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  1. LuckyDuck
    maleman 5" in circumferance is normal. I don't think it is that. You may be inserting it in too deep into her and it is hitting cervix. Next time as you are penetrating her, as you are going in deep, pay attention to see if she moves her body away from you or put her hands against your stomach as to push you away. If she does these things, she is hinting that you are going in too deep and it feels uncomfortable for her. Keep and eye on her facial expressions, is she smiling or is she grinning from pain. Ask her, talk to her. Ask her to tell you when deep is too deep and remember only to go in that deep from then on. 7" is alot to play around bro. Some girls can take all of it and some can't. Adapt to what she can handle not what you think she can. I hope I was able to help. good luck
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    Is it true more true that it is not the lenght but the thickness of the penis that will give the women more pleasure since it will make more contact within her vaginal walls? Does anyone have an answer to that? Luckyduck
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    Hi Reborn, Your thoughts are heart felt. I wish I was able to express my feelings in words as vivid as yours. As I read towards the part where you ask your ex not to contact you, I feel my heart sink a little know that is something I will have to do eventually too. It takes alot of courage knowing you are pouring your heart out one last time to someone you have loved so much. If you do decide to send this to him, I will hope that something within those words with strike a chord of his being and remind him once again the love he had for you and come back in your arms. How long has it been since you last talked to or met your ex? I have been thinking alot about writing my ex a letter as well. I need to let her know how I truly feel about her. Just have not gotten to the point of letting her go yet I guess. If I do write this letter, I know all the decisions after that will be up to her. Best of luck to you Reborn, let us know when you sent it.
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    Hey Reborn- It seems I have a personal angel by my side. Thank you being my guiding light (not the blue light I like the "I am the duck and she is the chick part" Need a little humor to soften the tension. Everytime, I get confused and become overwhelmed by choices, you show up just in time to really things out in great detail. At first I wanted to confront her and just ask her how she is feeling. You mentioned her words are rational emotions and change quickly so it does not serve a good purpose of finding the truth. I plan to see her Saturday see what happens next. I look forward to much to spending time with her but have to keep my emotional distance. All my love and affection are still fresh and strong when she's near. I really don't know what her plans are for seeing me. It has been a very long time since she said she wants to see me. I have always been the one telling her that I want to see her at night or during the weekend. She would be the one deciding if she wants to or not. I feel like a servant and she the queen. It should be that way. That feeling did not feel good. Reborn, I will be much more cautious and try to balance my approach. Since this is new terriory for me, I hope I don't make a wrong move and fall back into her trap if she has one laid out there for me. She has her exboyfriend back and still wants to see me. Three weeks ago she said why do I still want to see her, it is not leading us to anywhere, and now she wants to see me. How fast can emotions can change hah. I truly hope it is not an act of jealousy and once she has me back, she will act up again. Well until Saturday, I am going out tonight with some friends to drink a little (not to get drunk). Roborn, you have given alot of your time to me. I would to hear what has been happening on your side. I know you are very strong and hope that you are well. I wish you the best and please keep me updated with your situation and I will keep you posted on mine. Take care, Luckyduck
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    gettinthroughit It is truly that you realized this within only three weeks of your break up. I never thought of my ex being a different when I call her now. She does answer but she seems so cold, not the warm hearted person that made me feel wanted. This is a completely different perspective to look at. I look forward to reading your entire story of your break up. I am sure others are looking forward to that as well. great post
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    Hi everyone, It is about 11:25PM and she has not called. I had a feeling she would not call tonight after the incident yesterday when I picked up my friend from the airport. It is so hard for me not to pick up the phone and call her. I know she is not calling me tonight. I hate playing these mind games. She's good. I just want to call and say what's on my mind and tell her to tell me what she wants.
