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hey, thanks for replying, its nice when someone replies when your not expecting them to and to know what people thought of it; so thanks for reading it ~ shakespear

Hey guys, This is a peom about how i have been feeling lately, i dont expect any replies i just want to say how i feel about life. Its called: Not Fitting A Large Circle Into A Large Square Could this day be any worse This have gone wrong Im under a curse A de ja vu too long I started as me But now things have changed Now in the mirror i dont recognise who i see My life has beeen rearranged I dont know who i am Or where im going Life seems like a sham This just arent flowing Its like not fitting a large circle Into a small square ____ I dont know who i am Nor who i want to be But if i could be anything This once it woulnt be me! ____ Thanks for listening LJ

hey neva_black_n_white, to be honest im not too shure at the minute, but theres one things that i believe in life and it kinda goes like this (its what i thinks about life) so i might help with you question ok, i believe from the moment of cenception life is full of risks and we are given two things to help us on our way, them being friends and family; but not event they can protect us from everything life throws at us so we have to live to adjust and look after ourselves or we will never survive, but as soon as we have adjusted to this death zone, it takes us away and we disappear from all exitstance forever! so i guess what i am trying to say is that my main prioraties at the moment are my friends family career and just trying to adjust to this life, before it takes me away just as easily as i came. hope this helps LJ

hey guys, ok if you read one of my last posts it was about two guys i liked. well the thing is, my mates who are on this site read my post and found it all out. Since then they wont leave the subject alone, they keep going on about it. it makes me feel like im going to explode, even if the things we are talking about have nothing to do with it they will somehow find a way to bring it into the conversation. The reason why i am posting is because i am a little annoyed and upset about it and was hoping you could help find a way to make them stop, i dont want to fall out with them over it, i suppose in one way if they read this post then they will all ready know and i hope that they realise that 'they' fell out with someone for doing pretty much the same thing (hint hint caz), but any help about how i could stop them would be great thanks for listening LJ

hey everyone, thanks for reading my post im actually amazed at how many people responded, being a tad morbid and all. but thanks, you came up with some really good answers that even i didnt think about. anyone else who wants to add in theres feel free but thanks to the rest of you. LJ

hey guy, ok i was wondering what are everyones worste fears in the world. what would your top 5 be? for example mine would be~ 1. growing old 2. not being loved 3. dying and no-one caring and noticing that i had gone 4. being alone in silence 5. loosing a loved one any replies would be great ~ sorry if this is really morbid and not a happy post. ~ LJ

hey neva_black-n_white, wow that was a short but gr8 poem, i really understood what you were trying to say. to answer your Q . . .errm it depends; if the person who says it abuses the word then after time it will loose its meaning but i believe that the word should keep its meaning longer than the time it takes to say it for the first time and the time it take to realise you mean it. hope this helped ~LJ

hey i dont think that there is a way to fall in love with a person i believe that it just happens, you know @ first sight or moment that your with them, you know and you will just connect with the individual, when they can do know wrong in your eyes, i believe that your in love with that person. my tip is just wait! . . . you might have already met the person that you are gonna be with but you might just no know it yet! hope this helps ~ just_smile aka ~ lee

thanks for your advice Amberfire, i think i know what u mean, i havent said nething yet so i have got time to think about it thanks again Just_smile

oh and i'll tell mr S that i like him, i hope he feel the same thanks Just_smile ill keep in touch

thanks again i think that i am goin to take your advide and just follow my heart next time we meet up i am going to tell him. ill go there 'blind' and say what every comes out from my heart. i hope that your right about their friendship remaining wish me look, thanks for all the advice i have just realised that this is my 13th post (if am right) i hope it doesnt bring bad look on the situation. just_smile

Hey again, thanks for the advice Inkognito; but i still have one prob, i see him pretty much every week and also with them being good mates i dont want it to affect/ruin their friendship, i dont want to hurt him i know that i have got to tell him sometime but i just dont know when and how!!!! Just_smile

ok i would just wait it out, remember if she really loves you then she wouldnt be able to do anything with another guy, the thought would just sicken her. if she loves you as much as you lover her then she will come back to you just give her time to realise it. girls (being one myself) only realise they have someting once its not with them anymore. let her find out for her self that you are the one she wants to be with. she'll love you more for it Just_smile

