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hey, im pretty sure everyones been in this situation, i know that i have many times, no ones gonna be liked by everyone. well i just moved on and remained mates with the person, i thought that it would be awkward but it wasnt. just my lil spin hope this answers you Q ~LJ =;

hey qbert, for me i dont really like guys who smoke and do drugs it just shows a weakness to me, i dont really mind if they drink as long as they know their limits. the virgin thing it doesnt bother me and i dont think that it should bother anyone they should like you for who you are!!!. how old are you? the cuts and brusers thing, well ..... i suppose thats ok too, just not too many lol. just my lil spin hope this helps ~LJ =;

hey, well personally I go for the rough look and messy hair but you have got to smell good, no beard or moustash or goatee though, just the right amount of stubble hope this answers your questions ~LJ =;

hey dream, im no guy so i couldnt tell you what they look for in a girl, but what im guessing is, the things that your guy likes in a girls are all the things in and about you!! and beside if they arent then you shouldnt change for a guy they should love you for who you are!! Hope this helps ~LJ =;

hey, ok, i would contact him; but first i would do a bit of background research, its been a year since you split and he may have found someone new; not to put a downer on the whole thing, but you wouldnt want to ruin it if he had somethin new. did he say anythin about being with someone when you spoke to him? and does anyone else you know still speak to him because you might be able to get them to ask subtley if he has someone else. if he doesnt have anyone else then yeah i would contact him if you still have feelings for him. hope this helps ~LJ =;

hey =D> wow thats a great poem, it was very heartfelt and deep, it became deeper as the poem progressed i believe. i really liked it, so keep writing anyway thanks for sharing this with us ~LJ =;

hey Shyguy24, well if you want to go about meeting people in that way then thats up to you, i would ask her question about her and her life, that kinda thing (as if she was just one of your nomal friends) that way you dont get embarrsed and not know what to say to her. but personally i wouldnt go about finding people off the net or any other type of electrical device (mobiles - txting), because when you finally do meet up with them they arent what they may seem, trust me, i was talking to this guy for ages and i thought that i knew him but when we met up the convo just went blank and we didnt know what to say to each other, that could just be a one off i dont know but anyways its up to you just talk to her hope this helps and i hope that i havent put a downer on you sorry if i have ~LJ

hey, i agree with EmptySoul, but with a few addittions; if a girl likes a guy then she makes loads of eye contact, smiles alot and has a certain look in her eyes when she looks at the guy she likes. ( its not like this though) hope this helps ~LJ

hey guys, thanks for replying, good answers, each one individual in its own way, nice to know that people will be remembered in good ways, anyways, if you wanna keep replying then feel free, its up to you, so type away. ~LJ

hey (sorry uofahotgurl and sorry moderators. well learn eventually). sorry its annoying being a twin we get so confused (neva_black_n_white) actually sent it you....sorry....well learn how to stay on our own profiles, but yeah i agree with her so thats a second vote and sorry again. ~LJ

hey i wouldnt say there is anything wrong with you at all, i feel that everyone has a weight in which they feel comfortable at and they no longer have anxiety about. if this has boosted your self esteem then the wright is good but i would worry over the apsect of how you are loosing it, maintain a healthy diet and make sure he doesnt leave you too long i mean what would you up with? nothing? how much do you mean when you say you lost loads of weight, i can understand that you didnt have an eating disorder but ensure that your body is ok with this loss. keep fit and work with it. everyone has a limit so keep it and dont loose too much weight. 107 pounds isnt a lot, so be careful with how much you loose. im glad your bf back home. and he likes it hope this helped. kel

hey, the other day we did this thing in English and it was about: if you ran away or wasnt there anymore whay would be the one thing that people would remember you by, for instance - a certain song or item. so 1) what would the thing be? 2) (if its not too personal) why would it remind them of you? Strange question i know, but was just wondering . . thanks ~LJ

hey sphinx999, it could well be her home life, i did just say that it was just from a spectators view, and she does have two sisters, so you never know. thanks ~LJ

