My friend &I both liked this guy we met thru a group of friends. He's cute,sexy and seductive.He's talked to her,I thought they would for sure hit it off. She is very tiny and beautiful, the center of attention. Well, this guy said something that made her mad. She feels guys only want to sleep with her as a trophy. Me and another girl talked with him and had both told her, mostly teasing we'd like to sleep with him. Months went by w/o them every going out. One night that my girlfriends stood me up. We talked. He really was coming on strong and I asked him, "What about my friend?" He spatted back, "She had her chance."
I was surprised and flattered. I am older, cute but not a beauty like my friend. After a couple of dates with him. Without telling her yet (I hadn't figured out what to say) he asked her out again. She said yes and asked him when he was going to pick her up he told her he wasn't going to pick her up, like she would have to pick him up. Confused She blew him off after that. I knew I had to tell her. She is like family to me. She forgave me of course. We both think this guy is jerk. But we have both admitted we still like him. I would really like to know what is this guy thinking? Why are we still hung up on him?
