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  1. alyssajones
    I am going crazy...it's been months and this still bothers me. After a couple weeks of me being angry and crying, he told me he threw out photos of her that he had. He knew exactly where they were and brought them with him when he moved. He brought his feeling for her with him when we decided to buy our home together. Right after this all blew up, he told me he does not care for her anymore, even though I know full well you don't still have feelings for someone one day and turn it off the next. When it happened I asked him to do whatever he needed to gain closure. He wouldn't. All he's doing is trying to wait things out. As if I'll just get over the hurt. That is not to say he doesn't care about me. He takes care of me and other than this, we actually have very good interactions. Today he tells me he loves only me. I just don't trust him. I want to work this out. We want to get married and move on, but this is the one thing holding me back. He doesn't know what to do to make it better, I don't know what either but something has to be done. I hate feeling this way!
  2. alyssajones
    Take a note with you next week. If there are other customers in the store, leave it with her to read later. Keep the note simple, maybe just mention that you think she's interesting and maybe she'd like to hang out or go for a coffee, just to chat leave your number and cross your fingers
  3. alyssajones
    Is she talking about being torn outside, ie: the thin skin at the opening, on the side closest to her anus? If that is the case, just make sure she is well lubricated, and go slowly if you are penetrating her. I still get torn every once in a while still, I asked my doctor about it and she gave me the same advice. The human body was built to pass a child, if you choose to have intercourse her body will be able to handle it as well. Good luck and have fun!
  4. alyssajones
    When you confronted him, did you mention how the most recent e-mail was dated during this week? How did he explain that?
  5. alyssajones
    I would just reply back a simple "no" as well.
  6. alyssajones
    I agree with Momene - keep yourself busy. Working yourself up over it will not change her going to Europe, and it certainly isn't doing any good for you. Stress does terrible things to people, not just emotionally but physically as well. Find a project to work on, look for a local community course to take, do something with friends, etc. Keep busy
  7. alyssajones
    I think in general (whether they want to admit it or not), women LOVE attention. Sometimes their actions are geared towards getting attention, even if it's not always the best way to go about it.
  8. alyssajones
    I think you would highly benefit from getting your own life in order first, before you seek to share it with another, especially someone who is as unstable he seems. Good luck and best wishes on your journey!
  9. alyssajones
    It's clear that you care about her as a person. Talk to her. Just make sure your words don't come out accusational, simply discuss the situation and let her know you care She's lucky to have someone that does!
  10. alyssajones
    LDRs take a lot of work. I have been in 2 myself that each lasted about 4 years. I would say because you have not been together very long, compounded by the fact that you have feelings for, and have slept with someone else already, that you should not string your LD-boyfriend along, and just let him know that it's not going to work out for you. I would spare him the details of sleeping with someone else though. If you did need to reveal anything you could say you are finding you have feelings for someone else, and that this situation (being in an LDR) is not working for you.
  11. alyssajones
    It sounds like you love your current boyfriend, and that things are going well. I would class your current feelings for your ex as lust, as you are overlooking the reasons why he is your ex in the first place! Do what your heart tells you is right. Is it worth the risk of losing what you have now?
  12. alyssajones
    Try looking up depersonalization or derealization (DP/DR). If that is not it perhaps it will help point you in the right direction.
  13. alyssajones
    Sounds like she's going to learn some lessons about life the hard way. And unfortunately her boyfriend is going to get caught up in it as well. The only thing I could suggest is to talk to her, try to stay on a neutral basis, show her you care about her well being, and she'll have to make her own decisions based on that.
  14. alyssajones
    Trust is paramount. Especially in a Long Distance situation. Where do you see your relationship going with her in the future? Does she feel the same way? Talk about it, see if you are heading towards the same goals. LDR take a lot of investment from both parties, (I did it twice for a couple years each), and you want to make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Hoping the best for you!
  15. alyssajones
    Of course it is the weekend now, so how did things go? Did you end up seeing him mid-week or just wait it out until the weekend? If he didn't care about you, he wouldn't drive all that way to see you all the time. Remember that
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