Kamue

ya know, the feeling of having to pee when youre getting vaginally stimulated is usually a sign that youre going to have a vaginal or possibly a g-spot orgasm. if you haveta pee in the middle of sex, thats a sign of an incoming orgasm. also, its not like youre having sex with the same orifice as the one a girl pees out of. and pee is steril. its only not when it hits the air. so dont worry so much!!

honestly, i dont care if my boy wants to kiss me after he went down on me.

oh wow, good point. well, all your points were good.

phew! thank you! i was kinda getting weirded out by that heheh

okay, so this is kinda weird but im curious if anyone knows the answer. every time i give head to a boy, and he cums in my mouth, my mouth and tongue get all tingly. like really tingly. is it maybe an allergic reaction or something? anyway, i was wondering if anyone knows why this happeneds, or if anyone has expirienced it themselves. thanks

i can understand where youre coming from. it alwyas bothered me when me and my boy had homework, but i would get mine done earlier so we could hang out. but he always said he had a lot, but just wasted his time wating tv or playing video games, so when i WAS there, hed be busy. i know its not completely the same, but i understand. youre not a jerk though. it sucks when you get your hopes up and then something changes. dont be to hard on yourself. he does sound great though, im glad things worked out!

it also sounds like she wants your attention so thats why she is going to drastic means. if she were over you or anything, she wouldn't be so angry right now. i think she is very hung up on you still and wants you to pay more attention to her.

being a female, i jump for joy whenever someone calls me. i really love when a good friend of mine calls me out of the blue, so i wouldnt worry about randomly calling her. i mean, even if she is busy, she'll get the hint that you want to talk to her more. i hope this goes well for you!

yeah, i started drinking diet soda for a while and i dont remember having any infections (or bad ones atleast) during that time. hmm... maybe i should do that again.

im not on the pill currently. but i do drink a loooot of soda... oi. i didnt know that the pill caused that, it would explain a lot a couple years ago

maybe i should try that diflucan regiment and the cranberry pill. yeah, im pretty much getting sick of this, and by pretty much i mean i am severly sick of this. but i bet those would work if i tried them!

thank you!! yeah, i think im gonna go to my gyn and be like 'fix this' and ask her if she thinks what you everyone said would help me or if i should do more then that. nonetheless, thanks everyone, this definatly helped!

my doctors and gyns (and i mean plural, hehe) have told me to use the tampon method. i get way worser infections if i use monistat and that kind of stuff because it destroys everything pretty much. diflucan works a lot too though, so i should probably go to the gyn, heheh. i'll do that anti fungal thing too, thanks one of my friends also said i may have an immune problem because i get them all the time. i'll go check that out!!

im currently on the antibiotic amoxicillin for a bladder infection. because i have such sentive everything, i get yeast infections from any cillins. i eat lots of live bacteria yogurt to help and it does, but i also make a frozen yogurt tampons (ew, i know, but it REALLY works) to help cure the infection. i was just wondering if anyone knew if you can put to much yogurt in the vagina? danke!

my dad had cancer a while back, and it destroyed my whole summer. i wasnt allowed to see him either cause i had a throat problem. but i called him all the time. and it made both of us feel better. what im saying is, just keep in touch with him, even if its just a short hello and an i love. its hard when someone you love is ill, just take comfort in the fact that you love him and he loves you just as much. i hope things work out and i'll pray for you and yours. many hugs and happiness

Hunny, is there nothing you feel you can live for? No friends or family? a pet even? I mean, even living for yourself is a good idea. You sound like you're concerned for yourself, considering you want to go painfully and quickly. Sometimes its the smallest things that can make life a bit more bright. I hope things work out for you. You dont deserve to die.

