gift from the gods

im sorry that picture came out crappy ....

ok im a bit worried but to be honest i think i will tease him a little first so not go for a full-on kiss straight away! corvette did you wanna see some pics? x

how can you not like it, it tells you that they are enjoying the kiss ALOT which is awesome. As long as they dont thing "right im hard and shes looking at it - lets * * * *" then your ok

I have my tongue pierced, have had it done for about a month and have now got the shorter bar in but havent kissed anyone with that in yet, only with the longer one which was impossible! My crush has had his tongue pierced for ages, and we are meeting up soon and im pretty sure we will kiss. Im REALLY nervous (i have had MANY kisses before, but not with anyone else with a tongue bar or with mine let alone both) Does anyone have their tongue pierced and kissed anyone else with a tongue piercing? also are their any tips you would give me because i really like this guy and dont want to put him off? Cheerrrsss xxx

Im an outgoing 17 year old girl, ive just come out a year and 9 month relationship (but im kinda over it due to it going badly for about 4 months before we split up).....and ive just joined a collage where there is this just adorable, gorgeous guy in one of my classes. he isnt a typical "popular" guy, hes so different, quirky, quite loud and so CUTE!!! and i really like him. Normaly i am SO good at crushes, i can flirt and get my own way and everythings cool, but ive turned into this shy little puppy when hes around!! I cant even tell if he likes me or not.....serously this isnt normal!!!! i need some advice on how to 'get' him beacuse we arnt exacly best mates at the moment!! xx

I didnt really know where to put this because its more sexual health than what people normally talk about on here, but i figured that it was about health so here it goes... Well i have quite a problem to say the least! Im in a perfect relationship with a boy that i 100% love and trust and im very very happy with him. We enjoy a healthy love life too which i love but thats what i have been getting a few problems with. I went months of having pain-free amazing sex but all of a sudden its just got SO SO painfull. It hurts so much before and after sex (but not during! ) like a very painfull stinging/burning sensation I have to say, even though i am 15, its not because im not 'ready' or im too young down there, because that has never been a problem before!? Its also not beacuse of lack of lube... I have also gone without any kind of sex and it doesnt help! Could this be an STI? im terrified!! but if i had one then surely my boyfriend would show signs too...?! and otherwise there arnt any ovious symptoms! Has anyone had the same problem? What is it? I am thinking of going to a clinc or something beacuse its SO painfull! What does anyone think i should do? i need to get it sorted because its a big problem (good job i have a supporting and understanding boyfriend!) Big thank you! XX

Well, thanks everyone! i meen i still arnt really able to but, if he is still with me he must be enjoying something!! We both relised that there is more to it than sex and having a orgasm! i love just sitting cuddling and kissing or just waching a film and stuff, can still be fun and romantic and takes the pressure off! As for Itfeelsprettysofttome... I have had the same problem (apart from me being the unable party!) and apparently something like 70% of girls dont cum during sex. I can really speek for her, but when it used to happen to me it didnt really bother me too much, i just really enjoyed the moments we had and the whole experance. Dont put yourself down about it, if you been togther 2years+ then she must be very happy with you!!

Yeah, he has said to me its like....he is "there" but it just wont happen! so if hes worred i will talk it though with him, and explain that it isnt the point of having sex really, its to enjoy the whole experiance, not just the end!

well we have had sex, but not in very meny postions and stuff b/c he is my 1st. We have tryed all oral/matubation kind of stuff, but that doesnt seem to work for him. I think he has cum once before during sex.. well thanx for all your help!

Well....my and my bf do like mostly everything but i can never Ever seem to get him to climax. And this is with everything! (its kind of different b/c most boys of 15 come too early!!!) but i just feel like such a failure because i cant get him to yet he can get me to!! i spoke to him about it but and he told me not to worry about it but i really feel kind of upset and annoyed that i cant!! any help!.... does anyone have the same problem with their guys?

I see where your coming from, but everyone gets jealous. its a horrible emotion to have but it is a emotion that we all suffer from, so i count it as normal. Thats what i ment about it not being the end of the world if you 2 end. Boys arnt everything! what about friends & family!!!

When i asked him he told me that he is a VERY jelous person, and yer that shows sometimes. I dont do drugs at all, i know he does and i don't really mind as long as its not too often and not anything to do with me or the way it affects me. I think slight jealously can be good, but its getting me really down. Its not like he went to this party just coz there were girls there, he went with a few guy mates. I think i just need to relax and calm down a little bit.....

Well in the uk, the legel age is 16 and i would say about 60% do it after 16. 15 for me tho..

Well....its a long story with lots of different parts ok! I am quite a jelous person but im learning to control that but i still cant help feeling so jelous (At first it was my boyfriend with his (girl) friends but i relised that was stupid, they are friends ect. so i got over that) but... he likes to go out and i normaly go with him but the other day i went to a friends birthday dinner thing and he went to like houseparty/rave. I like that we can do our own thing, but there are drinks/drugs and SO many girls at a house party (spesh this one. ) and now i cant get it out of my head that he might have done something with someone! Im so upset and jealous. I know he really likes me but......drink and drugs really lose your...inhabitions. I havent spoken to him yet but i think when i do even if he says he hasnt i will think he has. He isnt a cheating person by nature at all (infact he is REALLY anti-cheating) but hes more "experianced" than me! Ohh its so stupid because im just getting really upset about it, i just feel like my hearyt is snapping in 2 when i think about him and someone else doing ANYTHING! i HATE feeling jelous coz its ripping me apart and driving me crazy (shows how much i really like him) Please help me not feel like this *sob, sob* Thanx!