Hey, I'm gonna say sorry now just incase I babble on a bit; so sorry WHY do I always pick the wrong one? Ok here's the deal, I've been talking to this guy (via text, lets call him nick); for the past 2 months, we have only met up a few time but only as large group of mates, never just the 2 of us. He seems strange and like i dont know and it feels as if he isnt the person who wrote the texts he's different! Here's the prob: over the fone everything seems fine and we get on, but when we are 2gether thing just goes too weird we cant seem to talk to one another the convo just goes blank (that's the only way I can put it) My friend just had her b-day , so she had a sleepover with all her mates (guys n girls stayed), it was a freezing nite mainly b/c we were in about 4 tents but hey, the girls n lads weren't supposed to mix (in the tents) but by the end of the nite we were all so cold we all just went into any tent. ne way 'nick' went as well so I thought that it would be a gd chance to talking n get to know him a lil better, but it just didn't happen, we spent the whole entire nite @ the opposite sides of the room. It just didn't seem like a normal 'relationship' (I don't even know if I can call it that). We all went to bed @ about 4ish in the morn. This is where it gets hard: ppl who were seein ppl shared a tent with one another and the rest of us when with ne one, 'nick' n I didn't share a tent. Instead I went with one of his mates (lets call him scott) and one of my best mates who I have known for about . . . well as long as I can remember really n we had a great time. During the whole nite we watched loads of scary films n 'scott' n I were sat on the sofa holding hand n talking (that even more intimate than what me n 'nick' have been, just shows how close we really are, I guess) ne way I guess what I am tryin to say is, 'nick' isn't the one I want to be with I don't think that I like him that way. ppl say that they miss a person's text when they finish with some1 but I haven't spoken to 'nick' (by text in like 2 weeks(i had no £)) so does confirm that I don't like him in that way? What I am trying to say is that I really like 'scott' but theres a prob; they are best mate, n I don't know how to tell 'nick' that I don't like him like that. AND I want to know if you think that I should tell 'scott' that I like him? Wot do ya think I should do? (that is if ya have carried on reading all this and havent fallen asleep ) Sorry again for talking soo much Any advice would be appreciated Just_smile (aka _ Lee)

hey, no i havent ever dumped a guy because of a scar. to me a scar makes up a persons identity and individuality because no one will ever have the same one so it is personal to that person. when i was younger i had an accident resulting in me having stitches in my knee. i never used to like my scar, i hated it and so i would never wear a skirt or a dress, only things that covered it. now im not bothered by my scar because i realised that it was part of me and i couldnt get rid of it so i just have to deal with it being there. everyone on this planet will have a scar in some shape or form. just learn to like it, it probably going to be with you for the rest of your life. go to the beach and show everyone that your not bothered about it and they may just realise that it is just a scar and that they probably have got one on their body too. hope this helped Just_smile

wow that was a really good poem, i can see that you really care this person, dont let the fact that he ripped it up get you down or stop you from writing more poems. they really express your feelings. keep me posted if / when you write more Just_smile :smilecolros:

hey, the other day i read a post asking what we look for in a guy that we want to date and it got me thinking, neway, recently me and my twin sister (who look nothing alike) have been seeing these two guys who are quite close mates and i was wondering 'what do guys want' in a gril. Guys: do you prefer a girl who v.slim and tall but not very curvey or a girl whos medium height, slim and curvey thanks Just_smlie

hay bzborow1 three is is too small of a number but i will try to fit it all onto just three things for you: 1) he has got to have a good personality, to find this out i usually start out as friends. 2) he has got to be tall, have broad shoulders and big hands to hold me in. i know that more than one thing in this one but its all the same thing really. 3) hmm, last one i dont know i guess it would have to be . . . (this is going to sound really monotonous, i know everyone says it) but he has got to be my type (tall brown spiky hair and brown eyes nice teeth ect) it was a weird post but it was good keep postin them Just_smile

hay Devil_bitch_666, just one same thing to say really, always dream for something and never give up dreaming because u never know what you wish for may just be about to come true but you give up and then it has gone oh and ps - if its a bad desire, make sure you dont tell a person you shouldnt - ie the police from you know who = Just_smile see you on the bright side

i can see that you really love her and would do anything to help her, why dont you go out with her and her mates to clubs, tell her that she doesnt have to stop going to the club if she want to have just to have some fun, but she doesnt have to drink alcohol to have it either. you could try other things instead of going clubbing in the evenings try activities, for a meal or jsut stay in and watch a chick flick with some popcorn; most girls like them it might bring you even closer together. i dont know if i have been of any help, hope i have Just_smile

yes because you can have fun with some1 who has a good sense of humour but not as much with some1 who only has the looks, looks can only get a person so far in life remember one of my fav quotes 'beauty thinks it needs no talent and thinks it can survive without it but alone it becomes weak and dies' a good sense of humour will get you to most of the places in life where you want to be. thinks of this way a sense of humour will last an eternity whereas looks will only last for about 50 years if your lucky. Just_smile ps is this just in general or is there a meaning behind this message?

hell yeh, all the good looking are either gay, taken or slightly psycho. its hard to find a straight and good looking guy (or girl; depending on you sex), it just takes a bit of time and hard work, but if try hard enough then you will eventually reach your goal. never give up tryin coz you never know; you may give up just before they walk round the corner. then you will have missed you chance Just_smile

hi at the moment in english we have got to write a poem about ourselves, how we feel and how we think others view us. i find writing poems really hard and stressful. could you please tell me what you think of my poem and send me a messge back . . .just_smile This Is Me This is me The girl who is the quiet one Who always sits alone in the corner But really you just can't see This is the real me This is me, the true me The one with all her mates Who is up for a laugh and ready for adventure But really you just can't see This is the real me This is me The times you took me for granted Who did I do it all for, it certainly wasn't for me But really you just can't see This is the real me This is me, the one I want to be The one who voices her opinions Who isn't afraid what others will say But really you just can't see This is the real me This is me, this is who I am The person who has a voice and knows it Who did I do it for … me! But really you just didn‘t see This was the real me