so i have been best friends with this boy for a few years now. we had a bit of a thing going for a while, it was kinda intense, a little more than i realized and it lasted for about a year and a half. in that time i met another boy and we clicked really well. but stupidly and without really thinking (and very much regretably) i told boy 1 that i wanted to date boy 2 when infact i was making a hastey decision. well, boy 1 tweaked and confessed he was doing his ex girlfriend for the last year and a half and blah blah blah. he also said (and has said before many times) that he is in love with me. and truelly, i have VERY VERY VERY VERY strong feelings for him. him and i fought horribly for a long time. but now it seems things are going back to the way they were. the thing is though, boy 1 and i hang out a lot, and everything is wonderful; we dont argue or get mad at eachother. we can just chill and love eachother like we always did. but for some reason, every time im not around, for even a day, he gets kinda distant and cold towards me. he becomes more sarcastic and is short tempered with me. and then he questions why and if i love him. and then even though things are going swimingly, later on, if we havent seen eachother in a bit, he says that everything wasnt going well and that things arent getting better, when clearly, they were. i dont understand what to do about this. i want to be his best friend and i want him to want me the same, and i know he does, but its like, he seems to push me away when i cant be near him. someone help, i dont know how to act around this kid, i cant tell if hes purpously ignoring me now, or if hes just going through a phase. if you need more information, i can give you some. argh...

thanks for the input!! the thing is, is ive known these two boys for a while and before i met one of them, i was kinda dating the other one. but then that fell apart a bit because of this girl manipulating him and in turn hurting me. nonetheless, the second boy i was considering dating, but he and i decided just to be friends instead. the thing is, is i dont like dating people because i am really independent. last time i dated someone, i didnt feel like myself. oh and, i am being regularly checked and they are two. but neither of them (currently) have any other partners besides me, they have before and i knew the two girls that one of them was doing stuff with and i knew the other girl the otherone was sleeping with. but still, its confusing, i think you all may be right; maybe i should just stop sleeping with them. but i still know im going to get jealous anyway, but i suppose thats inevitable. but even if i did stop sleeping with them, im still going to be attracted to them... im so confused, but thanks for the help!!

so heres the scoop: im not dating anyone, but i am sexually involved with two of my male friends. and though im not dating any of them, i still get seriously jealous when i here about how they have had intercourse with other girls, or that they want to. my question is, how do i cope with that? is there any ways i can stop caring so much about thier sex lives so i can continue a good friendship with them? danke!!

i have similar things happen to me. sometimes i can detatch myself so much, i feel like im just watching things around me, that im not even there. i think i do that when im in situations that bother me or confuse me or provoke any other negative feelings. the fact is, you realize what your mind is doing. because you know this, you can help yourself in a positive way. registered is right, your mind wanders if you have nothing the really focus on. i wouldnt worry though, it should fade past. just stay relaxed and maybe take up an interesting hobby!

i find most people smoke pot because its an escape. its kind of a relaxing thing because i know for a lot of people, their mind is constantly running and working and one can never have a clear head and it seems pot can help clear it for a while. and as for your mom, maybe she really doesnt care. she was young, she probably did it too and she knows you well, id expect, so she probably trusts that getting high isnt gonna infringe on your life.

I think thats a fabulous idea. However, I don't really use my LJ anymore because I have a website which i post my life on. I'll be happy to share it if anyone's interested, but its easy to get bored of it. But maybe I'll get more insentive to play on my LJ if i know people are actually reading it lol

i know that this is a bit of a late post, but i just wanted to say that im kinda sure, not positive, but im pretty sure that local anestetic will make you bleed a lot for a while.

thats to bad, but i understand what you mean. thank you very much for your imput!

musicguy, please dont become suicidal because of these problems. you can fix them!! like said before, debt is a huge part of many many peoples lives. it happeneds to so many people, and thier are orginizations out there created for people who are having a hard time with thier debt. and listen, you know you have a spending problem. there are so many people who wont admit to thier problems, but you know you have one and your willing to get it helped. thats an amazing thing. thier are definatly counsilers who can help you, and im sure your parents would be more than happy to help you!! girls are sometimes difficult. i say this, because i am one but a lot of girls will step all over nice guys because the guy will just take it. but there are also tons of wonderful women who are looking for a guy like you! i know it sounds kinda of dumb, but try a dating site. my friend used link removed and she found her new boyfriend thier. they moved in with eachother and neither of them have been happier! your a nice guy, and a musician, and all girls love musicians!! i absolutly know theres a girl out there who would love you the way you want to be--and should be-- loved. and ya know, if you dont like your band, tell them that you think there may be some tension between all of you. or maybe that to become a better band you need to work things out. if they want to make the band as best as it can be, im sure they will listen to what you have to say and consider every word of it. i hope things look up for you. pm me if you wanna talk!! good luck