69_king

exactly, I hate the skeleton look. And some of those skinny girls look like 8 year old boys. (yuck). unless they have massive implants! Now, its rude to criticize fat people and so it is equally rude to criticize skinny people. BUT, the real skinnies are just not eating!!! Come on, eat some good food and put a little meat on your bones, its more healthy!

yeah, I know exactly what you mean, I was the same way and that is why I have been single for the last 5 years. After that amount of time I finally realized that it was ridiculous to wait for the perfect girl who fit all my criteria so I decided to look for girls who - and this is kind of vague - were as close to meeting all the criteria as I could reasonably expect. (if I had to give a value I would say thats about 80% of the criteria) The first girl I met fit that description, so I asked her out, we have been going out for about 2 weeks now and I really like her.

thats why they call them "lovehandles"!

I'm quite a hairy guy myself. What I do is once every two weeks I shave my body with electric grooming clippers. I don't shave everything and I don't shave right down to the skin. I just sort of clean it up a bit like having a haircut. There are a few areas I shave to the skin, such as the shoulders. But the legs, arms and chest I just keep the hair from getting too curly and sticking out. When short, the individual hairs grow flat against the skin and so it doesn't feel stubbly unless you brush directly against the grain. In modern society feelings about hair have changed but I believe there are still a lot of women who think it looks masculine to have body hair. (At least I hope so )

If the guy asks you to swallow it, tell him you will if you can give half of it to him and he swallows it too!

Personally, I'd be more turned on by lingerie that is NOT see through. I mean if you can see through it then its hardly any different than not wearing any at all. When you can't see through it then you want to see what is under it, even if you've seen it before, so don't let him see and it'll drive him mad. As for toys or aides or stuff, I haven't got a clue. But everytime I'm in the lineup at the supermarket there are always tons of ladies magazines on display advertising that they'll tell you "1001 ways to pleasure your man!"

I still don't believe this "treat a girl nice and she'll walk all over you" crap. Personally I think (or at least I hope) that most women are more noble than that. And can you tell me exactly what treating a girl bad involves?

Not all fat people are the same. There are 3 kinds of fat people: 1) People who have the fat gene. I believe there is a gene for fatness because there are a lot of fat people who don't eat that much and try to lose wait but can't. They are born with it. My reasoning for this is that these people tend to all have a similar look in their facial structure, this hints to the fact that they have genetic similarities and I believe one or some of those genes are responsible for making them overweight. 2) People who have an eating disorder. This is usually a mental problem. These people usually are fattest in the middle sections of their body. There are lots of people who are actually in both categories 1 and 2. 3) People who are simply out of shape. These people eat normally and don't have the fat gene but don't get any exercise and don't look after their bodies that much so they get a little flabby but not seriously fat. These people tend to still have normal/slender limbs and face. People in group 1 are never going to be really thin and its tougher for them, if they want to get in shape it requires a lot of work. People in group 2 can get back to normal but this requires lots of work and may need psychiatric help. People in group 3 can get back in shape in a matter of months or even weeks since they don't have any serious mental or physical problems.

Kindness really turns me on for some reason! Like when a girl does something kind and caring for me, even the smallest thing, but its unexpected, that really gets me.

It depends how long you let it build up, I mean like if ejac twice in one night the second one will be hardly anything but if you go for weeks without it then you're literally going to be bursting!! Even then not all of the squirts actually get airborne!

snogging is like heavy full out kissing, using your tongue and stuff.

Yes, if you've already got to know the person through emails etc. and you decide you like each other and you are finally meeting them then I would say a hug is appropriate. If its a first date with someone you hardly know and the whole purpose of the date is to get to know the person then I think a hug when you first meet is probably not appropriate. I would say a handshake would be good and depending on who you are a kiss on the hand may be good also.

I didn't mean to put you off like that. I meant it feels weird to you but not necessarily to her. Imagine if she said hi to you after 3 months, how would you feel? You'd be happy, you wouldn't feel its weird.

I'd rather have a girl with a little jiggle than a sixpack!

Well, I didn't physically write them down, I just kept the list in my head! I never thought of it as cute, but thanks!! Yeah, there is a bowling alley with a mini golf course on the other side of the street from my house! But it is winter now so no mini golf. There is a ski resort nearby but they haven't opened yet. Its kind of that inbetween season when there isn't much to do. I did have an idea the other day though. I was driving past this new horse racing track, its nice, like they have a casino and stuff, I've been there once, it was really fun. Does that sound like a fun date?

