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    Not necessarily. I was 20 the first time I kissed a girl and I had never thought about kissing before, like how to kiss or what I'm supposed to do. And the girl was like "Wow, where did you learn to do that? Have you been taking lessons?" So, you never know, you may be good. Anyway, there is a whole kissing forum here for you to learn from.
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    I've been looking through an online dating site recently, not really trying to find someone there any more (I think its better to do that in real life), but I'm interested in reading what the girls are looking for and how they describe themselves. First of all, about 80% of them say the guy they are looking MUST have a good sense of humour. Now, I would say that is reasonably true about myself, but I want to know what that really means from a girl's perspective. Another thing, so many of the girls say that they watch hockey and football and stuff like that. Are they just saying that to please the guys? Just hoping thats what the guys want to hear?? Personally, thats not something that attracts me, I'm not looking for a jocky girl. And I haven't known many girls who are like that. Another thing, I try not to be intimidated but its hard to not feel a little inadequate when reading stuff like this (taken from someone's actual profile) : Maybe this person is just really picky but I hope most girls are a little less demanding than that!! I would like to say they are but, even though I could say I meet about 75-80% of those criteria I haven't had very much success with my girlfriends.
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    Q: How will guys act if they are into you ? A: All of the Above ^
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    It always ends just as the good bit is about to start!! Just more and more teasing
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    Well, if you look on an online dating site you find that every girl wants a guy who is funny, confident, smart and has a solid career. And lots of them say he has to be good looking too Personally, I think they are being way too picky and if they actually met someone who really turned their key but didn't happen to have all those things then they would still go for him. I know I am kind of that way. Attraction is a weird thing, it just sort of happens sometimes and the person is not always what you imagined.
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    chest hair

    69_king replied to Tomz's topic in Dating Advice

    I "trim" my body hair about twice a month. I don't use a real razor, instead I use an electric trimmer and I don't take it all off, I just trim it down fairly short and around the edges. That way its not really stubbly. And it doesn't itch anymore. Basically I just clean it up like getting a haircut and it doesn't look bestial at all In fact when I am tanned you hardly notice the hair at all. If you are really pale skinned and your body hair is really dark then it stands out more. If your body hair is more like brown or dark blonde (like mine) then having a nice tan can really make a difference.
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    Its not like drinking automatically means acting like an idiot. Having a single beer with my friends after a round of golf does not mean I am suddenly going to go and make sexually gratuitous remarks to the drink cart girl and then start doing a funky dance on the 18th green and then go and crash my car into a telephone pole!! Yes, juice tasted good too, but for me nothing beats an ice cold beer after a day in the hot sun! What I'm getting at is that there is a difference between simply having a casual drink or just getting totally wasted.
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    I think there needs to be some physical attraction. But an average or below average looking person who is nice, confident, friendly, smiling etc. and tries to make the best of themselves will begin to look very attractive once you start seeing them more often. So, you don't need to be born a beauty to be physically attractive. If someone makes me smile when I see them then that is physical attraction and that can be achieved by the things I mentioned above. If she's looking for a quick fix, tell her to try making her hair really nice and cute. Maybe thats just a personal thing, but to me hair can have a huge impact on a persons looks. (I know if I comb my hair one way I look like a complete dork but if I comb it another way I look very handsome)
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    I drink for two reasons: 1) I like the taste of whatever I'm drinking. I don't like the taste of most standard North American beers so I don't drink them, but I do enjoy the taste of many other alcoholic beverages. 2) I'm a little shy but after a couple of drinks I tend to loosen up a bit and I definitely enjoy myself more. BUT I never (well, almost never) get totally drunk. AND I never drink and drive. When I do have a drink with friends I rarely have more than 3 or 4 standard drinks in one night. And I don't drink every day. But I am in control of myslef and I can get the positives out of it without the negatives. There are positives in drinking alcohol if you are responsible. Unlike smoking, of which I can't think of any positives.
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    I think its nice to be with someone who you feel comfortable with without having to be talking all the time. Who wants to constantly talk anyway? I mean there can't be that much to talk about. I'd be bored with it. I'm not really all that shy but I do like shy girls as long as they are intelligent and interesting when you do get talking to them. But, as I said, I don't want to be talking 24/7!
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    Is he shy?

