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  1. You have nothing to worry about. I have a friend that is 30 and she just got married. She is Tomboy just like you. She had the same fear as you but the truth is if you dont want to be that you will do anything for that not to happen. Dont change yourself. Being a Tom Boy is not a bad thing plus if you change into a tipical girl you wont be happy. You are unique and you will find that man that loves you for who you are someday. Just because you dont date as often as some of your friends dosent mean you are going to end up alone. My advise to you is try hanging out in new places. Try new things. You might find that special someone there. Just remember to be yourself!!!
  2. Size dosent matter as long as you know how to use it.
  3. Is there anyway to disconnect yourself from your parents fighting all the time? Since my mom cheated on my dad all I have heard for 5 years is fighting. Today we are celebrating my Dads birthday as a family so all my sisters and brother are coming over. I have a feeling I am going to blow up. I cant stand watching my mom hurt my dad like this anymore. Why wont he just kick her out? she flat out tells him that she dosent love him. She is like a leech and just takes and takes but just ends up hurting. I love both my parents very much but I just cant stand watching them fight anymore. I want them to be happy. I think the only way they will be is if they split.
  4. He is 22 I am 20........We have been very close for a year now. We talk everyday about everything. we both recently broke up with our ex's. The thing that is complicated is that He is the best friend of my Ex.
  5. Babes

    Change?

    Do you think it is better to be happy with who you are and be all alone or change to be the person that your loved ones want you to be?
  6. Do you think it is wrong to have a friend with benfits?
  7. I am not going to get my hopes up that in a few years I could be friends with my ex. I dont think its smart to hold on that long. well at least not for me. I think it could work if the person moves on then in a couple of years you meet you are in a new place in life. You both have grown and learned more. Yes then maybe you could be friends but its not worth getting your hopes up to get shot back down. Well at least not for me.
  8. Goldie I know exacty how you feel. I am going to warn you though. I have been waiting for 6 months. I am pretty sure that he is not coming back. I know this is the last you want to hear because it was the last thing I wanted to hear but you need to be strong. You need to try to heal. Apart of you will always love him. He seemed like a special guy in your life. He will always be apart of you! Just be glad that he was in your life at all
  9. well since the other girl has a BF I think it would be better to go with the other girl because you dont want to be the reason. She cheats on her BF. Go for the girl you snooged.
  10. Just be honest. I find when breaking up the best thing to do is to be honest. Tell him that you feel like his sex toy. Tell him that you dont feel he cares about you as a person anymore. It seems all one sided that you are working to keep what you have but its not working anymore. It has to be 2 sided for a relationship to work. Get out of it, You will be a happier person.
  11. I keep loseing all the people I get close to because of the way I live. Yes, I will agree sometimes I make mistakes. Generally I am ok with my actions. All my friends think I am too different or that I dont connect with anyone. Why should I change to much if I like who I am becoming? I have somethings I would like to change but even if I changed them I really dont think things would change that much with people not wanting to be around me. I dont think I am a bad person but maybe I am and I just dont realize it? I guess I have alot of thinking to do
  12. Do you ever feel like you missed the love train? You feel like you are bound to be alone forever. Never to feel the warmth of another. I hate it when I get to the station late. Hopefully another Train comes along *hopefull*
  13. Happens to me at least twice a month. I met a wonderful guy and he is taken. I hate it. I believe that all the great men in the world are either taken or live half way accross the world. GRRRRRRRRRRR
  14. I use to get mine waxed but I cant afford that anymore. So I started shaving but it iches like hell when it comes back in so now I trim. I keep it as short as I can. Hope that helps
  15. I dont know if there is any really easy way of telling your mother that you are going to have a child. Just make sure you have the answers to the questions she might ask you like....Are you going to marry her? Is she keeping the baby? Stuff like that. I would just be honest with her its the only thing you can really do Good Luck
  16. I have only done it once. I must tell you it was the weirdest thing to ever happen to me. I was watching a movie and they started having sex I was already so horny that I was so turned on I came.
  17. Going all the way is a HOME RUN!!!! 1st~ Kissing 2nd~ Making Out 3rd ~Oral sex Fingering/Hand jobs Home Run~ Sex
  18. I would try Frenching her first before you make out. Then frenching can lead up to it easier
  19. Dont you ever worry that the older one will find you childish after awhile. I mean because you are still young and want to live things and they have proably all ready lived it. My family always seems to point that out about my Aunt and Uncle. They are 14 years appart she is older. They are more in love then any of my other aunts and uncles that are in there late 50's. well I guess she is in her 60's.
  20. How many years between lovers is too many? I personally dont think Age matters when it comes to love. Nothing can stop true love so if it is ment to be then nothing can get in the way.
  21. Have you frenched? that could start something
  22. Do you ever get under the sheets at night and wish someone was under there with you. so you could cuddle up next to them. Listen to there breath as they fall asleep. Watch how peaceful they look as they sleep. Everytime you wake up it was the best sleep you have ever had because the person you love is laying right next to you. I could use a buddy nap!
  23. In my Psyic Class in College we did a whole unit on Bisexual. Women are more likely to swing both ways. Men are more stuborn then woman. Plus woman always want to build up self esteem so they notice the little things that another woman does to give her that strangth. Personally I dont think its a bad thing to like both sexs. I would rather have a man though but I can be turned on by woman at times
  24. Ok I know this is going to sound weird but it always works for me Jump up and down on one leg and bang your good ear with your hand with your bad ear toward the floor do this for like a minute usually you will feel it move around It always works for me. I know it sounds weird but it always works
  25. I am in the same boat but I lost mine 6 months ago and I didnt cheat on him. I thought he was the one. I was sure he would be my husband. Now I am laying in my bed crying 6 months later because I am all alone. So I would love this advise too. I am pretty sure my Ex hates me.
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