and wants to be with me and all her friends tell her to not think about going back to him. It could be another problem but i doubt it. We've talked and she said she didnt know how the problem will turn out and i fear that we wont be able to have a relationship. What can i do besides just wait?
  2. Ok, i met this girl at a show my band played. She gave me her number and said we should hang out sometime. So i called her one day and went over to her house and was there all day long. We talked a lot and got to know each other and watched a movie. Then when i was going to leave she asked if i was going to leave without even hugging her so we hugged and i went home. I've been over to her house 2 other times now and the same thing usually happens, we just watch a movie and hug at the end of the night. She's made many hints that she wants me to kiss her i think. She has told me that i'm hot and cute and all that and said that her mom asked how it was kissing me. She told her that she'd have to get back to her on that. The problem is i havent really been in a situation like this for almost a whole year, i've just forgot how to make a move. We dont even really get that close when we lay on the bed and watch a movie. I'm pretty sure she wants to but i dont really know how to get closer to the point that we can kiss. I dont want to just jump over to her and start kissing her. How should i do it? Also since i've been with my last girlfriend i've gotten my lip pierced and i fear i wont be able to kiss well with it. Does anyone have any tips on how to kiss with a lip ring?
  3. Well i've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now. When i first met her in school i had a big crush on her. She would always talk to me and invite me to do stuff. So one time i decided to go with her to a local concert to meet her friends. When we got there she ran up to her friend shane and started kissing him, apprantly they were together and i just didnt know, i was crushed. Now 4 years later we're still friends. About in august both of us went through breakups. Lately we have been talking to each other online about the past relationships and how were alone now. We can talk about almost anything to each other. I've been to her house a couple times the last couple of weeks and we would just lose track of time and not even realize it was 4 in the morning. Anytime we hang out we seem to have a great time together. I think i'm falling in love with her but i dont know what to do. I'd like to have a realtionship with her but i dont want to jeopordize our friendship if its not what she wants. I fear if she doesnt feel the same that i wont be the same around her anymore and the friendship will be ruined. There hasnt really been any signs that she has feelings for me. We had talked before about how it sucks that were single now cause we dont have anyone to cuddle with anymore. The other night at her house when we were sitting on the couch she laid her head on my shoulder. Im not sure if that meant anything or not. The only reason a realtionship might not be good with her is she is leaving in the summer to go to hawaii for 5 months. After she gets home from that she'll go to school here for a little bit then school in indiana. I'd really like to have a realtionship but even if we start one im not sure if we could keep it through all of that. She seems perfect to me and we seem to get along so good, what should i do?
  4. ok so me and this girl were really into each other and saw each other like everyday for like 3 weeks straight. we were very close to what seemed like a regular relationship, we kissed and hugged and all that. Then i did something and made her mad. It wasnt really too big of a deal and she said "i like you still, but i dunno" whatever that means. So were still talking and stuff and would see each other but it wasnt like before, she seemed distant and didnt act like she did before. It seemed like she just kinda wnated to be friends. I mailed her and said that i knew she really didnt like me anymore so i would quit bothering her. Then she got kinda mad and we mailed back and forth until i apologized for everything. After not talking for awhile she emailed me the other day and asked how i was and when the next show was that my band was playing. She wasnt able to make it to the show cause of her car so she mailed me and let me know. i replied with this email "I could've taken you but its fine cause it turned out to be a pretty crappy show anyway. Austin and me both have like some crappy throat problem right now so we didnt sound so great, plus everyone hated us with the exception of lauria and her friends. And i realize that you just want to be friends, so i feel so crappy about sending you those emails before and being a jerk. Things werent really going the way i wanted and i acted like an ass, so im sorry. I havent been able to stop thinking about it and i feel really bad so i just thought i would let you know. I was surprised you even kept talking to me, but im glad you did. Anyway its almost like 5 in the morning and i need to sleep cause i havent in like 3 days. I hope you have a good day tomorrow and a happy thanksgiving, i sure know i will with my loser ass family. Bye." the she replied "Hey there, happy thansgiving. ok so when is your show in mdland? where and when?? i will be there dead or alive! LOL i miss seeing you! and trust me shit happens dont feel bad. hope to see u soon and eat tons of good food! xoxo" so judging from this does she like me or just want to be friends?
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