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    Hey Reborn- You mentioned on jumping on the bone that she may throw at me and I have the upper hand now. Well, today I was wondering how she was so I just surprised her at work and told her to come out and have lunch with me. She happily agreed. She brought her lunch to share with me also. We ate in my car under some tree shades. She was touching me (places that she should not be touching) and biting my arm and looking at me smiling. I did not mention anything about last night and she did ask me a little about it but did not seem to be bothered by it all. We ate in the car. She had a few minutes left in the car so we sat and talked about what I did up there. She just leaned over and started touching me and biting me again and said that she can see me this Saturday morning. Keep in mind that she has gotten back with her ex boyfriend and she still wants to see me when he is at work. Then she told me she will tell him that she is hanging out with a girlfriend. This is the same girl that two weeks when I ask if I can see her would say "why do you want to see me if it is not going to get us anywhere?". Funny how feelings can change huh? Yes, Reborn, I am being very careful about this and not having any hopes. But why do you think about her wanting to see me Saturday? Reborn, I too understand how it feels when everybody else around thinks you and your ex are just friends and you have to hide those hurt inside. I did not get to tell you how much impact you had on me when you posted your message. It felt like you read my mind and felt my heart. Those feelings and emotions that I wanted to get out were expressed through your words. You are right, we do have a date tonight at 11PM. I will try not looking at the clock waiting for her to call. I don't think I am strong enough yet to not answer but I know I will get stronger. We will be ok
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    To those I did not get to thank personally, thank you bzborow1, netman, reborn, and Orthodox&SDA for your support and understand. I would like to share with you on the current situation. A good female friend of mine (like a sister to me) from Washington called and asked me to pick her up from the airport on Wednesday. I told my ex that. My ex's work place was near the airport, so I stopped by and had lunch with my ex first then went to pick up my friend. During the drive my ex called asking me if I got home yet. I told her I was still driving my friend home. She told me she called b/c she forgot how to setup the word document and wanted to ask me for help. My ex said she will talk to me later. My friend and I went to see a movie together and got out at 7:30PM. An emergency came up and my friend needed to get to he sister, so I offered to drive her up there, an hour drive. About 9:30, my ex called again and said she tried to call me several times and I didn't pick up. I said I was in the movie theatre. She asked if I went to see it alone with just her and I said yes. My ex started acting up, "oohh and how was it?" I say the movie was funny and she said "no, the company?" I did not say anything. I told my ex that her mom asked me to stay over there place since it was late. My ex got mad saying "where are you sleeping, in her room with her hah?" I told he I am going home later and that I'll talk to her if I can. I called my ex two hours later to tell to go to bed cause I will come home late and she said ok. I asked what she was doing. She was listening to slow music. All of a sudden she read a sentence to me. I asked "what was that"? She read it again and then I realized she was reading a Valentine's card I gave to her last year. I said she should get some sleep and we got off. 30 mins later she called asking if I can help her with a math problem that her brother is having. After, she asked if I could talk and I said sure but the signal was getting bad so she said she would talk to me tomorrow. I am now at another level of confused. She has never acted like this since we broke up. This is the first time I have seen a dent in her armor. I don't know what to do. I know she likes to play games and be in control while I tell it like it is and express my feelings to her. I hate playing games. Should I just confront her and ask what happened last night or should I just not say anything at all and just let take the initiative to mention it? I wish I could do something more to make her start expressing her feelings back. For the first time in awhile that I was able to get a good rest last night. But I am more confused than ever. What would you think my next step should be? I am not very good at mind games at all. Thank you for listening
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    j-boe what helped you get pass the stage where I am at right now cause I don't have a good method to get through this. I know I am feeling sorry for myself and keep wishing she could see what she is doing to me. I hate myself for that.
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    Hi everyone, I have not been here for awhile. Been trying to cope with the breakup myself but with no success. Reading your posts and replies are the only sources that have given me comfort. Once again I am in need of your help and advice. The short version is my ex-girlfriend broke up with me four months ago to go back with her ex-boyfriend who is currently treating her very well. She is still calling me every night before she goes to bed. We have been talking for 1 1/2 months now. Two weeks ago when I ask her if she loves him, she says no. Now when I ask her, she says she is starting to love him a little. "If he treats me well like this, I guess I will love him". I said "so you are all set with him then". She says "I guess so, I don't know, we'll see". I can see things are getting better for them and she is starting to have stronger feelings for him. I ask her why does she still want to talk to me, she replied "because I like and feel comfortable talking with you." "I prefer to talk to you but if talking to me is making things difficult for you, then maybe shouldn't." She knows I want to talk to her. I want to so much to be supportive but don't know how I can cope with it if one night she does not call. I will think she has gone the next step of getting closer to him and stay at his place. Even as I type, I am waiting for her to call me. It is about 11:00PM here. Some of your suggestions in the previous posts included: 1. Just cut contact with her completely: If I do, she might think I am mad at her, and she will just let go and move on. 2. Be supportive but do not take all her calls: She knows I always pick up at night. If I don't, she will start to realize I am trying to ignore her and will stop completely. 3. Tell her that I need time alone for awhile, I can talk to her in the future just not now: If do that, she will know that I am hurting and may not want to call me again. 4. Act happy and confident: If she sees that she knows I am getting better and concentrate more on him. I feel like whatever choice I make, she will be ok with it. You guys probably think I am going crazy and I think I am too. Where am I going wrong? I love this girl and would like to get her back but how? thank you for listening.
