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It doesn't necessarily have to do with too much exercise/sports. It's when you go through a few growth spurts and your bones grow but your muscles/tendons don't have time to keep up with them. The tendons are weak and over stretched. The bump is caused by new bone growing where it's not supposed to because of all the strain from the muscles and tendons. I'd say ice it alot, before and after exercise. A knee brace might help alleviate some of the pain. In this case, the only thing you can do is rest it, that's why doctors suggest braces and casts because then you CAN'T help but rest it.

What position was it? The only time it ever hurt me (no lube any of the time) was when i was on my back with my legs on/over his shoulders. The rest of the time it was just a very full feeling, not bad, not great. He loved it though. It really depends on the position, if it hurt her, don't do that position anymore. It has to do with the angle of the anal cavity or whatever it's called. It's meant as an exit only door for stuff that's relatively soft and flexible....just remember that.

SIDS is not actually the fault of the parents or neglect or any of that. Babies do get smothered when their parent unknowingly rolls over on top of them, but that is not SIDS. Research about SIDS has shown that a brain anomaly is linked to it. Basically the baby doesn't know they aren't getting enough oxygen and dies from breathing too much carbon dioxide. Normal babies would know to turn over or cry or wake up, but SIDS babies don't. Here is a link to the article: link removed Have you tried one of those bouncy seats or a swing? One of my cousins wouldn't sleep unless he was strapped into his carseat. He slept in a carseat in his crib for a long time. When the nights were really long and even that wouldn't soothe him, they put his carseat on top of the drier and turned it on. The constant hum and the slight vibration calmed him down a lot. (Make sure you DO NOT leave the baby unattended on top of the drier!!!)

What about simple kissing and making out? Does she do that, does she enjoy that? Is she ever the first to start kissing? Has she ever done anything with another guy, or are you her first everything? Maybe she was sexually abused...raped or molested...but doesn't know how to tell you or doesn't want to tell you. It's hard to come out and tell someone about that. The first time you say it out loud it turns into something real, something that actually happened. Is there any religious reasons? Maybe she doesn't want to have sex before she's married. But you make her feel guilty for not having sex so she gives in to you once every few months. Maybe I'm way off with all these things...I don't know, just a thought.

If she was drinking too that could be why there was so much blood. Usually on the last day of your period there is some blood, and alcohol is a blood thinner so it looks like there's more blood. I know my period always seems heavier on night when I go out and drink.

Use the timer on the camera to take them. Set the timer and push the shutter button and you usually have 5-10 seconds to get set up before it takes the picture. I think it's a good idea, guys are visual usually, they like that kind of stuff. It doesn't have to be sexy pictures if you're not comfortable with that. You could leave him a message on the camera by taking pictures of paper that you write words on. Like you could take a picture of the word "I" then "love" then "you".

That could be part of the problem. It also depends on your size....if you're penis is really thick then it's obviously going to hurt more than one that isn't that thick. She has to be really relaxed and into it for it to work. The first time me and my boyfriend at the time did it, it was really unplanned. We were going to bed, spooning, after we started fooling around and got interrupted. And it just kind of happened. It didn't hurt at all really. It was just alot of pressure, really full kind of feeling. I guess before that he tried to put his finger in there....but honestly, that freaked me out alot more than his penis. I'm not sure why. It just did. Just the finger wasn't uncomfortable physically, I was weirded out by it mostly I think.

Any change in sexual activity messes with a cycle. Just like stress, change in eating habits, and sickness also do. So since all of this is new to her, it's a big change in sexual activity (I know you're not having sex, but the other things are still sexual activities).

Stop being such wimps and just do it. I've done it before, no lube except natural lubrication that was moved from my vagina back there. It worked out fine. Never really hurt and he loved it. We did it spooning or with me laying on my stomach. Everyone always says it's this huge process, how it hurts so much, how you need to stretch her with fingers, how you need so much lube......I didn't think any of that was true. But maybe that's just me. There's two muscles she has back there, one she controls so she has to be relaxed or it will be as you say, "pushing a hotdog through a pin hole." The other one she doesn't control....so she has to relax and just breathe and wait for it to relax.

