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  1. hey i think that is a really cool poem, i liked it alot, keep on writing ~LJ =;
  2. hey aww thanks, i really liked that poem too, if you want to share any others im all ears. ~LJ =;
  3. hey now do we have to go into the birds and the bees no only joking, you dont have to have a religion to have a purpose, just as neva said having a religion it an option, you dont have to have or need one. i personally dont have a religion and im fine. ~LJ =;
  4. hey 1. a. 2. b. 3. a. 4. b. 5. b. 6. c. 7. a. hope this helps ~LJ =;
  5. hey all i too dont have a 'star' role model. i dont that is what makes a role model, i think a role model is some imperfect person like everyone else who help another without the though of themselves or a person who does something great. my rolemodels would also have to be my family and friends. ~LJ =;
  6. hey i would just leave her now, if she has already going with some other people then i doubt that she'll change her mind, but i would confront your other friends, id ask them why they lied to you. here a saying i always remember "true friends are like diamonds, precious but rare, false friends are like autumn leaves found everywhere" another idea though: couldnt you just go all together, isnt there a table big enough for you all? have a good time in July just_smile =;
  7. hey i heared that too Sebulous, i think its something to do with loosing all the toxins from the body. anyway i think that it is a normal human thing to do, dont listen to anything other people sayits all nonsense. in some ways i can relate, two of my sisters have left me to go to university and that was really hard to go through, becuase i was really close to them. at times like christmas when they come back it seems as if thinks are like when they used to live with us but then they would leave again and its really hard to see. so i guess i kinda know what you are going through. things will get easier, trust me ~LJ =;
  8. hey im sure there are loads of people who want to help you out ther, but i found that you post was very difficult to read and i didnt understand it very well. so i was wondering if you could sum it up and make it clearer. thanks just_smile =;
  9. hey wow i thought that poem was great, it was very deep and i can relate especially with what is happening to me right now. i have read a few of your poems and think your a great writer so keep it up ~LJ =;
  10. hey thanks for sharing that with us, i can understand why she self harms, it shows that you really love her if you are willing to kill yourself so that you can be with her, you must have really thought and talked about it with her. ~LJ =;
  11. hey i wouldnt ask the question as a full question if you knwo what i mean like 'what are you interested in' because you are likely to only get a few answes and you might not be able to span off what she has said so i would ask questions like 'what kind of music do you like' or something along those lines. then maybe you could go from there and expand on what she has said and ask which was her fav song from that group. it should come to you as you get into the convo. hope this helps ~LJ =;
  12. hey i agree with lil_unique_me, find something she is interested in and talk about that, but make sure ur interested too otherwise you may get bored. also asker her questions which are open so she has to expand and not only give you a one word answer. maybe that would work. hope this helps ~LJ =;
  13. hey i have a few friends who self harm, i know its nothin like having a partner who self harms but i kinda know where youre coming from, if you really care for her and would do anythin then just stick by her, im guessing that she just really needs the support. dependin on your age she could get a mentor or counsellor, maybe you could go with her to show her that you will be there for her. does she know the reason for her depression? (dont answer if too personal) ~LJ =;
  14. hey yey well done, thats great to hear, and the if you need help thing, that goes for me too. good luck in the future ~LJ =;
  15. hey *smiles* at mahlina comment. i really think that you should tell him that if he doesnt stop then this could affect him in a major way, your 15 rite and im guessing that he is too, correct me if im wrong but that means that you will be doing your GCSE's and i dont think that he will want to mess them up. if he isnt careful and doesnt stop messin about and a teacher catches him when someone finally does retaliate then he could ruin his chances in doin his GCSE's its happened at my school. also i dont think he wants to get beaten up by someone twice his size, besides most people dont suit black eyes. maybe you could tell him that. hope this helps and will give your mate something to think about ~LJ =;
  16. hey another way to find out what she meant would be to ask her, neva and myself may be totally wrong and she could be meaning somethin completely different, so if your still curious then you could try that ~LJ =;
  17. hey personally i would just ignore them and do what swift44 mentioned, just do what you want to do, besides they should respect what you say and know that guys and girls can have a platonic relationship. if you do want a gf then you can but if you dont then dont give in to the pressure because it isnt something you want to do ~LJ =;
  18. hey as for what you put i guess this is just my view, i think shes trying to say that: people or her need to face up to whats in front of them. LJ =;
  19. i agree with what youve put in your post and that people do have a purpose in life, but, sometimes people do come to a brink where they dont believe this any more and can then sere suicide as a better option. i can see two sides to this but i do know what you mean. i mean what happens if the day after youve comit suicide you gain something that you'd always desired but missed it by ending it short. just a thought. LJ =;
  20. i really like your poem, i thought it came into its own nearer the end. but i really enjoyed it. LJ =;
  21. hey Jamiegirl i would take away one of her toys every time she is naughty as a form of punishment and then when she is behaving better give it her back. then she will realise that when is is bad she will loose one and the only way to get it back is to good. hope this helps ~LJ =;
  22. Hey Yeh caz she may have her own problems (I know they're big) but she doesn't take the time to realise other people have their problems too, she likes to be the center of attention if you hadn't noticed, its always my problem this, my problem that, my flaming problem! I too have problems but I don't put them on other people because I know they have their own and they don't need mine weighing them down. So maybe if she did take that time to breathe then she would realise that other people have their problems and that they cant handle her's at the mo, especially with the way she is being right now ok! And if she does realise that they are talking behind her back and that she is being two faced then why does she still do it? Wouldn't she rather have real friends that she can rely on than ones that don't even care? oh and the just come round thing, yeh right, shes too stuborn to come round and i dont think its my turn to, do you? (remember what she said) and what are the details? ~LJ =;
  23. hey guys thanks for responding i think that i will have to either talk to her or just be there for her when / if they do drop her. i think she knows that i am not happy with her. ill just have to see what happens tomorrow when i see her. thanks again ~LJ =;
  24. hey i think it just depends on the girl, it would be a nice gesture to let them know you took the time to think about them before you met them. so i dont think she would mind, she might be quite happy by the fact ~LJ =;
  25. hey i know the feeling i have sat down at the comp myself and knew just what i was going to put and then as soon as it can to submitting it i thought that it was the worse advice on this whole site and so i have deleted. i dont even know why i am replying to yours really, maybe just to let you know that i have been through it too. ~LJ =;
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