QTpie87
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We sat on your bed and listened to blink 182 you swore those songs were written for you You must not know how much I care how much it hurts when you act like im not there You played too rough with my broken heart You have all the things that hurt me down to an art I wanted you to love me, I prayed that you would care Instead you shut me out, you treated me unfair I'll keep my head up, with a fake smile on my face I know it's for the best, but I'll be missing you anyway I'll stay your friend, I'll give you time Maybe someday you'll change your mind stop trying to hide your pain, just face it and throw it all away Don't let it change the real you, so sweet and true into a hurt sarcastic soul pushing all the love away Don't you see?....those songs were written for me! I started to fall in love I opened up and let myself trust I tried my best to be there and god knows I'd try again But you no longer want me You probably never will again This is what I wrote last night after breaking it off with my now ex. I love him so much, but he held onto his past and let it hurt him so much that we only had like 3 or 4 days out of the month of a healthy relationship.
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eh I broke up with him. I talked to him and was like so did you get my note and he's all yeah but I wont read it and I was like why and he's all cause it's on tinkerbell paper, I hate tinkerbell. So I told him what it said and said if you don't stop treating me this way I don't want to continue dating you, He didn't seem that hurt about it, long story short, we're done. still not sure if this is gonna be a or a .
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So I really care about my bf a lot, I love him. but here's the thing, he's been weird like starting to treat me bad which my friends have also been noticing. It's making me fall out of love with him fast, so Last night when he started being like this I left and I wrote him this really long note (i can't usually talk to him in person about things that are upsetting me cause he gets defensive and wont listen, too hard headed) about how he's been acting and how I can't stand it anymore, and how im not going to let myself be put through it. I told him I wont dump him, i'll let him make the decision, I said If you will start to be more loving and stop being like this I'll stay with you but if it continues then I'm leaving you. I said it's your choice tell me what you want to do. I've seen him twice today and he's been nice but hasn't said anything about the note, it's like he's avoiding having to talk about it. What should I do. was I wrong to write him a note like that?
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I can't feel anything. It's gotten worse and worse and now all I can feel if I feel anything at all is pain. so I really prefer not feeling anything at all which is what it has been 99% of the time anyway. I know suicide isn't the answer to anything, and I don't think I could bring myself to do it, but I just wonder why stay like this, every time this happens it gets worse and now I have to even try to feel things physically, I can but it's different to the point where I don't want to touch anything, I just want to sit and think. is this bad or just another part of growing up?
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how? lol.
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well what if I know he's attracted to me and I know he likes me a lot but he doesn't have all that high of a sex drive??? It's really starting to bother me a lot. He's always had sex and now he tells people that he's kinda tired or it. He does get horny and wants to do things, just not as often as I do, that's why I feel like such a perv.
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phew lol. thanks.
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well the fact that she is still dating this other guy while suposably wanting you back says to me she does want you back but not enough to take the risk of breaking up with this guy for you and possibly not getting you back and being left with no one. as in I think she's trying to make sure she has one or the other in the end. I don't know, just my opinion.
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I honestly think he sounds like a really good guy. You said he was attentive to you, and cuddly and all, and then about how he was stressed about work. well sounds to me like you have a loveable hard working guy on your hands . I wouldn't read too much into how he is seeming distant at times like this, work sucks lol. sounds like he likes you he was just stressed. good luck.
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hey all. well this is an odd question but what is the norm for sex drive in someone my age and gender (18, female). I always want to be doing something, ok not always but it seems to be the majorety of my thoughts. It's driving me crazy, I feel so dirty and pervted, is it normal to feel that way at my age. Oh and when I say I contintly want to be doing something and that I think about it a lot it's not like I look at a guy and want to go down on him or anything, I'm only really like this with my bf, if that makes a difference to the situation. please please someones opinion.... thanks all. Qtpie87
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I'll gladly pray for you, but know that you don't have to be close to god to talk to him. talking to him is how you become close to him, he loves you the same no matter what leavel of relationship you have with him.
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well if it was me I would never do more then one condom, it just sounds like a bad idea.
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use birth control with it. if you can't afford it then go to like a planned parent hood or something, maybe they can hook you up with some. I don't know for sure if they do that but hey it's worth a try. oh and pull out even if you use a condom, it'll maybe help a little more. but yeah there's no telling, i have a friend who and this is odd but they used a condom, she had been taking birthcontrol and it was on the sugar pill week so she was also on her period and she still got pregnant . it's highly unlikely for something like that to happen, but it did so there's no for sure answer.
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so when you've fallen for someone and you know for a undoubtable fact that you love them and you want to tell them how you feel so bad, but really aren't sure they are ready to hear that or not, what do you do? I keep almost slipping, and just saying I love you when I hug him, or when he feels bad, i just want him to know that so bad but also fear that it's too soon to say anything. im scared, I don't want to mess things up, exspecailly cause he's starting to become closer to me by himself without me having to say anything about how I feel yet. also I was sitting and thinking about it, and I know what it is, i know what it feels like but I don't know how to put it into words. I really think love is when you care about that person so much you will put up with stupid things that happen and take care of them when they're sick and not care if they might be having a bad day, that you can still be there for them and try your best to make them feel better. I really think it's when you don't have to be out having fun spending money, you can just sit around with them and be happy even if theres nothing to talk about. I don't know how else to put it. but is that how others here feel too? im just so frustrated, cause iv'e never liked someone this much before and it's eating at me like mad.