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    Hi everyone, Just wanted to give some info on my situation. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me four months ago to go back to with her ex-boyfriend. However, we still kept in touch by phone. Everytime I ask her how she feels about him, she would tell me that she is starting have stronger feelings for him but they have not be close in that way yet. I tried to ask her to see me but she would find an excuse not to see me. When I try to tell her how I feel about her, she would ask me not to and change the subject. It has been more than a month of not seeing her, just talking. But last night, I was able to get her to go out with me to a bar. We had a good time. She kissed me and held me so I held her back. It felt like we were back together. We got buzzed and ended having sex that night. I had my head on her lap and just told her how I felt about her. She just said to me that she wished things were different but I should try to let her go and move on. We can still talk if I wanted to or we should not talk if it makes it harder for me. She suggested we should not meet each othe like this anymore because it makes her weak again. I think it was a bad idea to meet her. I told her things and now it seems like she has distanced herself from me now. I think I made her have stronger feelings for the other guy. I am not sure to I should do now without making things worst. If anyone have any suggestions on this, it would help alot. Thank you
  12. LuckyDuck
    Hey Cobro, I was not sure if you got my PM but you did. It seems like you are going through the exact same path but your are just a few steps ahead of me. Man, you are absolutely right. I guess if I really want to get her back, I will have to take the risk of losing her forever by letting her go. Tell me did you email her or told her on the phone that you did not want to talk to her for awhile? I feel like writing an email so she can always go back to it and reread it. On the other hand, the email may even hurt me in the long if she does read it again and she may realize that I have moved and she will give up on me too. I don't know, I think I am thinking too hard. Let me know about this one. But thank you Cobro for your sharing your pain. I am rethink about the consequences of staying in her life as a second guy. That cannot happen and I never thought of it that way. I will not ask her not to call me but not sure which is the better way, email or by phone. Let me know
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    Hey shellie, your words are very helpful. From your deep opinion on this topping, I think you will do fine with your situation as well. You are right, I have been allowing her to give me less than what I deserve. I am always the one calling her if she does not call. She can read me like a book and I hate that. I really hate playing mind games and she is very good at that. I tell it like how it is and she would just give hints and make me guess. I will try to find a way to tell her not to call me anymore. I can't keep doing this. Everytime I start to feel better, talking to her brings me back to square one but it seems like I don't mind, but I do now. If it is meant to be, then someway somehow, we will be right? I really need to move on. There has got to be a light at the end of the tunnel somewhere. I can see a faint dim. I hope it will get brighter. Thanks shellie and stay strong as you have helped to be strong. I know you will be ok.
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    Hey shellie12345, It seems by staying in the picture, I am getting nowhere. Maybe it is time to try to keep from contact with her for awhile. I really don't how to bring up telling her that we should not talk. I don't want her to think that I am mad at her and she would take it the wrong way. I will try telling her I need some time without contact, but will be there for her if she is ever down. That is the only time she should call. What do you think about that? I still feel like I am at her beckoning call. Thanx shellie12345 P.S. How are you handling things with your situation at school?
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    Hey shellie12345, It seems by staying in the picture, I am getting nowhere. Maybe it is time to try to keep from contact with her for awhile. I really don't how to bring up telling her that we should not talk. I don't want her to think that I am mad at her and she would take it the wrong way. I will try telling her I need some time without contact, but will be there for her if she is ever down. That is the only time she should call. What do you think about that? I still feel like I am at her beckoning call. P.S. How are you handling things with your situation at school?
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    shellie12345, Your first love is always the most difficult to let go of. Since you are each other's first love, you both have a special bond together that no one can replace. Right now, he is in college, there will be more girls for him to meet. I know what I tell you will hurt you but you should start thinking and preparing for the "what if". You will be seeing him alot at school. Right now, if you still love him, let him be and be there as a friend. College life will bring many tough times and he will always turn to someone he feels comfort with most. It should be you. You had fours years with him, use that to your advantage. Be there for him as a friend. (man, I wish I can listen to my own advice) I know it is tough to be friends with someone you love so much and see them with another person. But that is the highest chance to maybe get him back in the future. You have an advantage over other girls already. Support him. I wish you the best of luck shellie12345
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    You may have noticed a distinct bluish tinge to your testicles after you make out for several hours -- and the deep, most uncomfortable ache that goes along with it. Actually, it's not your testicles that are blue, it's the skin of the scrotum. When you're aroused, blood flows not only to the penis, but to the entire area. The longer you stay aroused, the longer the blood stays there. Newer blood is red, but older blood, which has less oxygen, is blue -- and that's why your testicles appear to contain more blue blood hope this clears up your curiosity
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    If you don't mind telling, how small exactly is he? When you were with you ex whom you say was alot bigger, did you get an orgasm with him? How comfortable are you when you are with them. Close your eyes and try to imagine what he is doing to you. Picture it in your head. If you did have orgasms with your ex and now you can't get one with this guys despite strong sexual attraction towards him, then maybe his size is not adequately fit to your body that's all. Good luck to you.