Sometimes it is easier if someone finishes your sentences. It's embarrassing standing in front of people trying to get out what you want to say. Maybe that's just me though. I don't mind when other people finish my sentences. But I get frustrated with stuttering very quickly and will usually avoid verbal communication because of that.

So he slept with you while he was dating the other girl? That doesn't sound like a good start to his new relationship, doesn't sound like he's really serious about it.

I perfer people to finish my sentences somtimes....if it's a friend. My brother stutters too and I finish his sentences all the time. As a stutterer, I find it almost painful to watch someone else struggling to say a word. If you do finish his sentences, make sure you definitely know where it's going. You don't want to finish his sentence and have it be completely wrong.

Put ice on them to numb them and stop them from getting any bigger. I'm talking about ice for about 45 minutes or so. Then sterilize a needle or something with alcohol or something. Pop all the blisters and use a Q-Tip or something to suck up all the pus or stuff. Then get a new Q-tip and put either nail polish remover or alcohol on it. It will sting ALOT at first. Suck it up for like 10 seconds and just deal with the pain. Keep putting alcohol or nail polish remover on it for about 10 minutes. That should dry it out. If the blisters refill later do the same thing. Once the blisters start to scab over, keep putting neosporin cream on it or chapstick so the scabs don't crack. I got a nasty cold sore a week ago, the blisters were gone in 2 days, and it's barely noticeable right now. Google "Cold Sore Remedies" or something like that and you should find alot more home remedies. Not everything will work for everyone. You have to find something that works for you.

There's a BAC calculator at link removed, that tells you the BAC and Analysis (fine, imparement, drunk, death). But it's different for each individual and depends on many more factors than just gender and weight.

Type 1 can develop any time from childhood to teenage years even into their 30s. In those cases where it's not seen until later, the body has some insulin stored but can't produce any more or doesn't produce enough to work efficiently. When my brother was first diagnosed his body was still producing some insulin but not nearly enough, they call this the "honeymoon period". Once his body stopped producing any insulin, it was much easier to control. I'm not saying that her boyfriend definitely has type 1, I just think it's more likely for him to have type 1. Type 2 usually occurs in overweight people, or elderly people. And she said he has no family history of diabetes and he eats well. Type 2 is usually caused by genetics and poor diet/high body weight.

My brother was diagnosed with Diabetes a few years ago, and now there's not much he can't do. It just takes a little while to get everything under control. At first he basically ate 6 full meals a day. Now everything is much more managable and he can eat whenever he wants (and whatever he wants). If your boyfriend eats good and is thin, then it's probably type 1 diabetes, like my brother has. If you want to talk or anything, send me a pm. I pretty much know all there is to know about it.

Scenerio: Trusted (male) friend made her a drink. She started hooking up with a friend of the trusted friend. Things started going further then just kissing. She said stop. Got up, realized how drunk she was, sat back down a little while later. He had sex with her, even though she was still saying stop. He was intoxicated, not drunk though, in other words he knew what he was doing. Who's at fault? Her for drinking? Him for taking advantage of someone who was drunk? No one? Both of them?

Pain and pleasure are pretty closely related. After what was probably the best sex I've had yet, I had scratch marks all down my back. I also had red marks on my neck from biting, not hard, just really scraping teeth against the skin. Don't be embarrassed by it. Enjoy it. Have fun. Sex (and everything else) is supposed to be fun! Just don't get too carried away....