I used to do this quite alot but i dont really think its a good idea anymore. my boyfriend found out i did this and well he said it was kind of pathtic and made me think....well yer....it is! i do see why you do it but if your going out with them anyway, would you rather spend time with someone that already likes you or spend time flirting with guys you dont like to try and get them to like you more!?! x

I have EXACLY the same problem so i totaly understand where your coming from! i find it really hard to cope with these feelings but..... if you think about it...well take hugging for example, you feel really jealous when he hugs someone else but you your self must have friends that you hug, and that doesnt meen anything more than a friendly hug does it! try to think of it as he is not the end of the world. if he did/does have any other meaning to any of his "ways" then, your better than him, its not the end of the world it it ends. (sorry to be a bit frank!!).. hope this helps you, do remember that LOTS of people have exacly the same feelings so its totaly normal! xx

I got that!!! Im so happy being single and concentrating more on friends and life (lol) ect. than being with someone.....i meen people have liked asked me out and things but at the moment its just easyer not 2 be with anyone and to have my head *clear*!

Well......i feel inlove with this girl, she started off as a friend and as we got better friends i just had feelings that i couldnt get rid of for her and, luckly for me, she liked me too... i meen its all over now and were not friends anymore but i still find other girls (espesh this one girl!) very attractive and fancy girls as well as guys. BUT meny meny people just go though phases, and i dont know, i might not be with women when im older. I dont think you have to always put a name for yourself, have fun and if things feel 'right' then maby you are gay/bi? x

Ok well i went out with this guy AGES ago, when i was about 11 (im 15 now) and now its good because we are friends ect. but he KEEPS pressuring me! He is into drugs/raves ect. all that sort of stuf and he would NEVER pressure me into doing drugs or smoking but he askes me EVERYDAY to go round his house and complains if i dont, he phones me all the time and is leaving txt messages on my phone, when i dont mind seeing him, i do like to have a 'outside' life that doesnt involve him! i feel SO pressured by him to go and see him and go out with him, and he gets all angry if i say no! what do i do as ive TRYED to tell him that i dont want to!!! its driving me !!! Thank you! xx

Aww....... I so get what you meen about the painfull bit and i really dont meen to be highing your hopes but....to me it sounds good...!!!! hehe....totaly repulsed by a guy (slowly turning her into one of us!!!! ) so.....yer and all the writing, very romantic!! well yes....my point..... oohhh..... good luck with her/it !!!

God ive been there........hard isnt it!!! well..... (this sounds bad me saying this as i am younger than you) but you really dont have to make up your mind just yet, your 17! have fun and experiment..... To me it sounds like you really like this girl though. how do you think she will react? you could try to talk about the subject to 'test' her views on it, and if she gives you a good respone tell her (be brave!!! )....... ummm.... thats bout all i have to add!!!! good luck!! Sorry, didnt read the other posts b4 i added this so im sorry if i repeted anything!!!!

Me and my Gf split up, wer both really happy being single and wer still reali good friends....but still when im with her i still get this feeling that i really want to kiss her and be near her. Somedays i will think "im glad that ended when that did" and i will think about how happy i am now but then,.....sometimes it feels as i am pushing down this huge pressure that i still am totaly inlove with her. i could tell her, to get it off my chest, but i KNOW she don't feel the same way........ ahhh.... and im not even sure if i am. humm....confuzing 1!!!

Yer she does know but shes cool with it, we are both really good friends and she is going after another girl.....i no its sounds cheesy but all i want her to be is happy!........... so were both ok with the whole "other people" thing.. Life is good!!! x

i like this really hot girl who i am friends with. we are both bi and both know that. She has a boyfriend but keeps saying that he wont know what she gets up to with poeple coz he goes 2 a different school. She is very affectionate to people, and even though i was really friendly with her then lost contact and regained it now. she is always hugging me and playing with me (pretend fights) she constantly touches me (hey im not complaing, i like her!!.) shes a kissing-virgin and jokinly i told her that has 2 practice on a girl, she told me that she wants to kiss me. i told her that i would like 2 too and she said "well lets c what will hapen". I know she has a boyfriend but im getting very mixed signals from her, does she fancy me or is she playing with me? Im not looking for a relationship with her really, i just want to know what is goin on!! hehehe

hey, i kinda get it.....i herd summing bout this... when a women waches or thinks bout sex, even tho she is s8 she will get more aroused over a women getting pleasured than a man getting pleasure BECAUSE.. they can picture themselfs in that position(gettuin pleasure....and that turns people on!!! (if this isnt tru bout sum pple im sorry, wasnt me who sed it!!) so maby its the same with you. maby when you think about all that pleasure "that guy" is getting then u can c urself in that position?? sound to me like u culd b bi-curous.... but it couls also be just a pure fasinaton. dont worrie bout how ya feel, be happy