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  1. sometimes were just not in the mood, i can speak from personal experiance about guys getting all worked up beacuse i didnt want it. To be honest im not that into people pleasuring me as much as me pleasuring them, i would wait for her to start touching you ect and concentrate on kissing her gently and holding her
  2. i JUST went out and spent £20 on "toys" lol....... there really fun when alone and with your guy but... nothing is compared to the real thing!! x
  3. Ive just started up a nw relationship and me and my boyfriend arnt doing anything abnormal, sex isnt rough or unlubricated or he isnt too big, but sex is really really painful, espeshally afterwards. To be honest even fingering is quite painful (and im not like overly tight or anything) I really dont know whats rong, ive only had sex with one other person (in a 2 year relationship),.... we used condoms at the start but because we were both faithful and virgins, we didnt use them after a while. Sex was fine at first and then it had just become really sore Sorry about the detail here, but im really scared that i have a STI. argh... Does anyone else have sore-ness and even a little bleeding sometimes after sex, and if so why? Help please xxx
  4. she might just be curous of downloaded as a laugh. Am i the only one that does that!?!?! hehe! You could ask her about it but then she would know you had been looking at her computer. I would do this if i was you because it will really bug you otherwise x
  5. hehehe i like the way you put that,...and yeah thats a good piece of advice! Im make him wait a while! xx
  6. you might be being too rough. Fingers are alot more boney than other places! and yeah nails hurt too,.... make sure they are nicly trimmed, and go slowly, moving your fingers into a "come here" motion pointing upwards. Drives women crazy! and i personaly are WAY more likely to have an orgasm if the guy is really moving his hands slowly in the right place...mmm
  7. hehe i didnt read what i said very well. I ment i just like to feel connected physicaly as well as emotionaly... i think im just going to see him for about a month, kiss and have fun! then serously talk about it, eg. tests, protection ect.
  8. Ok so I met this guy on firday night (its tuesday now) and i we really "connect" and both really like each other (we are doing the whole are we arnt we together thing) since friday we have been like rolling around kissing for hours and stuff, but i really like this guy and we have both talked about how we feel like this could be something really good I have just come out of a almost 2 year relationship (arguing since march, split up in october!) and he was the only guy ive ever slept with (im 17). the guy i met on friday is quite a bit more experianced than me (hes 18). I really want to show him how much i like him and although i feel comfortable and respected, i feel bad for thinking about it so soon, esp after i have just come out of a relationship. I dont want to be like "someones number" so im a little confuzed as what to do! I know its soon but it feels 'right' now, i was just wondering how long we should wait before we have full sex? (even thought obvously he isnt pressuring me or anything Thank you for helping! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  9. i agree, telling her how you feel is fantastic.....! you dont have to sit her down and say "look i love you",.... make it natural and sweet, look deep into her eyes and tell her how you feel without the L word, and then casualy throw it in at the end! ..... if she picks up on it, it will prob be in a positive way Awww you two sound soooo cute, i LOVE cute stories like this x
  10. atkins is a no-go....im a vegetarian. lol, ok i will try those other suggestions, cheers x
  11. i went from no existant to 32DD after going on the pill......... i know how you feel as i had no boobs for AGES while everyone did. Try the pill if you that worried x
  12. i had that with my boyfriend....i dont know the answer really.... i was thinking i had some kind of infection but i dont. You just need to make sure your ready to have sex (physicaly "lubricated"
  13. woahhhh...... making out is literly the best thing in the world. sex is fantastic but nothing compares to rolling round in bed doing nothing but kissing... i couldnt go out with someone that didnt like it. Its so intimate and passionate and such a tease without having to do anything, its so safe and enjoyable and theres never enought time to kiss, theres so many ways of making out.....mmmmm i just love it!!!
  14. I am a self confessed sugar addict. I eat sugar all day and i crave it all day too. I never crave anything healthy (although i do eat healthy quite a bit) but i have decided i want to give up eating processed sugar but how help xxxxx
  15. About a year ago (to present day) i started to become totaly and utterly obssessed with my weight, i want to lose so much weight while my friends are telling me i look fine, starving myself until i pass out, counting calories obsessivly when i do eat, resricting food t 500 or less calories per day and SOMETIMES making myself throw up. i cant stop the binge/starve cycle really. anyway i dont think the media played a part in how i feel at all, i dont get the whole "thinpiration" thing to be honest, i dont really want to look like a walking twig but i dont want to be me, i want to lose weight so i have control over something in my life for once. Also i think it runs in the family because all the women on my mums side are terrified of fat and weighing too much ect. Please dont tell me to "go and get help" or "stop being so pathetic" or whatever, it wont work,....ive made this choice and i cant really help being who i am! x
  16. no its not me! and yeah.....as Luck of the Irish said its a medical thing, not something deodorants can cure. thanks for a little advice.
  17. A guy i know has a problem with excessive sweating (as in a medical condition, not just getting too hot!) and although he gets treatment for it im wondering if anyone has ever been/gone out with someone with this problem and if there are any troubles and ways around those problems. Thanks x
  18. ughh,.... tanning.... NO! i love my pale skin, almost corpse like LOL xx
  19. Yeah i agree, you shouldnt get involved with stuff you don understand and if im having to cut places i dont enjoy so people dont see it then obvously it aint for attention! I cut myself beacuse i am depressed, i hate myself and i cut myself to feel batter about that. i also starve myself. im basically not happy if im not in pain or in control. its just such a addiction, like if im feeling bad.... i will just cut instead of having a fag or whatever. What I dont understand is that its "acceptable" to go out and drink yourself half to death every weekend but so so bad if you make marks on your skin? * * *? Anyway,... i really love my scars in some sick way. x
  20. I love hurting myself, i love it SO much. The amount of pleasure i get from cutting myself is better than anything in my life at the moment, its serously the only thing i enjoy anymore. sometimes when im cutting i want to just drag the blade all over myself but cant beacuse i work in a pub serving food.....no one wants to be served by someone with cuts all up thier wrists. I hate it, being tied down! cutting anywhere apart from my arms doesnt give me the same feeling. I dont know what to do im sorry if this post is pointless i just have to get this feeling out!
  21. who would mind someone sayting that umm thanks..... i dont take complements very well.... comeone look at the size of that picture, but thankyouuu x
  22. I have to tell someone how i feel, i dont care how early it is, it messes with my mind if i dont. it hasnt really worked against me as most people are flattered and then see you in a different way and enjoy flirting with you.... even if nothing happens you had some fun flirting
  23. I have bright orange/red hair and people think you get loads of stick about it but i couldnt tell you its more different. Nearly everyone i meet says something about my hair in a positive way and i get people coming up to me in the stree/on busses saying "blah blah your hair is lovely"....its great. I am only allowed to say this and not be big headed because its not my true hair colour!! ..... yes i really do dye my hair ginger
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