I have never had a normal girlfriend before, I don't know how to describe an abnormal relationship but all of my previous ones have just been different from the standard. Anyway, I just had a first date with a nice girl and everything went well, we went to dinner and talked for about 2.5 hours and it was smooth, like no awkward silences and stuff. But the thing is I had sort of prepared, in my head, a list of topics to talk about and it was just sort of perfect timing that I had exhausted my list just as I was dropping her off. So everything was fine BUT I wouldn't have known what to say next if we were continuing our conversation. Maybe she probably would have had something to talk about because she was coming up with topics herself but my question is: "Will it become more natural once we get to know each other? Is it normal to be a little awkward at first? Is it a good sign that we were able to have an entertaining conversation for 2 1/2 hours?" As I said, I've had girlfirends before but never a "normal" gf-bf relationship. So this has never come up before. Its obvious she likes me and I like her (her smile is so cute!) I think next time I ask her out I'll try to make it an activity date. Is that a good idea?

ok, thanks for the tip but there are some things a guy is just not going to do and the tea bag thing is one of them. Oh yeah, and definitely no "Cumcumbers"

Oh Man!!! Why didn't I think of that pen thing when I was in university? There were lots of girls I sat next to but never said anything and the bad thing is the longer you leave it, the weirder you think its going to sound. Its like you've sat next to this girl for 3 months without saying a word and then suddenly you're just going to turn around and say "Hello, I'm so and so, whats your name?". Actually, I don't think I ever sat next to a girl for that long without saying something!

Now I shall defend myself against your onslaught! Sorry You stand up for yourself, thats a good thing. anyway, thankyou for correcting me! I know the avatar is not you, I'm saying it is part of the overall image you put out. And, yeah, now that you point it out the eye does look kinda pink, but as I said I'm colour blind. How to look more welcoming? Hmmm, thats a tough one, some people just look more welcoming than others. Its mostly body language. Like looking a guy dead straight in the eye all the time is a little unnerving. Ultimately, there's isn't anything really wrong with you. Its the guys that have problems. Oh, here's one more, may or may not apply to you: if you look a little sports jocky that kind of turns me off and maybe some other guys too.

Don't take it too seriously. And what were you doing with a MAXIM magazine and leaving it with him? He was probably really horny, knew he wasn't going to get it from you, saw the mag, start looking through it and then just couldn't help himself. Anyway, for most guys a real girl is more exciting than a picture in a mag, the pictures look kinda fake anyway. I'm sure he doesn't see you any differently, do you think he never saw pictures like these before you met??

Oh oh, be careful there! Not Amen but Apeople.

Please don't take this as an insult and I may be wrong but you seem a little full of yourself. I can tell just by looking at your avatar and your user name. Princess, Beauty, a beautiful blue eye (or is it purple? I'm colour blind) with the blonde strands of hair down the side. that would be like me calling myself "PrinceHunkalicious" and showing a picture of my bare He-man chest. (ok, maybe not quite, sorry, but you get the idea?)

Maybe I'm getting old or something (at 25 ) but I can't even remember being 16, like that sounds so young to me. And 12?!! Well, I do remember a girl in my school getting pregnant and having a baby at 13. But you shouldn't think you're missing out at only 16! I think you're on the right schedule, it'll come soon enough. I didn't kiss until I was 20! Why is that most of the poeple who admit they haven't kissed and they are in their 20's are guys? Is it that the girls don't admit it (well, there is one person above who has) or do they mostly get kissed before 20? Actually, one thing I noticed in cassandras post that is interesting is that she says she hasn't been kissed. Where most guys would say they simple haven't kissed anyone.

with all that sex you're having you probably haven't had a chance to laugh all day. How are you even getting a chance to come on here?

Ouch, that's negative! My first 2, and so far only 2, girlfriends asked me out. That seems to be one of the biggest ways that shy guys get gf's. You just need to be lucky I guess. But if you don't want to wait around for years for a girl to fall into your lap then you need to take charge. Just suck in a deep breath and say to yourself: "OK, life's too short and you only get one chance so I'm going to go out and find a girl and I 'm going to ask her out and I don't care what she says and I'm not going to even think about it, I'm just going to shut my mind down and simply do it!" (and having a couple of drinks first really helps, not too much though, you don't want to be slurring your words) That's what I did last week and it worked and I'm going out with this girl tonight!