kandi13

yes its defiantly possible!!!! My ex wanted to be friends I loved him......so yes its possible.....but I had 2 be stubborn and only want him as a boyfriend I lost him in both ways, and im not gettin him back....

yes that is abuse drop the jerk to the curb, you cant let a guy touch u in n e way, and when he starts get out of that relationship quick, dont let a jerk like that touch you ever!!!! Once he starts it will neva end hun

omg U sould like your in the exact situation.....i met a guy I knew him 1 year....I had strong feelings and I donno how that could have been. I was confused.....my advice to you is you met him for a reason and even though you dont know what that reason is you soon will find out, fate got u guys 2gether and fate with do its part, I didnt know why i had such feelings for a guy I knew only a year but I did luv him and i still do...even though we dont talk anymore I know he is the one, so I donno what Im gettin to but let your feelings flow

Hey ok just be honest with him, just tell him you really like him, but see him only as a good friend. And That you just wanna be friends with him....say friendship last longer with you, and thats all u want from him....

Well I had a boyfriend and I met him last summer. Everything went ok for awhile. Intil we actually started to see each other. Then everything went into a up roar.....we ended breaking up, becuz he was moving....well he moved and we did stay friends I guess u can say. But all I did was beat up on him and be cocky to him. I didnt mean it, I mean I really did love him with all my heart. Well he gave me so many chances to change....so many. He told me that Im the only girl he let step all over him. Im so sorry about all of it really I am. Well now he wants nadda to do with me....I mean nothing and when he wants something he always gets it. He is like that hes so stubborn. He dont show any of his feelings. Thats what i hate bout him. Well now its been almost 2 weeks I didnt talk 2 him, and I know thats not long but I do miss him, and I still do have feelings for him, when he dont have anything 4 me except hate for everything I did to him. Well he lives there and I live here so plz dont give advice how to get him back, cuz really I want him happy and hes not happy when hes round me, so plz give advice how to move on......

I made this poem up for my ex....well I made it up awhile go...and I did mean everything I said......I lost him cuz I was a bit** to him...well tell me if you like: If you decide to leave me and say goodbye I want you to know that you were my one and only love. I loved you more then anything and I will always love you. So I just want you to know if tomorrow starts without you I will know you took a different path a different path that dont invovle me in your life. I know I may cry, i know i may be sad but all i ever wanted was your happiness and if to see you happy means forgetting bout me then Ill let it be, I know I put so much stress on your shoulders, I know I made you mad. I know I lied and went behind your back but trust me things didnt go as planned. I planned everything so differently...I planned it to be just u and me. I planned our future together just to see it go down and leave me on bended knees. I planned to lay in your arms and watch the sun set rise, and I planned to lay in the grass with you being by my side. Everything would be ok if I would have just kept my word but I had to act the way I did just to see you leave. Words couldnt explain what you meant to me, even if It could you wouldnt believe me, you wouldnt believe me becuz love shouldnt be this way. It shouldnt be about lies and it shouldnt be about backstabbing it shouldnt be about cryin all the time. But baby i did love you, you were my earth without you I couldnt live. You were my stars without you there wouldnt be a twinkle in my eyes, your my breath without you I wouldnt be able to breath. Your the guy who kept me warm without you id freeze. Your in everything I do without you Id be a nobody. You are the one who pushed me to do that extra mile without you I wouldnt be where I am right now. You were the one who taught me not to give up without you I would have given up along time ago. Your the reason im making up this poem right now without you I wouldnt be writing right now. your my inspritation without you I wouldnt be inspired. Your my angel without you I dont know what Id do. You were the one I looked up too without you I dont have anyone to look up too. Without you is like living without me but worse. Your my protection without you in like living a life be scared all the time. You were the one I always looked up to as a brother without you I prolly wouldnt be here right now Id be somewhere else doing some bad s*it. You were the one who taught me right from wrong if it wasnt for you I prolly would be in a mental hospital while doin drugs all together. You were the last guy ill let hold me the way you did. So if you leave me now I wont have an earth to live on, I wont have a twinkle in my eye, I wont be able to breath, Ill freeze, I will prolly be a nobody cuz you were my everything, I wont beable to do that extra mile, I will give up, I wont be able to make up poems, I wont be so inspired, I wont have an angel by myside, I wont look up to anyone, Ill be living a life of hell, I wont feel protected, Ill be scared all the time, I wont have a bro to look up too like I did you. I cant see starting a life without you now but anything to make you happy baby Ill be by you that extra mile. If you decide to leave me altogether Ill understand. But please dont forget me and all the memories. Even if we could start over there would be alot of starting over to do. But Id do anything to just prove to you what you meant to me. So Ill give you sometime to get your life together and sometime to get my act together too, but please just remember what ever you do just know im sorry

