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As southerngirl so rightly stated: dont be influenced by your friends. If you're both committed and enthusiastic about keeping the relationship alive, I dont see there should be any problems big enough to make you end it. Nevertheless, there will be inevitable niggles. Such as the frustration of not being able to see each other. But use it to your advantage! Plan out the day you meet again - make it memorable and amazing...look forward to it! Good luck! x

Well said Tigris. Angel, you've made it very clear to us that you're devoted, and plan to spend the future with this girl. Please, please think this over. Could you be with someone who quite possibly wants someone else? You deserve someone who loves you and you only.

So you mean your current gf still loves your ex? You've lost me.

My boyfriend detests the idea. Perhaps because his mother is a lesbian? Lol.

My thoughts go out to her family & friends, and all who knew of her on this forum. And equally, those who didnt have the opportunity. x

Forget the whole idea of self harm for now. You mentioned your cyber-sis...surely she'd rather know how you're feeling than find out that you've hurt yourself? I'd say its a pretty wise idea to turn to her. Your intial thought is that people will be disgusted and abandon you, but more often than not, its the total opposite. Please consider letting her know. x

Last kiss was about an hour ago, with what he calls a 'Numpty kiss'. Once on the nose, to the forehead, back to the nose, accross to the left cheek, kiss on the nose, kiss on the nose, and down to a cute kiss on the lips. Makes me go all goosey. and he's been playing Godfather on his PC ever since. haha.

Purely punishment. I was giving myself what I deserved and was getting verbally and emotionally from other people. Waking up in the morning felt good. Wounds were sore, but you knew the pain hadnt gone inside. So it fuelled another session. I dont do it anymore, and I'm not trying to give people considering it the wrong impression. But I'm not ashamed.

Closed is preferable. but then again, my boyfriend and I are fond of the occasional "gazing" into each others eyes during a slow, sensual kiss. It, scarily enough, turns us both on. You can really tell how they're feeling through looking into their eyes at a time like that. Meh, just us I guess.

We've sorted it now. You can stop deleting our posts Funny enough, both of us ARE trying to help the boy. Its not flaming.

Gunning is perfectly fine for lobes...with cartilage it is vital a needle is used to prevent collapsing of the ear. If your piercing studio does not use disposable guns, and re-uses them instead, they should not have a licensce.

In a way, you're not wrong, craign. We're not encouraging him, however. There ARE safe ways if you do not have a problem with self control. I, for one, didnt, and have never seen a hospital or shockingly enough, a coffin. I have no scars. The kid will go against what we say no matter whether we try to deterr him. I'd like him to reconsider as much as the next person, but we just have to hope (and that is ALL that we can do) that he realises it is not a way out. Lets just keep the victim safe for now.

I dont believe in telling people not to do so, because if one's mind is intent, it can be done without significant harm. Skittle posted a number of alternatives, and is right in saying that around the hip area is very dicreet unless you're in an intimate relationship and your partner is unaware. Assuming you're considering superficial cutting and scratching, the top of the legs are also a safe place. HOWEVER, remember, if you're going to, BE SAFE. Infection is a nasty consequence and more often than not leads to more scarring than you'd care for. Sterilise your object, and preferably choose one which is reasonably sharp - its a quicker, more intense pain with minimum scarring (I believe). Think about stuff. And take care x

My boyfriend was diagnosed with Bipolar at 12/13. You have signs of it, but its best to share your concerns with a professional before worrying yourself. Hope it goes well for you x

No they're not comfy. They're appealing to the other half, but I dont really find them attractive. ;] I only wear them as dress up. Not every day wear. I love french knickers xx

Clitoral stimulation is the only way i can come. And I truly believe its pretty much ALL to do with the clit.

I get mood swings like that. *hugs* The delay in protection is, however, cause for concern. If you're very worried and physically feel like there's something wrong, go get checked out. Best be safe than sorry. Good luck x