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I'm going through something right now that I think everyone has, or will, go through in their life. It involves love, relationships, and getting back together. Let me share my situation: After three and a half years apart, I'm currently trying to establish a friendship with my ex. So far, it's not going as smoothly as I would like, since I only have her email. Things were going good for a while, and she seemed interested in getting together for drinks or something, she said she was looking forward to seeing me. Anyway, I'm not so sure that, even though you may want to try a friendship with somebody and just see where it goes, you can ever get back into someone's life after an extended period of time. It seems like our lives have evolved along different paths, and she has her own busy life to deal with without worrying about me. What do you guys think? Can friendship, or something more, come back after so long apart?

So I started exchanging emails with my ex-girlfriend a couple of weeks ago (we go to college in different cities, but i will be interning where she is starting in just a few days). All was going well until one week ago. I sent her a friendly email saying hi and asking how people were doing. It's been one week and she hasn't replied yet. Anybody know what this means or what i should do? I was hoping to see her, she had shown interest in seeing me too, do this change that? Help!

Five years ago in high school I dated the most amazing girl. She is truly the only person I have ever fallen head over heals for. We dated for a year and a half, and then broke up because we both needed time to grow. We have both gone on, dated other people and grown in our lives. I got in touch with her about a year ago and we talked over email and im for six months (we go to college in different cities), and suddenly just stopped talking. The other week, we got in touch with each other again and have shared a couple of emails, and my feelings for her are starting to come out again! I will be in the same city as her in a week for a college internship, and would like to see what happens between us. Any advice on how I should go about it? If I don't find out if she has feelings too, I'll always be wondering 'what if'. I need some advice...