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This guy is not normal! I've had many GF's do that and it's total heaven to wake up to such treatment. It's also nice when the guy does it for the girl if he's awake before her.

A girl I dated a long time ago said it the best, "I have no problem with a threesome as long as you and another guy go at it also" Umm, I was instantly cured!

You must learn to walk before you can run! Umm, this WILL take care of the shyness, you ask the 1st girl you see about the place and it won't be overwhelming for you because you won't be asking for a date!!! Do this often and you will get used to talking to strange women. Do you even go out to clubs/bars and try to talk to people? Friends?

Stand up straight, walk normal w/ chest out, walk up to the 1st girl you see and ask her directions to bar/club/resturant? then keep the conversation going and ask of they know what the place is like, have they been there etc. That's as easy as it gets so just go try doing it.

lol, well, even ugly people can get dates! Be positive and look up a dance studio near you and go check it out and find one that has lots of girls in your age group. Your shyness will be accepted as just being afraid to dance because you're new. Women love guys that can actually dance.

Have you ever seen any girls looking at you and smile? then you're fine. Is that your real pic? you're fine. Start taking "group" partner dance lessons like Swing, Salsa or Tango. It's actually the biggest singles meeting place of all time. Swing can be danced to any music/beat so it's a better dance to learn especially if it's Lindy Hop (avg. to fast music) or West Coast swing(slow to avg. nusic). Salsa and Tango need latin music. Even someone with 2 left feet can be taught to dance properly and all ages take lessons! You will get to be in close proximity to women on an even playing field (it's just dance classes) and be able to lose your shyness at the same time from repeted close contact with the girls. BTW, relationships happen all the time there. Once you're known as someone who's trying to learn, those same girls are very eager and usually aggressive, to help new people and will literally find you and "drag you up on a dance floor" in a club. .

Strawberries and cream is fun when you put a dab of cream to hold the berry. sucking flavored alcohol (if over 21) shots out of the navel while you lay on your back is fun also. FYI, It stings on the nether regions.... Licking chocolate syrup (squeeze bottle, not can) "roadmaps" off ea. others body is fun! use drops, not lines. less calories to burn off...

>It is unrealistic to think there is "someone special for you". Actually, the first person should to be somewhat special or there won't be enough of a connection to be comfortable enough to let it happen. >Then just go for who the heck you feel like, and don't associate it with long term love or a good relationship, which are different things. I have 4 women that still smile wide when they see me because I was their first. My ex wife was basically forced into it her first time (not me) and It took a while to help her w/ that baggage that carried over because of it. >See sex as a recreational pastime and a nice extra bond in a good relationship. yep, it can be as long as there's no baggage or fears...

There is a flip side to this debate, womens size, Kegels work if nobody is ever big enough for you. I've been w/ women who had 3-4 kids natural birth and were very fitting and on the flip side, women w/ no kids who were like caverns and I'm not small.... Kegels are the easiest way to cure the problem if you need it and you can still do them even if you don't need them.

It's better to be in love when you decide to do it, especially at your age. Don't let peer pressure make you do it. You will remember your first time all of your life and you don't want it to be a bad memory.

I dated a few girls who orgasam'ed like screaming banshee's when I pushed all the way in hard then kept flexing myself inside her while holding tight in that position. It's best if the guys full weight is on the pelvis area for good G-Spot contact. as always, YOMV.... (your orgasm's may vary)

A blanket and a secluded spot along w/ a lot of fooling around first would be less stressful on both of you and don't rush it, let it happen naturally in it's own time. get some CONDOMS dammit or you will be another teenage pregnancy statistic!!

Interesting question! BTW, I love your sig. "Dear god: I have a problem. It's me."

1, I don't judge, but I do try and give objective advice coming from my education, IQ and real life experiences with counseling people. 2, Your the one that actually does the judging. Read your own posts since "nobody is good enough for you" and "none of your friends are any good". FWIW, If you were dating from age 18 and only had 4 BF's/dates a yr that would make 72 guys who weren't good enough. The odds aren't right.... Ken, p.s. "never judge a book by it's cover" is way older than Trump....

Just remember these translations if you decide to get married; Words Women Use FINE This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up . Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments. FIVE MINUTES This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade. NOTHING This means "something", and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. 'Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with 'Fine' GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows) This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine" GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows) This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off. LOUD SIGH This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing" SOFT SIGH Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content. THAT'S OKAY This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow". GO AHEAD At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble. PLEASE DO This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay" THANKS A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you're welcome. THANKS A LOT This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing"

Are you trying to say you were a SuperBiatch or a "Better than anyone else" type in school? if so, lots of people were. People get over most things, unless there are actual scars involved....

The type of grammar and sentence structure you use in everyday life has a lot to do with how you are accepted and treated by "most people" and most importantly the type of people who you can actually attract and will want to associate with you. That was the reason for the question. How do people abuse you and treat you like sh.t? What do you do to cause it?

As an older man (I'm 52) who has had up to 17 yrs. younger in age diff. for GF's and ex-wife, I have always looked much younger than I am and they chased me. I also have a very high IQ w/ tons of common sense and am very down to earth as added incentives and that works for most women. Without knowing what either of you look like (could be the main attraction) I would ask who chased who at first? He chased a 15 yr old? A Pedophile comes to mind. You chased him? the missing Father figure? LTR/marriage is about being more friends than lovers since you need to get along in daily life and the "honeymoon period" only lasts a max of 3.5 yrs.. Spicing up the love life w/ role play or sexy costumes works well. My ex wife used to put on a baby doll or a short silk robe when she wasn't getting enough attention (I'm not dumb, it was intentional on my part lol).

Do you have any older female relatives you can talk to about it? Cool Aunts can be more sexual and full of advice than you think they are. I would suggest that you also get a book on "adolescent sexuality".

"Lovemaking" strenghtens a relationship, not to be confused w/ "sex" which is usually animal in nature. There's a big difference in the terminology! Sex = getting "your" rocks off, basically uncaring about the other person. Lovemaking = "your partners" satisfaction is more important!

they must be heavily scented w/ "real" oils of Jasmine, Ylang Ylang, rose, ginger or Patchouli and a few others work great for women. Another info source; Female Sexual Enhancers, Reviewed 2006 link removed

read this page about Aphrodisiac Aromatherapy, it works. Thats why women love scented candles and Potpourri link removed

1st, Is english a 2nd language for you? 2nd, you should lose the "oh poor me" attitude, you are what your environment is and the only way to get a circle of friends is to go out and find some. People won't search you out, you need to do the work.

the Oral always works w/ guys (and most girls) Umm, it isn't "rape" w/ consent lol BUT it is a lot of fun Think of 5+ fantisies guys like and write them down on paper, fold them up and let him pick one and have a go at it. he should also do the same for you at a later date