Maybe he's just scared of getting you pregnant AND is scared of the side effects of birth control, especially if you have a history of being emotionally unstable while on them. Why don't you just ask him? none of us on here know him, we don't know what he's thinking anymore than you do, we don't know him at all. I'd say he's just scared of getting you pregnant. My ex did that to me. I mean, we talked about it first...it wasn't just him stopping suddenly without telling me. But some guys worry about pregnancy more than girls do. We would have sex VERY rarely after that, and only on special occasions.

My personal experience is that any juice makes it taste a little sweeter, but the difference isn't that noticeable. Alcohol (beer) makes it have a weird bitter taste, very hard to swallow. No expiernce with smoking, so I can't give my input there. I really never noticed any big difference besides the alcohol, I could always tell if he was drinking heavily the night before. Find a willing boyfriend and girlfriend pair who will do some of the tests for you. I would if I had a boyfriend...but I don't. So I can't help you there, I can only give my previous personal experiences.

I've been reading all of your posts for a while, and let me say that I admire you for everything you've been through. I hope you're life turns out amazing, you of all people deserve that. I agree that it's just hormones doing this to you. Watching three kids all by yourself (who aren't your kids) is very hard. You are having ONE child, and it's YOUR child. It's completely different. With how mature you seem from your posts, how much you love this baby, how much you love Ian, how much you are willing to make this work...I know that it will work out for you. Come October you'll be a new proud parent, and while it will be scary at times, I know you'll be an amazing mother...and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! You and Ian are going to be able to give baby Ian a wonderful life, and I'm sure down the road, he'll realize how strong his parents are to have gone through all this at such a young age. I'm 4 years older than you and I know I wouldn't be able to handle it. I don't even know you and I'm so proud of you. You deserve to be happy, you deserve to have a wonderful life. This child will just add to the wonderfullness of it!!

From what it sounds like, he wanted to have sex with her and she had a moment where she didn't want to have sex with him. Being 17 and a female, she was probably weaker than him and basically he could do whatever he wanted. If she was unwilling, I wouldn't count it as sex. It might not have been rape, she might not have been unwilling the whole time. But at one point, either right before or right after it started, she didn't want to do it. I think it's more than her just regretting it, it's something that she didn't want. If you really want to find out the reason, you have to sit her down and CALMLY talk to her. You can't get angry about it if you want to know the truth. You can't ask her "what the hell happened." Maybe she truly believed that she was a virgin and that first time didn't ever happen. If she bled, it's possible that it never happened...that it just got close to happening, maybe "just the tip." It's really impossible to know what happened unless you talk to her, but you HAVE to be calm about it.

Maybe he has other stuff going on. Maybe he's stressed. Maybe something is going on and he doesn't know how to tell you. Maybe it has nothing to do. I would say try talking to him, not about sex or anything sexual, just sit down and talk to him about life and everything.

What were the pills he gave you? The Morning After pill? Since you used condoms you should be pretty safe, plus the protection from the morning after pill....there's really nothing to worry about. Don't get yourself so worked up about it because stress can delay a period. Just relax and enjoying loving him.

Sometimes spotting is a sign of when the fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterine lining. I'm not sure how long after sex that would be though. You could find a lot of stuff online about pregnancy symptoms and stuff. Just google it. It might be too late for the morning after pill since you said it was 4 days ago. You should get to a doctor soon to get a blood test done to see if you are pregnant. But you said you can't get to a doctor without telling your parents. It could be your period, but you said it's not supposed to come for another week. Teenagers bodies aren't always on a consistant cycle, so it might come early. But I say wait until about a week after you think you should get your period and get a home pregnancy test and do that. Talk to your boyfriend, see if he could take you to the doctors. And talk to him about what you would want to do if in fact you were pregnant: have the kid, get married, adoption, abortion, ect. If you do find out you aren't pregnant (and I hope that is the case) you might want to see if you can get another form of birth control besides condoms just to decrease the chance of pregnancy....birth control (the pill, patch, or shot), the ring thing (Nevuring I think or something like that), spermicides, IUDs, there's lots of different options. I hope everything works out!!