OMG!!! I am so happy I read your post!!! I am in the same situation and didnt think anyone acted like i did. I met this gut a year and a half ago. I was totally obsessed with him. He was all i thought about day night afternoon. Even when I slept I dreamed about him. I thought no one felt the same. we went out 3 times b4. Well he ended up moving an hour away. I was so devistated. I mean so devistated, I cried I couldnt eat or sleep. He moved like 8 months ago I guess it was. He was the only one I talked about and I gave up my life for him, just to see him leave. Long story. I guess you can say that im stupid. I had every thing anyone could wish for. He was mine, he would still be mine if I would have just treated him the way he should have been treated. I treated him bad why...I donno. Im only 14 the guy is 16. You may think im young and I dont know how it is but I really do. I prolly know as much as a 20 year old would. Well he isnt mine now, he did move, and he doesnt wanna be with me. IM not as obsessed as I use to cuz he did sum stuff to me, that at the time I thought I deserved all of it but in reality no one deserves what he gave me. But he also didnt deserve what i gave him, cuz he treated me like his lil princess. So be happy you 2 r friends I just lost him yesterday but na in reality I lost him a year and a half ago. I still luv him to death and I miss and crave for him. I miss cuddling with him and I miss kissing him. And somedays I just call his name out when im alone. U r not alone!!!! Trust me and if you need to talk feel free. IT took me a year and sum to get ova him a lil so time will only tell!! Ya know. well thanks 4 listening

My friend and I just talked to my ex boyfriend. He was acting kinda weird. He started to get cocky. Long story well in the past I was a b*tch to him. He gave me alot of chances to change. I neva did. Well now my friend kinda got cocky with him, and he flipped. Every lil things gets him ticked eva since I did all this to him hes edgy with bout everone now. He told me if I was a guy he would have knocked my head off and that if I keep gettin him stressed out hes gonna do something drastic something so bad Ill wanna put a lawsuit on him I donno what this means. Well at the end of the convo he told me and my best friend that he needs sometime and told us not to call or talk to him intil hes ready to talk and if we dont hear from him in 3 months we'll know why. I know what he meant if we dont hear from him then he moved on. What should I do, I know Ill end up missing him if he dont call and Ill be sad. I dont wanna be depressed again, awhile back I was so depressed becuz of him and I got ova it kinda and I dont want that to happen again. Plz help me thanks kandi

ok he is an ex boyfriend but I dont know if id call him a best friend were just friends and na the other person on the phone was my best friend her name is Kayla I know its confusing but ok my ex is kind of a best friend to me its like the show Lizzie Mcguire were all 3 friends but not as ya know violent lol and if he ever hit me in anyway me and my best friend Kayla wouldnt allow it we would kill him he knows not to hit us he'll be gettin something in return lol

ok sorry the person on the phone was my best friend. And na its weird, ok ummm....its not that he dont leave me alone, I wanted to talk to him and he wants me to change cuz I was a bi**h to him in the past but im sorry and im trying to change but whatever I do I try my best and he is in his lil world sayin im not tryin at all but I am.....

I was just on the phone with my ex, he was being unusal. He started to yell at me...He told me to get my f**king act together or im gone. He was yelling at me so loud, I started to cry my eyes out. Then he started to yell I mean yell at him 10 year old brother and his mother really loud I was terrified to death I told my other friend that was on the line that im hanging up. He came back and was breathing really loud. He told me that he dont want me back so i best stop thinking that, and that hes sick of me, when hes the one calling me all the time. Then he went starting yellin at his mother I felt terrible and at his bro. I was to scared to speak he came back on and hung up the phone. Im so scared right now Im shaking and crying plz give me advice.......thanks kandi

Ok na its not that he thinks im a toy or anything......He does the things he does is cuz well awhile back I treated him badly and thats also one of the reasons he broke it off he told me if I changed he'd reconsider me and I did and we went back out and i went back to my old ways so like u said bout the toy thing its not that its just hes actually afraid to get hurt and he has no trust in me....I cant just say Im sorry and that Ill change becuz I had to atleast say that 60 times in this past year and a half and he told me he doesnt wanna hear that he wants me to prove it.....how can i do that I dont mean to hurt him I love him but I donno its confusing help me plz

hey ok thanks but u may think thats easy but not with my ex he is so stubborn and doesnt show him feelings not one bit if he loves some one and they break up he moves on or makes it look like that and if I ask him he'll deny it all and say no then what