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well with my first bf (now ex) we didn't do anything for the first few months cause they were just months. but the six was kinda a big deal, it wasn't anything like oh we must celebrate this, it would be wrong if we didn't (that's more of a year thing) but it was just kind of a oh how special we've been dating for half a year lets do something fun, and we went to dinner and a movie, but we did that all the time anyways we just did it on that night instead of our usuall weekend thing. about the him not accnoliging the thing you did for him, eh I don't think guys read into that kind of stuff as much, or maybe they do and just don't express it as much. Im sure he loved what you did for him the last time, he just may not express it as much. and if he didn't know you were going to do something that's probably why he didn't do anything, you know. But don't go into doing something for him to get something back ,that's not what it's about, it's about doing it cause you wanted to, not to get something for yourself. Oh i so didn't mean that to sound snotty if it did, im sorry please don't take it like that, it's just the only way I know how discribe my opinion on the situation. I think it's sweet if you want to do something for him for the 6th month, just don't get too hurt if he doesn't cause a lot of people don't do the 6th month thing. cheers, and good luck. love QT
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yeah you guys are right, it is a good thing. I'm just scared cause well he shows he cares about me through things that he does, he's not that vocal about it and I am, so Im worried that if I start to show it too much or if I slip up and actually tell him that i love him that I might freak him out cause I dont' know if he feels the same way. I do know he cares about me just because when we get in fights he's uaually the first one to come and talk to me about it ( with the exeption of last time but he was happy to talk to me about it when I came to him). and like another example is how much he hates barn dancing and stuff like that and he's going with me on halloween cause he knows I love it, and another thing is how much he knows I hate certin things that he's been doing (a drug) and he finally understands how much it really freaks me out and how badly I don't want him to do it and just because of me he's stopping. so I don't know, I want to say something to him cause I have a feeling that he could feel the same way, but Im not totally sure yet. eh it's odd.
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Ok so I'm really really starting to like my boyfriend a lot. like I've always liked him and had this little crush on him sense the first time I've met him but now that i've been dating him for almost 2 months and i've been hanging around him more and more it's like the crush is truning into more. It's not oh he's cute anymore, it's oh he's so sweet. and things like that. I'm a little freaked out cause I know that im starting to fall for him, and I can't stop it. I tell myself to not like him so much cause im afraid of being hurt and it works for little while until that feeling comes around again. It's like he can be such a guy and by that I mean annoying and sometimes a little too joking, but at the same time he can be the sweetest person in the world. the main reason im freaked out is because I don't want to start showing how much I really care about him...ahhhh it's been eating at me all day and I don't know what's wrong. is this normal to start to feel like this when you start to really care???? anyone to talk to about this would be great. thanks all. QT
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I need some ideas.... See I do things with my bf but would like to do a lot more (yes we've had sex but im a very sexual person and would like to do things like that more often). He has said just come up and start stuff but I tried to today and he was like eh and I think I need to learn how to be a little more (this will sound funny but...) sexy. Im really bad at it. the few times I've ever started anything i've A- kneed him in the balls B- palmed him in the balls or C- was a little too shy and ended up humiliating myself (yes the balls were all accidents). I know he is attracted to me because he has said so but I feel like I need to get more sexy as in the way I do things and so on. what are some good ways to start things with guys and maybe turn them on a little more. and yeah whats some big turn ons for guys when they arne't already turned on to start with so if I felt like getting him that way I could. thanks guys.
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mk so Like some of you already know I have a problem when it comes to being shy. I seem to now be ok around all of my friends and other people in general, but still have a problem around my boyfriend. Im shy about things like convos, like I can talk to him obviously or we wouldn't be dating, but I can't seem to bring out my sense of humor. And I don't know why it's so hard to do, it shouldn't be because he has a very open and funny sense of humor like twenty four seven but I freeze up and just don't say things that I would normally find to be totally hillarious weither others thought so or not. another problem I have is being open about sexuall things, like we do things but not as often as I would like or think we could just because of the fact that I don't like to start things on my own in fear of embarrassing myself. has anyone ever been like this and do you have any tips to cure my shyness. thanks. Qt
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I'll dry my own tears and buy my own time Let me keep my dreams and call them mine forget how I cared just say your goodbyes though my heart may be fragile you'll never see me cry please don't tell me that you're sorry, or how you really care I can't be your torn ragdoll, so cute with pink ribbons tide in her hair you mended my broken soul with your soft embrace just to chew it up and spit it back in my face you didn't see me start to love you, but I think I may know why You too had your heart ripped from your life she tossed you out like a broken useless toy Not seeing you for who you really are, how much your love is worth I hope someday you'll forget her, all the pain she caused your life or take it as a lesson, let it open up your eyes forget her for a moment and realize im here look past my torn shorts and my wild messy hair take a look into my love filled eyes and know I will always be there.
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Um ok I feel so very funny asking this question. but you know how girls give their bf's bj's and all well I have heard that there are like a million or ok not a million but a lot of different techniques that girls can use on them to make it not so blah you know. I know that im not bad at it, he hasn't complained at all and I know he enjoys it but I would like to switch it up a little and try new things to make it better. um if anyone would like pm me with ideas that would be cool, sorry if this post was a little out there . thanks all.
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yeah basically.
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I have the same problem about making the first move and my bf wants me too, but it's like you never know if it's gonna be a good time to make a move or not. sorry I can't help ya.
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what are you semi fighting about?
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talk to her about it, say that you respect what she wants as in you don't want to do anything too soon, tell her what you are and aren't ready for as well, and talk about it from there. good luck.