hey well since only guys have replied to your post at the moment i thought that i ( being a girl and all ) should reply, ok the nice thing: i like it when guys are nice, but apologising for everything that may become a lil annoying and a lil O.T.T. but only if you didnt do the thing that you are apologising for, if you did then, fine, apologise, it a good thing. anways that it from me hope this helps ~ LJ

hey, thanks for replying yes she did give them reasons why she fell out with them, the bad thing was that she sent it in an email. she knows that we like to hang out with her, were all going out at the weekend to watch a film, theres about 9 of us going, she has no shortage of friends, just at time she thinks that she is alone. she doesnt even have a bad home life from what her mates can see, from the outside, its just, like a normal family. well if there is such a thing anyway thanks for relying ~LJ

hey, ok heres the deal: one of my good mates has been feeling down and she has been seeing a mentor for a couple of weeks now, we dont think that her mentor is the best thing for her right now. her mentor told her to get rid of any negative effects on her life, so she fell our with two of her best mates and now they are feeling down themselves and bring them everyone down with them, i dont know how to help her, she has been cutting her wrists for a while and the other night whilst at a mates when she was totally out of it (drunk) she couldnt co-ordinate her emotion and actions together, she couldnt remember doing anything (cutting her wrists). so we had to help tidy her up, she was sick all over the place and was off school for a couple of days all of her mates dont know how to help her, we dont think that we can say anything to her because we dont know what she will do if we do tell how we feel. we are all really worried about her and dont know what to do or to say to her sorry if this is really confusing but i dont really wot to do or to say to her so any help would be greatful. thanks for listening if you reached this far ~LJ

hey thanks for reply, and no i dont live in Australia, but id like to go there, love the accent! freaky about your mate anyway thanks for replying ~ LJ

hey guys, just a lil something i wrote today, things seem to be getting me down recentally so sorry if its a lil depressing. so here goes its called Helpless What can you do When they don't listen to you And will not stop They just continue They put their life on the line Time after time They involve me Then say its no business of mine The stress keeps building Then the tears just come rolling Its all a viscious cycle We all just have to keep fighting We need to control our emotions Through all the complications Of these ongoing Deepening situations Its all just coming I can't figure out the beginning Let alone look for the end I just know its gonna be never ending. thanks for reading, if you reached this far . . . id like to know what you thought ~ LJ

hey, in some ways yes i do think that lying is not telling the truth, but for instance in your example; if the bf didnt tell the gf that his ex would be there, i dont think that that is lying b/c it is not important in my eyes, if the bf is trustworthy and honest then the gf shouldnt have to worry about the ex gf being there in the first place (if that makes any sense to you - sorry if its a little confusing) is that example on a personal note? or just in general? hope this helps ~LJ

hey, i dont think that there is a time when you should tell her, (i mean which is planned) it should just come naturally and if you love her now like DREAM said then i think you should tell her before its too late, but DONT plan it, it will be more heart felt if it is a spare of the moment thing hope this helps ~LJ

hey yes i would say that the statment is very true it may cause pain and heartbreak on the way but it hopefully always have a hapy ending, sometimes we say to get someone back you must loose them first. is this question on a personly note or were you just wondering? hope this helps, sorry if it sounds kinda cheesey ~ LJ

hey i totlally diagree with smacking a child, i believe that there are other ways in which you can punish a child for bad behavour, you can take away something which they like or enjoy doing, i dont think that smacking a child is an effective way of getting them to do what they are told, some children may rebel against this as they become older or may do this to their children but on a greater scale, so in response, i believe that it is wrong to smack a child because they cant defend themselves. just my P.O.V ~ lee

hey, Intriguing poem, i liked it, im kinda like you when writing a peom, i just sit there, think and write and before i know it i have writen a poem which has come from the heart but out of now where at the same time. anyway thanks for sharing your poem and keep writing id like to here more ~ LJ

thanks for sharing your poem, i enjoyed reading it, it wasnt the type of poetry i usually read and like but i thought that it was unique and deep, i found it really interesting to read thanks for sharing LJ

wow i really liked your poem, it was really heart felt and meaningful i really enjoyed reading it thanks for sharing it with us LJ