Acivic2001

I know I know.....It looks bad but I had let me friend use my name to post something...But I dont even know what to think...I know I should just stop talking to her but if she isnt happy in the relationship then I kinda feel like I should be there for her. Another thing is I live 400 miles away from her so I know there wouldnt be any type of relationship other than a friendship with i guess I few bonus features? I just feel bad for contributin to the demise of their relationship but if it is already on the rocks then I kinda see as why not?

Good morning Everyone, So I have known this girl now for a little over a year. We have been friends and have been off and on talking. Her boyfriend doesnt like when we talk and neither did my ex girlfriend. So we never really talked. Well recently I broke up with my girlfriend so I decided to give my old friend a call and see how everything was going with her. It was really weird because I went over to her house and everything was normal. We started drinking a little bit and next thing we know we are cuddling and as the night goes on we end up kissing and messing around a little bit. Nothing to extreme. No sex or oral..Just lots of me rubbin her and kissin...So I left her house in the morning and we decided that it was only like that because we were drunk...So next thing I know I am at her house for the next few nights and were doing the same thing...gettin drunk and rubbing and touching. So the last night i was there it went a little further and I fingered her. It felt kinda akward between us because we never thought anything would happen between us. So anyways....lately its been like we are texting eachother and we cant keep our minds off eachother. She has a boyfriend that she has been with for about a 1 1/2 years. She is constantly texting me saying she misses me, wants to be with me, always the xoxo at the end of the message...stuff like that. She has been telling me that she has been acting different in front of her boyfriend and cant keep me off her mind. I dont know if I should be a good person and stop talking to her because I dont want to ruin their relationship. Or should I follow my gut and keep seeing her and let her do the thinking of what she wants to do. Whether she wants to break it off with him or if she realizes its better that she stop talking to me. What do you guys think? I really care about this girl....and I wouldnt want to ruin our friendship

Ok well I stopped talking to her last saturday...She called 50 times last sunday and 20 on monday....I gave in on tuesday and now I cant seem to get myself away from talking to her. I know it sounds bad but I love seeing her call and me not answering....I know it hurts her and I am glad she is hurting as much as I do...Is it going to be harder getting over her if she keeps calling? Should I just change my number and hope that since I dont see her calling that, it should be able to keep my mind off her?

If I am trying to go with the No Contact do you think it is best if I change my cell phone number? I really dont want to talk to her but I cant resist when I see her call 40 times in a row crying on my voice mail. As you probably seen from one of my old posts. She cheated on me and bla bla bla. Do you think it is easier if I just change my number?

Hey just wanted to let you guys know that I called the guy who she was cheating on me with and admitted it happened more than what she says. I told her to leave and to never call me again. Good choice? best way about this is to do the N/c?

Dont Do It. Its Hurts Being Cheated On

I think she was a little bit on the rebound. Its just like we went through soo much in our relationship . between her getting pregnant and losing the baby and some of the other things we have gone through. I feel we have a really deep bond. I just kinda feel an * * * becasue she was lying to me for the last two weeks about who she was with. How do you suppose I bring it up with her on what she should do with her. I obviously dont want her to see him anymore and she says she wont. what more can I ask from her? what would you guys do?

it was my first time being cheated on and it hurts. Whats a good way to get past this feeling or make it not hurt so bad.

Hey Guys, I really need some advice on what to do. It would be great to know how a female reacts. Anyways. I have been with my girlfriend for 11 months now. I recently moved about 400 miles away from her. Anyways one night she decided to go out and party with her ex and her sister and some other guy. She promised nothing would happen with her ex but I still felt really uncomfortable about it and kept asking her to go home. Anyways The next morning, she woke up and called me and told me that she had only kissed him. I said whatever but I still felt there was more to the story. Well this last weekend we did something we do once in a while. We took some E. I kept pestering her about what else happened that night and she broke down and started crying sayin she had sex with him. I was very heart broken and I didnt know what to do. It takes a lot to be sad on E. let me tell ya. Well anyways she also admitted that she had been seeing him but says she had only been kissing him and nothing more. I know she feels horrible but should I worry about this happening again? I can tell she is really upset with herself. She says it was hard for her to resist because when she see's him, her feelings come back. She promises she wont see him anymore. Should I give her a second chance or just move on. Please someone help

Hi Everyone, This is my first time posting on a board so I am hoping to get good information from everyone. Ok so basically I just moved down to southern california and my girlfriend lives in northern california. We have been together for the past 10 months and everything has been going good until I moved down south. When I moved down to southern california she would come and visit me all the time for like 2 week periods. Well anyways. I was up north for my girlfriends birthday. She just turned 18. We partied all weekend and we had so much fun. but when it was time to leave to go home she decided that she wanted to go out the night that I was leaving. I was ok with it until I found out that she was going out to party with her ex and a few other friends. I asked her to please not go but she didnt really cared how I felt. i had a bad feeling about it. Well anyways as the night went on she promised she wouldnt be drinking because she knows she gets a little wild when she does. Well I guess what happened they went to a party and they left to go get a hotel room with her sister, her ex and one of his friends. In the middle of the night I guess her ex boyfriend leaned over and said he couldnt resist. He kissed her. Everyone swears up and down that it was only a kiss and led to no where. She told me the truth first thing in the morning. I feel like my stomach is ripping out of me. She had a pass with cheating with her ex's but for some reason i thought she quit it and grew up a little bit. We have gone through a lot in our relationship and dont know what I should do. She begs for us to be together and says she wants to be with me forever. Should I let a kiss break us up or should I just cut my losses and let it burn for a while? Please let me know I am very confused on what I should do.