    69_king replied to Mels's topic in Dating Advice

    Well, hes not saying "You can call me sometime but I won't call you again" He may call again. But I would call him first. Personally I like it when someone calls me sometimes because it tells me that they were thinking about me and they are interested. If I had to do all the calling then I would feel like "Why do I have to do all the work? She must not be that interested."
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    Kind, intelligent, adventurous, dresses well. intellectual
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    HAHA! The difference is we want way more than that. And we want to make the other person happy too. Now it may never work out but thats the whole point of dating. But you need to give someone a chance, don't just cut it off for some dumb reason. Anyone who takes a free dinner and then ceases all communication is worse than a ho!
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    And think about the amount of effort, time, money that you put into this person. And then they just say "I don't want to see you any more" for no good reason. How can they live with themselves? its like stealing. Its like, you build up the courage to ask a girl out, you take her out on say 3 or 4 nice dates that you have planned and mostly paid for. You try to please her and make her feel nice. And then just when you think its about to go to the next level she dumps you, just like that, its over. I think shes owes you something for all that. I think you deserve at least a handjob or something
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    Oh Crap (OK, I give up)
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    Well, at least thats not really his fault, I mean if you're in that culture of arranged marriages then its kind of hard to get out of it. He probably didn't want to do it. But, ya, it sucks!
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    Darn. Well, I guess thats a reasonable answer. I have that problem too, I have never met a girl that I share a significant number of interests with. So, to learn from this, I guess its a good idea to seek out people that you have common interests with before you try to go farther. No matter how nice she is, you might have got a little bored with each other if you did start something but didn't have much in common. Sometimes it can work and be great but obviously she doesn't think so in this case. Although, to turn you down in that way it must seem like a serious problem to her.
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    sounds like he's jealous already!
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    If I were you I would ask her to tell me exactly what is was that she didn't like about me. I would want to know for future reference. If she had a few valid points then I might consider trying to change a little. People say "Just be yourself" and "Don't try to change yourself" but often we are doing something wrong and we just don't realize it. Like if I couldn't get a girlfirend no matter waht I did, even though I thought I was a wonderful guy, then there must be something wrong and I would definitely want to change it if I could find out what it was. But if she can give you no good reasons for turning you down like that then I would say she is just a dumb b|tch. too bad.
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    O's

    69_king replied to sasha12's topic in Sex and Romance

    Well, the more sex you have, the less semen you will shoot. So, if you are not having sex with him really often then it could technically mean he was having it with someone else or he was masturbating. Also, guys sometimes go through cycles of, how can I put this, 'fertility'
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    All I can say is that there are some times I wish I was female
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    Lots of people probably have these dreams. I don't have them every night but maybe once or twice a month. The dreams go something like this: I finally find my "dream girl", she's perfect, everything I ever wanted. And, after wanting her for a long time, we finally get together and start a relationship and its perfect and we love each other and everything is great. And I have this huge feeling of relief. and I think to myself "Finally its happened!" Then I wake up, alone, and angry for being teased like that. Luckily I have a pretty busy/active life so I am only depressed for a few minutes and then I'm happy do something else again. But it just seems so cruel. I can imagine that some people have this problem to a much worse extent than me and it must be especially hard on people who are already depressed. And it doesn't stop just at relationships, it could be anything that you have wanted for a long time. Do others suffer from this?
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    What if you see someone and there is no love (or lust) at first sight but complete un-attraction. Do you think it is still possible to fall in 100% love with that person once you get to know them?? After all, lust is still a small part of love. I mean, there has to be that initial captivation, right??
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    If someone asks you out on multiple dates then are their intentions not clear?? There are 3 possible intentions: 1) They want to get into your pants. (If they haven't achieved this within a couple of dates then they are probably going to stop trying or they will force themnselves on you in which case their intentions are quite clear. But in any case this will be clear within a couple of dates) 2) They just want to be friends. (Like, come on, how many people just want to be friends and never go any farther. I don't think this one applies too often) 3) They want to go out with you a few times, get to know you and if you 'click' then hopefully get into a more serious relationship (and get into your pants). If you have been going on multiple dates then it is pretty clear that this is the true intention. At least when I am dating it seems pretty obvious to me that both of our intentions are #3. Although, I haven't gotten to the click stage in nearly 5 years. Is it possible the girls need to know what my intentions are? Am I assuming too much?? But I agree that the girl in the original post was dumb to flat out say to the guy that she wasn't interested. That only works in movies.
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    Well, there can be reasons for that, like he lives downtown and she lives out of town and they are going to go downtown for their date. But, yes, he sounds a little jerky to me. But, subconsciously, that may be attracting you to him. Don't let it. [-X
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