Na I didnt try counisiling I dont wanna I donno now hes actin as if he wants me back Ill just have to see

Hun, Hey I know exactly how you feel im probably the only one who knows how u feel in this situation but ex broke up with me and I missed him as a friend not as a boyfriend, and he never called me anymore and somedays I did pick up that phone and I did call him, and I wasnt being strong. I showed him he had me rapped round his finger. Its terrible. If he wants u back let him do da pleading girl. Dont run back to him!!!!! Let him call!!!! I dont call him anymore....but instead he calls me everyday now, cuz he knows im not gonna call, so dont call and see what happens.. best wishes

My ex and I have been goin out off and on this past year and a half. I want him back but he said he dont feel the same. The only reason he broke it off was cuz I didnt trust him and i treated him bad. He says other wise he'd still be mine. Well now he knows when we were together I got a turn on and loved when he wore black he was so good looking in black. It may not mean anything but now he says whenever he sees me hes gonna wear black....and said to me if he wears black will i go near him, Im like no hes like ( well he lives far away I dont see him) u gotta go near me or youll miss me more. He also knows I loved laying in his arms...and said to me just today that he can read my mind im like what am i thinkin hes like u miss me and not in those kind of friend ways the other ways, I could have cried....he gives me so much to hold on to him, but does he love me still ?¿??¿ Help me Kandi

ok sure srry. Ok I hit him, and I yelled at him....and I donno why i did all of it cuz I really do luv him pla help me and give me advice how to change

My advice is to get over it

u should just go 4 it and ask

I went out with this kid 3 times, and he broke up with me cuz I was a total bi**h to him......he gave me so many times to change and I took it for advantage....so hes givin me 1 more chance to change my ways or im gone....how do I change my ways??? Becuz if I eva lost him i donno what id do

I wnet out with this guy a few times and i was a bitch to him, all I did was hurt him. She said if i dont get my act together Im gone.....were done being friends.......What should I do???

Ok My boyfirend broke up with me so i had a major problem, i thought about sucide. I cut my wrists.....When i was sad mad upset id go in my room and slice. Its not right and its not healthy to be thinking about sucide. Tell your parents!!! I told them when i was mad at them, and they believed me cuz i had cuts on my arms, but with you they might think your tryin to hurt them, so go to a grown up or talk to someone, a counisler ext. but please talk to someone im here to talk email removed email me sometime just please dont hurt yourself

I need help. I met this guy over the summer, and we started out as friends. Then we went out. I loved him so much I could have wrote a million page book explaining how much he meant to me and he still wouldnt have a glimpse of how much he really did. He was the best to me, but I screwed up with him. He was moving, and I was so sad. I couldnt eat sleep nothing. He ended up dumping me. I was heartbroken. We started to fight so much, and i usually started it. Well he moved, and we went out again. This time it didnt feel real i dont know if it was becuz I hardly saw him, or if he didnt love me like he use to. So he ended up breaking up with me again, and said to me lets be friends. Why was he doing this.... I finally found out why. I was in my lil world, I treated him so bad. It was horrible, I hurt him so much. He didnt wanna be friends no more, I was such a bit*h to him. Somedays he would go in his room and lock himself up in there upset becuz of me. He really did luv me. I told him I changed, and he gave me another chance to prove I did, well a few weeks pasted and we didnt fight....so he asked me out. I said yes and it went so great for 3 weeks. But he dumped me again. I didnt know why, i treated him so good.....then i found out why.....i didnt trust him....I asked him all these questions like if he loved me and if he was playin me....so he broke it off.....then we started to fight, and he ended up hating me.....I got him abck as a friend but hes givin me 1 more chance to prove i changed and that Im not a bitch...I dont mean to be a bitch it just happens please if anyone has advice help me out cuz if I lose him again Im afraid what ill do thanks Kandi

I know how you feel...I was with my ex 3 times before, and I loved him. But I didnt treat him right at all. I hit him, I yelled, and I just plain out hurt him alot. But I did love him so much. People said that wasnt love, cuz i was such a bit*h to him. He was nice enough to take me back 3 times, we lost our friendship becuz I was a bit*h so many times. He wanted nuttin to do with me. But I got him back...as a friend and thats all for right now. I donno why i hurt him so much.....I loved him more then anything in this whole world....Hes giving me 1 more to change......so my advice to you is try to keep your temper in, and show him how much u love him

I was in a long distance relationship, and it does last for some ppl. But with me it didnt cuz I had no trust in him. But if u talk to him and have trust it all should work out. But please take my advice if u luv him trust him, I should have trusted him more and now I realize it but I lost him.......