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  1. Little English Bloke
    No i'm sorry no girl can make you shove them or grab,punch, kick or any thing else i have been hit, punched and smashed on the head with a frying pan by different girls and i have never raised a hand to them. You need to be very careful you are already saying you make him do it or it's your fault thats what all women say of domestic violence even when they have black eyes and broken ribs and even before they have been beaten to death. I dont want to worry you but come on a amn should never be physical with a women verbal ok sometimes our tongue can lash out but we shouldn't but physical no way never. Hope this helps you in some way take care be careful
  2. Little English Bloke
    i agree with the others don't reply to txts emails etc. I know it's hard but if he does call and you answer it try not let on you are scared as this is what they crave and it makes them feel big powerful men when they are just cowards. Also write down the date time of every time he txts, phones and emails you so the police can see, don't be afraid to ring the police they are there to help you so use them. No one deserves to be scared by another person. and especially not to the point of thinking of killing themselves to escape. I hope it all works out and you follow our advise i wish you all the best and hope you get the peace and happiness you deserve
  3. Little English Bloke
    I'd would like to say thankyou to everyone that gave their views in my last two posts. Anyway my partner is pregnant and had to go hospital coz she had a slight bleed every thing is fine now though. But it made me realise i do still love her and i want to be with her and my daughter and not coz of no blackmail or guilt reasons coz i really really love her and i was just being a * * * * expecting to have those same feelings you have when you first start dating and hey who really knows what this love word is coz i'm pretty sure it is what we have. So thankyou once again.
  4. Little English Bloke
    hi if they have thrown her out you can not been done for kidnap or anything else as long as you dont supply her drugs alcohol etc and you look after her and keep her safe.
  5. Little English Bloke
    wow its nice to see a young girl with her head screwed on. Well done you i hope you are very proud of yourself and hope you do well in life.
  6. Little English Bloke
    you are having to deal with so much, you sound very bright and are very good looking the last thing you need is a dead beat around you with every thing that is going on in your life you need someone who is gonna be strong and supportive not someone that is constantly drunk, tell him in a public place and if he becomes violent ring the police if he comes round you house don't open the door tell him to go and leave you alone if he continues write it all done and ring the police it will be tough but be strong i'm sure we are all here when you need to talk.
  7. Little English Bloke
    well thankyou all for your advise have alot to think about before making any choices. I actually came from a broken home but still see both my parents and love them dearly. Any way cheers
  8. Little English Bloke
    hi, quick recap i with been with my partner 3years and have the most beautiful 2 year old daughter. I still love my partner i'm just not in love with here any more, so i made my mind up to leave which i was planning on doing. I told here last week i wasn't in love with her and she took it quite bad asking me to stay and on friday she tells me she is pregnant wow, complete and utter shock is one way of putting it, but now i just can't leave it was bad enough thinking about having to walk out on one child, is it that bad to stay if i'm not in love with her, i still care very much for her and we dont argue or any thing, maybe its just me, i'm sooo confused my head is hurting. All comments welcome good and bad. Thanks
  9. Little English Bloke
    men and flirting is like apples on an apple tree it comes naturally i am and probably always will be a major flirt but thats all. Every partner i have been with has known it but i've never cheated on any of them, generally most of the numbers and people i have in my phone book are female i just love the feeling of flirting it makes you feel attractive and the other person why personal oppinon is its a bit of harmless fun. I have never minded when girlfriends have flirted. I hope this helps in some way.
  10. Little English Bloke
    maybe its a commitment issue, maybe he does like you but its out of his comfort zone because he has never felt this way about any one else, then again he might just not want a relationship. I think the best thing to do would probably be next time you go out make sure there is lots of alcohol then bring it up men can not control their feelings when merry and are also really crap at keeping how we feel to ourselves after a few drinks. At least your know one way or the other
  11. Little English Bloke
    firstly well done you for seeking proffesional help. It must have been scary for both of you but for some reason us men can't deal with certain things and we can often think that it is our fault even when its not read my post confused it might help a little. if he is not answering his phone write a letter explaining everything from how you felt at the time to how you feel now at least that way everything will come out right and it doesn't matter how many times you write it the final copy will say everything you need it to and also it will give him time to read it over and over again until he feels ready to talk without feeling pressured. Hope this is of some help to you take care and keep smiling.
  12. Little English Bloke
    hi, There is a number of reasons we do it, none of them actually good enough but here we go. Just for fun we never really grow up we still think we are 16 and just discovered alcohol. Sometimes because we don't like have to deal with emotion in relationships that scares us. Maybe just to a night or two away from our partner (this can make your relationship stronger). At the end of the day unfortunately boys will be boys and without our friends around we are sad. Hope this can help in some way just to understand. But maybe you should talk to him and ask if you can do something together one night in the week as well as your felling a little bit left out.
  13. Little English Bloke
    hi, one thing if you send that email men do not like being told all that all at once its too much for us no matter how nice we are, how sensitive we are, things like that make us feel like we are being pressured into things, but if you actually tell him Look i think we should give it another shot then wait for a response it will either be a yes or a no, keep it short and sweet our brains can not cope with too much emotion. Hope this helps a little.
  14. Little English Bloke
    get out and start afresh before its too late you said he doesn't care about you so go now. You already left everything and one you cared about and that cared about you so leaving some one who doesn't care about you should be a bit easier
  15. Little English Bloke
    caring about someone doesnt mean you want to be with them trust me i know read my one and you will see. You can care about someone and not love them but still want to protect them and make sure they are ok. But dont cheat break the relationship off cheating is never the answer to anything it just involves lying and mis-trust
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