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    Ladies, Thank you for shedding some light on that topping. So far 3 out of 3 would choose to go with the guy they love. If this is mostly true, I still have shot at getting this girl back. Do any of you know from personal or someone else's experience where the individual stayed with a person which he or she did not really love that person but stayed since that person was very caring and loving. Could the one that was not in love learn to love that other person over time? But thank you for your honesty. this helped me alot.
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    Hi ladies, My question is if you have to men equally, deeply, and unconditionally in love with you, who would you choose. Let's say both have the required height, looks, physique, etc. The only difference is that: One has a good secure good pay job, financially stable. But you are not really in love with him but think in the long run you might love him. The other is unemployed at the moment, trying to find a job and then go back to school. Not financially stable yet. But he is the first person you ever clicked with and you do love him. Who would you choose? BONUS question. I you were with one partner and had ok intimacy with him. I mean enough to satisfy you orgasmically but bad forplay. Then you break up with him. Now you are with a second partner, the forplay is great but the orgasm is sometimes not that satisfying. which would you choose?
  21. LuckyDuck
    shellie12345 Thank you for your warn insite. Shellie, the reason why she still calls me at night because I wanted her to. I am just not strong enough to let go of complete no contact. She says that if I ever wanted time alone, she will stop calling me. She has mentioned many times that we should not talk but I still insist we since I tell her she comforts me. But I know it really doesnt. The reason why I put up with this is because her actions to leave me stems from alot of pressure from her parents yelling at her telling how good he is to her. I don't think she will see what she is missing since the other guy waited for her 6 months to get her back. He is also a very good person Shellie. This is the main reason why I don't really want to stop talking her, but I am deteriorating inside. I know part of the break up is my fault, she is the age where she needs to think of her future, someone who can take care of her and her family. I however, am unemployed, having a hard finding a job. Her parents see that and instills alot of pressure on about my financial status. I think she eventually came to realize that. She tells me that love is not strong enough. In a way she is right. Will love support a family during hard times. She says she is being idealistic. I told her I plan to go back to school but she doesn't think she can wait for me for 4 years. When we were together, she is very loving, kind, and giving person. She has never said she loved him. I was the only person she I love you to. Though she does not love him now, she believes his love for her and caring with eventually win her over. She is willing to wait for that. That is what upsets me most. She can't wait for me to get out of school. This sucks. thank again Shellie12345
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    cyberex you are a very strong willed person. I don't how you have handled those thoughts that ran in your head that your wife being with another person(s) intimately. I admire your strength and courage very much. My girlfriend broke up with me to go back to her ex. they are slowly starting to get more comfortable with each other. I cannot get out of my head that eventually she willing sleeping with him again. Sometimes I can't sleep just thinking about them being close together and all the other thoughts starts rushing in. It becomes almost unbearable. During the day I can find things to do and it helps, but at night, it is a whole different story. I just want to say that you have given some strenght to cope with the inevitable. what else can I do.
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    Cobro, I am sorry that you had to find out the details of your ex's relationship with her new mate. I don't know how you delt with that. I know all things shall pass but I think the thought of your ex being intimate with someone else is by far the worst thing to think of when it comes to relationships. I am glad to hear that you are now sort of dating your ex again. I only hope the similar event happens for me. So much pain can go away when the person you want shows she still cares. I still talk to my ex. Last night I asked her if I can see her, she got very offensive and started saying we would get nowhere if we saw each other. One minute she would like to see me if she can, then a few days later she changes her mind. I really don't know why I feel like I have to see her. She seems more distant and cold. I know she is not like that. I think my persuance is getting to her. I don't want to lose her completely. Cobro, Thank you for taking the time to share your situation.
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    Slim Shady, I do realize that I have to leave her alone for her to start noticing me again. But like you said, I will only get her back if things a shaky with her relationship with her ex again. However, I realize her ex will now try so much harder to treat her well since he worked so hard to get her back. For that reason, if I leave her alone, she will definitely forget and stay with him. I really do see your side of view. I do try not to call her but she still calls me at night before she goes to sleep. I just have the strength to ask her not to call me anymore b/c in a way, I still want her to. It is all I have of her in my life. I sound so damn pathetic. How can I let one girl do this to my emotions. I just can't bear the thought they will sleep together eventually. I would rather have 1000 people kick the living sh*t out of me than the feel this pain inside. Thank you slim shady for your advice, I will do it. Tylor
  25. LuckyDuck
    Dreng3333 I am not sure if she will break up with him. She broke up with him before maybe she did not know what she had. Now that she knows how much he loves since he still waited half a year for her while we dated. Mostly, he truly is a good person and that will make it even harder for her to leave him. I try to be supportive but I always end up asking her where they are at in the relationship and it drives her crazy but I still keep doing it. Is it a good idea to still talk to her and be supportive. She seems very determined to stay with him now everytime I talk to her. Now I can't get her to meet me to talk anymore. Dreng3333, I hope what you said will happen and that she would come back. Thank you for your input.
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