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to be thirteen again... she does not hate you. that line is a quote in her signature. maybe a relationship is too much for a person so young...?

link removed Maybe you can fill the emptiness with faith?

I think its pretty obvious she's into you...she wouldn't have made such an effort if she wasn't!

This won't make it easier, but leaving high school was the hardest thing I ever did. College just isn't the same...

^ That's not true, you'd be surprised how receptive "nice apple" girls are to nice guys.

i too am a christian and it is hard not giving into things that you shouldn't, but a strong relationship with God will help you overcome them! and in reply to the girl who said christianity shouldn't be allowed to claim God: the bible clearly states the Christian God is the only God, so take it or leave it, in the end everyone is going to have to answer for him/herself link removed

If she said its fine why worry?! I personally would have held off the grabbing/touching the first makeout, but If the situation called for it....

^^^ Hahahaha that's funny

I can't believe I read all that, but I'm glad I did...interesting dilemma. Try this: tell her she's beautiful and that there's nothing more that you would want than to be with her, but if the feelings aren't reciprocal, you still want to be friends. Make sure to emphasize your compliment in hopes of swaying her to your side 8)

heavy on clear lip gloss is a def. turnon....whats the one with the diamonds? lol red lipstick is ok but it's hard to get off...

i'll pray for you buddy, hang in there... dont worry about stress - just take things as they come. think five minutes ahead. oh and don't worry about ur parents breaking ur balls, that's what they're there for

ticklebug: great personality, smart, pretty...why things usually don't work is because usually there isnt any chemistry, regardles of how great of a personality they have or how pretty they are...there's always something holding me back. I was thinking maybe it's because friends/family have high expectations of me and I dont want to disappoint with a less-than-perfect girl...i dunno.... lady00: haha i guess that's what i wanted to hear...

***Before I go on, please don't get the impression that I'm conceited or full of myself*** Now, here's my problem: I'm never satisfied with any of the girls that like me. I'm told I'm too picky, but I just have my own standards...but I don't think its that. There's never anything wrong with the girls that like me, but I just can't bring myself to like them. Because of this, all my buddies have steady gf's and I'm always the oddball. I've always been fine with this...but what can possibly be wrong with me that I can't like any of the girls around me. It's not like there's a shortage of them, I live in a huge city and there's girls everywhere, but I usually end up liking/being attracted to my friend's girlfriends. Not that i've ever pursued any of them lol... Please don't misunderstand me and think I'm shallow, because I'm not. Looks are important of course, but all the girls I know don't really interest me... What should I do?!